what to do if your manager doesnt accept resignation?
By gayathrigs
@gayathrigs (871)
India
March 13, 2009 9:57am CST
In my company they are not accepting resignations at all now, they are saying we are not accepting any resignations whatever may be the reason, what should I do? I am earning less in my present job and want to move for change? I am really feeling like a caged bird now in my office and want to quit it seriously. what should I do? can anyone help me out giving me a nice solution? I am working in a night shift job, which is a calling job, where you receive calls all night and you have to resolve customer queries all night. please help me out with ideas.
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18 responses
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
13 Mar 09
I never quite understood the whole concept of a manager "not accepting resignations"...If I were going to quit, I wouldn't give a rat's furry a$$ if they accepted my resignation or not. I would just give them a date and let them know that it would be my last day. I would then clean out my office on that day and leave. After that, they would be on their own whether they accepted my resignation or not...
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@gayathrigs (871)
• India
13 Mar 09
but the main thing is , how to get a job without resignation letter? i also want to leave the same way but how to get other job with good pay?
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@benny128 (3615)
•
13 Mar 09
just send a letter giving them plenty of time before your last day most companies will have someone above your manager or a hr department send it there, if your manager is being obstructive.
They cant stop you leaving and here in uk not sure if its same where you live they cant give you a bad reference for just ending your employment with them.
Its your job aslong as you dont break your terms in your contract with them and give them your notice period then theres nothing they can do and just be honest with future employers if it really wont affect your chances of finding future work
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@ShellyB (5241)
• United States
13 Mar 09
I needed to see where you are from to try and give you some good advice.
I am not sure why your company is not accepting resignations, I would however pick up another course on the day time or whenever you can so you can be ready when you can quit your job and get something better than what you even thought.
If jobs are not as many as in the usa, I would just count my blessings you know.
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@gayathrigs (871)
• India
13 Mar 09
Hey dear , I am from India and i dont know whats the reason for my manager not to accept resignations, how can i get better salary if my manager doesnt accept my resignation? i am feeling like a caged person here in the present job. thanks for your response.
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@nekonyanta (892)
• Philippines
13 Mar 09
Well, my friend, we seem to be having the same problem right now and I sympathize with the "caged bird" feeling. I'm actually no longer happy with my current work these days to the point that I'm seriously considering resigning. The most daunting problem though is whether my boss would allow me to resign or not. Though I read somewhere that employers can't actually prevent their employees from leaving when they want to as that would constitute involuntary servitude which is unconstitutional (though don't quote me on that *lol*). So yeah... Good luck to the both of us.
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@jralivio511 (480)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
Your manager is unreasonable. That is against the labor code. You can ask for help from the Labor Department in your country if you think that your reason for living the company is reasonable.
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@gayathrigs (871)
• India
14 Mar 09
i am thinking of telling my manager once again on this monday and see as to what happens, thanks a lot for your response.
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@gayathrigs (871)
• India
13 Mar 09
they cant stop me dear, but the main thing is I wont get any kind of resignation acceptance letter right? how can I get that when they are not wiling to accept my resignation, and as i said in my previous discussion they are asking to stop coming and get absconded ourselves, how can i get good pay if i dont have relieving letter? what should i do? please suggest me, i do have my pay slips with me.
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@sedeta (19)
• Philippines
15 Mar 09
I think your manager is also trying to say that you should think about it first. Many people are craving to have a job and he might think that it is also for you. You can also consider yourself worthy of the job because of your performance. Well, maybe you are nominated to be promoted, and you need to check it. But in case you've really decided, talk to him seriously that you really dont want the job anymore and you are not really not enjoying it. Tell him also that your lack of interest might affect the performance of the company ^_^
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@gayathrigs (871)
• India
15 Mar 09
Though he does try to make me to sit in the same company i must also be interested right, i am thinking of putting down my papers on monday, let us see what happens. thanks for your response.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
14 Mar 09
it sounds really weird to me... why would your manager will not accept any resignations at all??? have you ask him/her for the reasons??? i think the company can't force to keep you if you didn't want to work there anymore... but now is a recession time and it is hard to find a job... a slightly less paid job is still much better rather than being jobless... that's what i thought... good luck... hope everything will go well for you... take care and have a nice day...
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@gayathrigs (871)
• India
14 Mar 09
thats what i am also thnking alot dear friend, let me see what happens further.
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@meljessxena (2315)
• Australia
14 Mar 09
oh wow, i didnt know managers could do such a thing and not accept resignations. i think you would be able to take the issue further, (department of fair trading) ?maybe
i know if a company really doesnt want to let u go, you should be able to work something out with them, change of hours, or pay rate etc. there would have to be a reason why they arent accepting people and they should have to explain why.
sorry im not really any help.. but i hope you work things out.
