Do you regret anything from your past?
By the_dutchess
@the_dutchess (2610)
Philippines
30 responses
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
18 Feb 09
hmmmm this is hard. as you know what happened with my past.... i can not say that i regret it for i have four lovely children. i can not say that i did not regret it for it was a disaster. it is still painful to my heart everytime i think of what was the life i had during the days that i was with him. i completely moved on already but once i touched the scars the pain is still there.
@the_dutchess (2610)
• Philippines
18 Feb 09
It was really a traumatic experience for you but yes, I think you should never regret it, for you have your kids and they are all blessings to you. I guess that think of it as something not to look back to so that you will never have to feel the pain anymore.
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
19 Feb 09
well you have apoint on not regreting it, i became a better person. i appreciated life more and i loved my children more. i know they loved me more because mainly on bring them than leaving them behind. i can say that i am their hero and they are my heroes as well. maybe it is not regret what i feel maybe its just mainly panghihinayang. it was very painful to realize the person you love can be your enemy.
@LaurenInLA (2270)
• United States
18 Feb 09
I think that we all have regrets but it's only by making mistakes that we learn and grow. I remember when I was a teenager and there was no adult who knew anything more than I did. I had to stumble and find my way. I see many younger people making the same mistakes that I did but you really can't tell anyone anything. We each have to learn on our own, don't we?
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@the_dutchess (2610)
• Philippines
18 Feb 09
Yeah, I guess you're right. We all have regrets in our past. We just can't help but make mistakes sometimes and all we need to do is figure out what went wrong and learn from that, you know, make a learning experience. Thanks for those kind words.
@totallyundecided (3190)
• Philippines
18 Feb 09
i have so many things that i am not proud of with my past. most of it consist of the memories that i have hurt people.
but i know it's bound to happen.
we can never grow maturely if it weren't for those mistakes. and i know there are some nights in where i wish that i could turn back time and redo all the things i;'ve done.
but life always moves on. =) whenever i am reminded by those hurts, all i know is that God has forgiven and i know in my heart that i have forgiven myself too as i have asked forgiveness from those i have hurt. =)
=)
@nanajanet (4436)
• United States
18 Feb 09
It is odd that you brought this up because I was thinking of regrets when I was driving to work tonight. My thoughts on regrets... they are like poop, they stink and should be disposed of quickly... meaning, what's done is done and the only thing we can do from past experiences is learn from them, just as you state.
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
18 Feb 09
I regret not going to University and getting married way too young and to the wrong person! If those two incidents had not occurred my life would have been quite different, I'm sure.
I have a much happier life now but if I had made different choices to begin with I would have saved myself a lot of pain.
I have to wonder though would I be the same person if I had not learned my lessons the hard way?
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@sunil_008 (1269)
• India
18 Feb 09
yes that's true weall learn from our past mistakes...and also should move forward...that's what life teaches us...those who stays there,others levae them behind as noone has time to stop...but i think we all are moving in a circular way...that's why they say what goes around comes around...well i am sure you haven't done any mistakes which have costed you a fortune... :)
@k1tten (2318)
• United States
18 Feb 09
What I regret from my past is cheating on my partner. It was the most stupid thing I had ever done in my life and I've done quite a few stupid things. I'm thankful that my partner forgave me though and I have learned quite a few things from that mistake. It made me a better person and a more attentive partner.
@the_dutchess (2610)
• Philippines
18 Feb 09
It was something really to regret for but a learning experience also. I'm glad that things turn out well and that you have a very kind and forgiving partner. I wish you two all the best
@ericajoyce (1746)
• Philippines
18 Feb 09
Hello the_dutchess. I know that all of us has made mistakes in the past and regreted doing it. I have a lot of things that I regret doing. I learned a lot from my mistakes and as much as possible avoid doing them again.
@the_dutchess (2610)
• Philippines
18 Feb 09
Hi ericajoyce! Thanks for responding to my discussion and you're absolutely right about that. I guess all have us have regrets
@sisco100 (2338)
• United States
19 Feb 09
i really dont regret any thing that i've done in the past. theres a reason that they call it the past. its pointless to worry about the things that you cant change. all you can do is learn form them so that you dont make them again. ya there are things that i've done that i wish i hadnt have done, but i just think of it as a learning experance in life.
@BeckyAnn (265)
• United States
18 Feb 09
I'm young, I know. That doesn't give me a lot of credibility in a lot of subjects. But Still, I've realized this about life: You are who you are because of what you go through. I try to live right, but now, I know I've done those dreaded
STUPID THINGS.
Like fighting in school, bad cash decisions...etc. But I don't really regret it. I never really regret the things I do. I take them and learn from them, and I think that's best. It reduces the stress you put on yourself.
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@KaniaHara2010 (250)
• United States
18 Feb 09
Honestly, no. Regret doesn't really do any good. You can't change the past. Sure, you can learn from your mistakes, but all the regret in the world won't fix anything.
@the_dutchess (2610)
• Philippines
18 Feb 09
As for me, I regret some 'cause I'm thinking that I could have done better or I could have gone the other way around but that is not really a big deal for me. I regret things but it's a learning experience for me. I stay focus on what I have learned and try not to do the same mistakes again.
@jonny3hats (31)
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19 Feb 09
i regret gettin fat when i was younger, it ruined my social life at the time, i managed to loose the weight in about a year and it was really easy so i dont know why i didnt do it before now im fit as a fiddle and regularley go running
@mystic888soul (390)
• Philippines
1 Mar 09
yes, i do regret some of the things i have done in my past..i wish i never did such things..but then it's over so the only thing i can do now is to learn from those things and not to do it anymore..
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
18 Feb 09
There is nothing about my past that I regret. I have learned so much from the mistakes I have made and heartaches that I have had. They have helped shape who I am so why should I regret it?
@derek_a (10874)
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18 Feb 09
I think most of us regrets things from our past, but being past there is nothing we can do about it - meaning it cannot be undone. We have a choice though - we can let it go, maybe forgive ourselves or others for what happens, and if we can manage to do this, we will move on and cease being victims of our own karma. :-) Derek
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Feb 09
There are some things in the past that i wish i did not do.. but those things also are the ones brought me where I am now. I can call it Blessing in disguise. Sometimes we don;t understand that things happened with a purpose. Though I regret but then I would just think it positively that things has it's purpose.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
19 Feb 09
As much as the things I 'regret'/ want to forget make me want to puke, I feel the lessons I learned from them are so important to me now that I wouldn't change my life if I ever had the chance. I feel like we make mistakes for a reason, we are born dumb and life teaches us things to survive.
@eabaterina (501)
• Philippines
19 Feb 09
yes, i regretted my first relationship hahaha. if i could undo something in the past that would be not going into the relationship with my first boyfriend. i feel that i was so stupid before, falling for that jerk, he is not even good looking what the hell did i see in that jerk. after like 5 months, he ditched me for a schoolmate. it was a long distance relationship so we did not spend a lot of time together. i have met his family though and i thought he was serious, duh what a big joke that was. hahaha obviously i have not forgiven him for ditching me. but its okay that we broke up. after 3 yrs, he ditched the girl for another girl so its better for me that i only invested 5 months in him while the other girl invested 3 yrs of her time for that jerk. hahaha, am i so bad not being able to forgive him, i just could not bring myself to forgive him, maybe in time, but not now haha.