Do you or have you picked up a hitch hiker?

@JenInTN (27514)
United States
December 29, 2008 8:08pm CST
I see people hitch hiking from time to time and always consider giving them a ride. I never do because of the danger of doing so. I watched on the news a couple of years ago that someone stopped to pick up a lady and a couple of kids and two guys jumped out of the ditch and robbed the good samaritan. I hate to see someone down on their luck. I know someone though that stops and picks them up all the time. What about you? Got a story about having done it?
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@mnflower (1299)
• United States
30 Dec 08
Yes I did but just once and will never do it again, once he got into the car good thing I was not alone he was a escapee from a mental ward, we just drove him where he wanted to go and then left in a hurry, went and got ahold of the cops and let them know where we dropped him off, it was so scary.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Dec 08
A mental ward! See...that would be my luck! Thanks goodness you had someone with you and that your ok. Thanks for responding.
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• Australia
30 Dec 08
You know, it's a funny thing but every case I have ever heard of of bad things happening involving hitchhikers, it's been the hitchhiker who was the victim. I'm quite serious in that statement. I imagine the reverse has happened, but I have never heard of it, nor do I remember ever reading or seeing a news story about it. The other funny thing I noticed, back in the days when I did a lot of hitchhiking myself, whenever something bad happened, like a hitchhiker getting raped and killed, people would stop picking up hitchhikers. It made hitching herrendously difficult. But when you asked people why, they would tell you that it was dangerous to pick up hitchhikers. Yes indeed, for the hitchhikers. By the way, this is my 1000th post. Your discussion has the distinction of birthing my new milestone lol. Lash
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@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
30 Dec 08
That is a very good point. It seems quite odd to stop picking people up because they were being victims unless the driver was worried they might get blamed if something happened. I am just glad that some people do stop and help others. I remember being stuck on a lonely country road once with a mobile phone that had no coverage so we could not call anyone. I was worried we could be there forever but a nice couple stopped and helped us. Not quite hitch hiking but similar in that it is connecting with total strangers on the road.
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• Australia
1 Jan 09
From Wikipedia, Hitchhiking, article 47761 [b]There have been very few efforts to objectively study the safety of hitchhiking. Two notable efforts include: California Crimes and Accidents Assciated with Hitchhiking, Operational Analysis Section, California Highway Patrol (CHP), 1974 Conclusion: the results of this study do not show that hitchhikers are over-represented in crimes or accidents beyond their numbers. When considering statistics for all crimes and accidents in California, it appears that hitchhikers make a minor contribution. Anhalterwesen und Anhaltergefahren, BKA-Forschungsreihe, Sonderband, Wiesbaden, 1989 Conclusion: The current study has demonstrated, that the potential danger while hitchhiking is significantly lower than it is estimated to be and therefore the sharing of rides by and with strangers can very well be included in transport planning. Neither work was highly publicized. The authors of the German study, easily the most recent and comprehensive study suggest very real efforts to suppress and discredit their results. Such is the apparent strength of the conviction that hitchhiking must be unsafe, that objective evidence is anything but popularized and lauded. In summary: there is a dominant belief that hitchhiking is dangerous, but every effort to find actual evidence of this danger objectively has been unable to do so. [/b] I rest my case: the fears of the dangers of hitchhiking are grossly overdone. Lash
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Dec 08
Heyya grandpa_lash..Thanks for mixing things up a bit. As it should be on your 1000th post. Hitch hiking can be just as dangerous as picking one up. I to have heard storys about that. Thanks for responding and congrats on your milestone!
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@annjilena (5618)
• United States
30 Dec 08
i tried to one time and she was with her boyfriend and when he saw i was black he did not want a ride so she did not ride and she was my friend.i don,t pick up hitch hikers at all it,s to dangerous to do that these days
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Dec 08
Oh well annjilena...better he walk then. It is very dangerous to pick up strangers. Thanks for responding.
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@marcialoyd (1173)
• United States
30 Dec 08
I have done this once and I will never do it again.Myself and my roommate picked this girl and we realized that she had us going into a VERY bad part of town. When we got there and dropped her off two big ole guys started running towards our car. My roommate hurridley locked the doors and we took off. Scared the living daylights out of me.
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@nanajanet (4436)
• United States
30 Dec 08
Never, well never anyone that I did not know. A few times I saw some people I know walking in bad weather and offered them rides but even the nicest looking person could be a killer. If someone really needs a ride, call a cab. If you are broke, there are places to go to help. I hate to sound cruel, but my life is worth a lot to me.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Dec 08
Hi nanajanet..I have a lot to live for too. I feel bad to leave someone on the side of the street but I'm not willing to risk my life. Thanks for responding.
