Naughty or Nice??

yes i have also heard about this, that husbands tend to expect their wives to be nice, serious, prim and proper. but you know what, me and my husband totally disagree with that. there are times that i will be serious and nice like every model wives should be, but in private, when me and my husband are all alone, we get naughty too. it is something i will not forego. i still tease him with lingerie and all, and he likes it. most of the time i surprise him with some naughty activities. this is one way to keep the romance and fire alive. i act like a mistress to him. but hey, that's when we are alone. if we are in public, we act prim and proper.

I think you should sit down with your husband and talk to him, voice your concerns. My hubby and I sat down and had a heart to heart and I was amazed at his thought processes on something, they were so different from mine and very different from what I was expecting him to say. People do change over time and their needs and desires change too, but that doesn't mean that you can't make your relationship great for both of you. I think the key to any relationship is open lines of communications, especially in regards to the more intimate side of our spousal relationships. If you don't have those open lines, you can't just look at him and say, "Hey you know what would be hot" or "Hey you know what really turns me on" and he also can't share what he's thinking with you. We have had our share of problems and and some of them have been doozies but we have always tried to have a give and take in the bedroom so that way we both feel like we have gotten what we need. I have never been afraid or embarassed to say I want to do this or try that. I think you have to work out a balance

I guess this never applied to me and my husband, because when we get the chance to try new things we are. When we first got together we never really went outside of our element, we stayed in that comfort zone, and now he's always asking if i'd do this, or that... we are honest and open with each other and i think that seems to help. We try new things together. I think some men seem to show that they want their wife to be prim and proper, but they are secretly wanting them to just loosen up and get crazy... lol...

I don't think so. Sometimes, men doesn't want their to change and remain like they when first met. We always want to have some unusual stuff to break the monotony.