I lost of friend here at myLot and I miss them!! :(

Hi Pot i wonder who have nerves to delete u from their Friends list, but if they did, i wonder why u want to be there again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! well, i never knew if some one deleted me from their list, i wonder if u get notification if some one delleted u from their list???? However if u miss them, i hope they will be reading it and add u again Wish u all the Best Take care

I have never noticed if I have been deleted as friend. I do sometimes notice if after a few weeks if one one my friends have not been around much but they have just not logged in for a while. I do not PM too many of the people on my friends list so I honestly would not notice if they had deleted me and if they had then they must have had their reasons and that would be fine with me.

no not anyone I was particularly close to removed me, but I did lose friends who just do not come back here anymore though.

Well I haven't dealt with this yet. But I must say that it maybe because you didn't response to there threads or rather discussions. But if you did than I dont' understand why they deleted you off there list. All i can say is don't be sad and just not worry about them. And enjoy making new friends and learning other new and different things on mylot. There's so many different topics you can never get bored or even not have enough friends. So don't worry about it and have some fun mylotting!

I don't really know. I do not keep that close enough attention to who is my friend or not. Ones who post a lot, like you, I would probably miss, but I have not lost anyone like that and I never check.

i dont think so since i havent noticed it but i have a lot of friends so if i did they must not have been a good enough friend that i interacted with to remember them

i can understand your feelings.even i would feel low but something good will turn out from it.happy mylotting.

i do not remember. it may be some has deleted me from list. I have not noticed that. I do not know why they have deleted you.

It may have been an accident. I was going thru my friend list a couple of weeks ago and found about 50 who were no longer active (over 6 months) so I deleted them all. I accidentally deleted one, misread it as a similar name and didn't catch it until they sent me another add request. I felt bad but explained that it was an accident and now we're buddies again. Hopefully that's all it was in your situation.

Not that I know of....I have friends that have dropped out..and once in a while show up again but no one that I know that has deleted me.....Hope you work it out!

Hello makingpots. I am sorry that you had such an experience to get removed from their friend list. But I am happy to tell you that you will always be on my friend list because like you I also miss my friends on my friend list in the hope that they appear as often as possible at Mylot. Take care, friend.

makingpots, First of all, are they still active members still? I suppose they will be automatically removed if they are no longer in myLot. The next thing I could think would happen is they might have accidentally removed you instead of someone else. So, in all, just don't be so mindful and I am sure they would come to a realization of their error one day. I am sure of it. Take care.

Luckily I haven't had that happen.....yet.

I can imagine how that must feel. hopeless? loseing any type of connection with a good friend hurts. have you messaged them? I hope all works out for you. :]

To my knowledge only one person has ever deliberately removed me. She decided that she didn't like me anymore and that was that. I have had many friends leave the site, sometimes saying that they'll be back, but then disappearing. My closest myLot friends, both current and past, I have E mail addresses for, and usually communicate with them at least every couple of weeks or so. I talk to one on Skype webcam daily, others weekly, IM and the telephone. I have their home addresses too so if all else fails I can always go and find them! I have one friend who I don't see any longer and I very much regret that. She went off to write reviews of bacon and hairdryers. I've half-heartedly looked but not found her, and I would hate for her to think me a stalker!

Sorry to hear that, I don't understand why does he has to remove you in his friends list, you can reconcile though with this person by maybe sending him/her a message somewhere, pm maybe. No worries anyway, there are a lot of us here to be your friend, count me one as well.

I know how you feel and i understand. It has happened to me but not here on mylot. It was on another site, i know this friend deliberately deleted me. I was a little heart broken because i really wanted to make friends and not lose them. I don't know the reasons behind it but i am glad that i left that site and came here to mylot because friends here are much friendlier and i enjoy the interaction.Thanks.

Yes. And it does feel like a letdown. I mean, I haven't met her but we were exchanging replies after the other. I think she got disillusioned with myLot and certain discussions and just went AWOL on everyone. Last time I check, she hasn't been to myLot for a month or so now.

maybe this friend does not know you were removed from there friend list .is there any way you can send a message out there to try and find them?i am sure they would want you back as a friend. is there some thing we can do to help you find them?

aww that sux