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• United States
30 Dec 08
JenInTN, Well, I responded with a long comment but something happened and it was lost. So let me see if I can restate it. It has been many years since I picked up a hitch-hiker. Last year I gave a lady a ride to work because it was raining "cats-n-dogs" and year before that I gave a man a ride because he was walking into town (which was about 10 miles away) because his car broke down. Come to find out he lived close to me. It is sad the our society has changed so much that people are not safe to pick-up someone. Whether it be the fear for the hitcher or the fear of the driver being harmed. Times have changed ... I guess the last time I can recall it being safe was about 23+ years ago.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Dec 08
Hi buttercup....it is such a shame we are afraid to help our fellow man. I am the type of person that hates to see people in hard times and would love to lend a helping hand when I'm able but society has made me afraid to do this where hitch hikers are concerned. Thanks for the response.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
30 Dec 08
Once I allowed a person as I was returning with my family from my cousin's place.It was a man with another one waiting fro the bus.As he waved I just stopped the car to know that one of them is in deep agony with stomach ache.I some how managed to accommodate them in my car to the nest town hospital which was only fifteen minutes away.Usually I am very careful about giving lift t the hitchhikers.But the pain on the face of that man made me stop.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
30 Dec 08
Thanks for the appreciation Jen.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Dec 08
Hi balasri! You may have saved a life. I guess if I could tell something like that I would be inclined to stop.Thanks for responding.
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@oldboy46 (2129)
• Australia
30 Dec 08
A long long time ago, yes I did on two separate occassions back in the late 1960's in fact. In those days it was generally considered to be fairly safe to pick up hitch hikers, at least here in Australia it was. Also it was gnerally accepted that it was safe to pick up anyone who was in the military. They could easily be identified by their kit bags and caps which were strapped to the side of the kit bag. So both the hitch hikers I picked up were serving military personnel going ion weekend leave. Even though I drive a lot of kilometers every week I would no longer pick up a hitch hiker, regardless of what sort of bag they had! There are a couple of reasons really and one is that when I am working I have a responsibility to my employer and it is his truck that I am driving. Once I get in that truck I am responsible for the load on the truck trailers so I take no risks at all. Plus we are banned from giving lifts to anyone without specific permission of the depot manager. In fact sometimes my partner comes to where I collect the truck and then back home with me if my trip is in that direction. For her to be in the truck I have to first contact the manager for his permission and although it is always given, it is company policy that I check first. Even when I am driving my own vehicle I do not pick up hitch hikers. It is an unfortunate fact of life that there are some undesirables out there and I have no intention of putting my life and/or health at risk for someone who might decide they need my car or money or whatever more than I do. More than one decent person has been injured when they have stopped to give someone a lift, so that is a chance that I am not prepared to take.
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@oldboy46 (2129)
• Australia
31 Dec 08
It is unfortunate in many ways that we do not feel comfortable or secure enough to give a lift to a hitch hiker, but that is the way of the world today. Often there are hitch hikers at or near the truck stops where truckies stop for food and drink and perhaps to refuel. Some of the truckdrivers do give them a lift but as I said it is against compoany policy for me to do so anyway. But I am not really inclined to take such risks. Yes we do hear of innocent people who have given a hitch hiker a lift out of the goodness of their heart being harmed or the truck stolen or whatever. In a couple of instances here in Australia a few years ago, a truck and the driver simply disappeared and heve never been located. Another case was where the truck was found several months after it disappeared but the driver has never been found.
@oldboy46 (2129)
• Australia
12 Jan 09
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Thanks very much for giving me best response Jen and I do appreciate it but have to admit that I picked up a hitch hiker the other day. Not a human one but rather a lizard which somehow got into the truck.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Dec 08
I can under stand your reasons for not doing it any more. I remember a time when it would have been considered a kindness rather than a chance too. There are so many stories you hear about innocent people trying to help someone out and they get robbed or murdered. I hate blowing on by but like you..it's to much of a chance now. Thanks for the response.
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@eaforeman6 (8979)
• United States
30 Dec 08
I dont do it and I dont drive as much anymore either. I have cut way back on the time that I am on the roads. I dont ever see any really because I dont drive far enough or stay out there long enough. I think its just very dangerous and it dosent matter what gender, its just not safe....
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Dec 08
Hiya eaforeman..I agree.. anyone can be dangerous. You just never know. Thanks for the response.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
30 Dec 08
Yes, I also do not offer any hitch ride, if am driving my vehcile, even if it is asked for. Such is the enviornment now a days in big Metro cities, one never knows who is a genuine person and who is not. Therefore, it is better to be safe than feel sorry later. I may be having noble intentions of helping someone, however, the other fellow may not be having noble intentions like me.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
30 Dec 08
Yes, I agree with you, you and I hold the same opinion.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Dec 08
hi dpk..I know what you mean. You can never tell what a persons intentions are. Better safe than sorry. Thanks
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@AnakSuNamun (2084)
• United States
30 Dec 08
I would like to but I don't like to be distracted when I drive and being stabbed in the back might be a real distraction... Seriously,I just might one day but if someone offered me a ride I'd politely say no and hurry away
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Dec 08
Being stabbed in the back cou;d be very distracting....lol....I know what you mean. I want to stop sometimes but it's just to dangerous.
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@apples99 (6556)
• United States
30 Dec 08
No because its just not safe these but its good that you care about people I to care a lot about people but sometimes we have to think of our own safty because we just never know who sincerely needs help or who may just want to pray on our kindness and so far I dont have any hitch hiker story's to tell but anyway I think its best not to pick up hitch hikers its better to be safe then sorry. Well happy posting.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
31 Dec 08
It is good to care about people and it's such a shame you have to worry about people that will pray on the kindness of others. Thank you for responding apples.
@vanonas (949)
• United States
30 Dec 08
I've only seen people try to hitchhike once and it was at the College of William and Mary. It was strange because they were asking me to stop and then asked if they could get a ride across campus. It was really strange, but a lot of people were doing it. I said no because taking a stranger into my car scares me. Especially since I'm a girl. I don't think I'd ever pick up a hitchhiker because movies always portray them as murderers or something. And I would never hitchhike because I could get murdered. Haha
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
31 Dec 08
I've seen some pretty graphic movies about hitchhikers too. As well as people needing a ride. It can make you all the more cautious when you see stuff like that.Thank you vanonas.
• United States
30 Dec 08
I have encountered two of such instances. We got our first car only this August. Before that we were using the VTA for all transport. So, one winter afternoon when we were waiting for our bus ride, a lady pulled over in a very worn out car and asked us if there were any Pawn shops nearby. We said no. Then she offered us a ride but we declined politely...you never when someone may invite you in and then rob you! Second instance happened yesterday when we were vacationing in Tahoe. A very tacily dressed lady when a bright red lipstick requested us for a ride in the evening when we were returning after our skii practise and we said we are going in the opposite dircetion..I had a very bad feeling baout her...so we declined. I don't think I will ever go for a hitch hike or pick up someone...I am quite cautious and skeptical...moreover if the guys value their lives , family and safety, they will most likely call a cab or friend or take a bus. :)
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Dec 08
Thanks for sharing rashmi. In this day and time it is very important to be cautious.If there's any way I can avoid it..I won't take a ride from a stranger either. I've been temted to give a ride or to but I chickened out.
@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
30 Dec 08
When I was a single girl I did not but then I never saw any hitch hikers in the city wanting a lift and I rarely drove in the country on my own. I did not trust male hitch hikers and I never saw a female one. However, when I was with my partner we picked a guy up once. He seemed a nice guy and we gave him a lift to where he wanted to go.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Dec 08
That was very nice of you and your partner. I guess I would feel better if I had someone that made me feel safe. Sometimes people just need a helping hand. Thanks for responding Sharra
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
30 Dec 08
i have picked up people a very long time ago but i wouldn't do it now. the last time i picked up anyone was a couple i recognized from here that had car trouble right outside of town.i didn't know them but knew they were from here. it's too dangerous now but u do fill odd seeing someone in trouble & not helping.i didn't usually pick uo people just hitchiking but i always felt bad about passing them up.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Dec 08
Hi jo! I know what you mean. Even though I know the dangers I always feel a little bad when I pass someone by. Thanks for responding.
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@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
3 Jan 09
Several times in the past I have picked up hitch hikers. I have to admit that I did not pick up all hitch hikers because at times I was travelling too fast to stop in time. Before I had a car I used to get lifts from total strangers even though I did not ask for any. So the acts were considered to be as a repayment to society. There were cases of fake hitch hikers and broken down vehicles in my country. In certain cases I relied on my gut instinct. all the best, rosdimy
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
3 Jan 09
Hi rosdimy! I believe wholeheartedly in following one's instincts. I can truely relate to paying back a debt to society too. I must say I have always wanted to lend a helping hand but have never felt comfortable enough to do it. Thanks for responding.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
30 Dec 08
When I was young and stupid I did this a couple of times, I don't anymore. I have always tried to be kind and giving but I just have to admit to being rules by fear in this case. I hate that because I think fear causes much of the evil in this world.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Dec 08
I am ruled by fear on this issue to. I hate that because I hate the thought of leaving a good person on the road. It's just such a big chance. Thanks for responding.
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@fasttalker (2796)
• United States
30 Dec 08
I used to pick them up several years ago but not anymore. I am a chicken! LOL The last time I picked someone up it was a young girl and I had seen her car sitting on the side of the road a few miles back and I assesed the situation...I figured I could take her if she tried anything stupid! LOL So I did give her a ride to the next town. LOL
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Dec 08
lol...I'm a chicken too...only problem is I'm kinda small so I'm not so sure about being able to take someone until it's already done..lol Thanks for responding.
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@fga2008 (38)
• Saudi Arabia
30 Dec 08
Hi there! For me, I think I will not give them a hitch-ride for security reasons. You don't know what will happen next. Some people are unpredictable, they are dangerous and they might harm you on the way. Better safe than feel sorry for your kindness. "Safety first" as the saying goes. Safety for yourself and for your companions. Have a nice day.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Dec 08
hi fga...Good advice. Thank you for your response. Happy mylotting.