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@gayathrigs (871)
• India
14 Mar 09
they are not interested to change my shift timings, to change the pay scale, the only thing they are stressing is work work and work. i really get irritated now even to step into the office dear, anyways, thanks a lot for your response.
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@headhunter525 (3548)
• India
13 Mar 09
Can't you just stop reporting for work. What will he do then? I am sure he won't come to your place to drag you out. But with this recession do you think it is wise to change job?
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@miamilady (4910)
• United States
14 Mar 09
I know things are very different in India than in the US. I don't know how things work in the professional world there. I'll make a suggestion based on my experience here and you can decide if it would work where you live...
First, you need to figure out if you can afford to be without work for a few months. Even if you think you can afford it, I would still suggest that you find a replacement job BEFORe you quit your current job.
Is the job that you are in now, the first job you've ever had? If it is not, then you could use recommendations from a previous job, instead of the one you are in now.
I don't think you should need an "acceptance of resignation" in order to get another job. What should be most important is to demonstrate that you are qualified to do the work of the job you are applying for.
If they want to know why you left the previous job, tell them the truth.
You want to earn more money and you want a job that is more challenging!
In the US those reasons are admirable. Wanting to improve your life by moving up in the word is considered a good thing here. I would think that would be an admirable quality in ANY country. But I know that cultures vary greatly and I could be wrong about what business owners are looking for in India.
Good luck, I hope this helps you.
@gayathrigs (871)
• India
14 Mar 09
yes, thanks for your suggestions dear friend, i really want to get myself liberated from the present job, you know what, they are coming up with new rules every day and really making life miserable for us. i am no more interested.
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@hiddenwing (3719)
• China
14 Mar 09
It is not up to the manager, I guess! If you wanna leave, you should leave! Who bother caring about him or her! Maybe you sort of some difficulties that you don't feel like mentioning! Well, in my culutre, the manager can't stop up donging anything in reason! I kind of can't understand the manager that you mentioned
@gayathrigs (871)
• India
17 Mar 09
yaa, he was asking me all the personal questions, i said him, i have a genuine reason, i dont understand when i am not interested, why should he force me and take time, I am like discussing with him every day now for the resignation, its very tough to get resignation here. thanks for your response dear.
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
I guess you are working on a call center based on what you have describe. call centers usually are very particular with the employees turn around. based on the resignation of the people in the company. In my own prerogative the company doesn't have the right not to accept any resignation files by the employee may the reason be valid or invalid for it is the employees right. As long as you gave ample time for the effectivity of your resignation that it is within the allowable number of day then they should accept it. at times they may just ask for extension for a 15 to 30 days but again they should allow it since an employee who is not happy with the work they are in would be useless since it affects the productivity.
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@gayathrigs (871)
• India
14 Mar 09
yes dear, am working in a call centre based company, but then, i really dont know why they are not accepting resignations, i dont at all feel like working here at all. i wish my manager agrees for my resignation which i will submit on monday.
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@bamrahkirti (1821)
• India
14 Mar 09
First of all look for the reasons that why your manager is not accepting your resignation.May be there is already a shortage of staff in your calling center.I think you should clearly discuss the problem of less pay with him and your problem might be solved.
@gayathrigs (871)
• India
14 Mar 09
He is not accepting resignations due to less staff, but then, the work place must be in such a way that it interests associates right? i dont find it interesting any more, i dont know what to do if he doesnt accept my resignation too, i strongly want to resign. thanks for your response.
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@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
14 Mar 09
Your manager can not keep you from leaving your position. Maybe you should get a written statement that they do not want to accept resignations. You will have proof of this when you go for your next interview. I too, am looking for a change in location in hopes for a better job; however, my future lies in the hands of the....ahem...court system, because I will be taking my kids with me. I seriously want to leave to..fed up in Michigan.
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@gayathrigs (871)
• India
14 Mar 09
the present company where i am working now is coming up with new rules every day you know. with which i feel so much irritated and no interest at all to work or even to step in to the office even. i wish he accepts my resignations, we need interest to do anything. thanks for your response and wish you a good future ahead.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
23 Mar 09
I am also from India. I am working as a medical transcriptionist. In my company also they don't accept resignation, but people do resign after they get a good job. Have you sign any contract? I think you should talk to the managers that your husband got a transfer or you are shifting to another place or to your native place or some lies like that and try to quit the job, if you really want to quit the job. I think if you really feel that you are getting less paid and you really doesn't like the present job you should quit the job.
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
13 Mar 09
gayathrigs,
First of all, you will need to ask yourself if you are bonded or contracted to the company or not? You should be wary and knowing on this as the company will have the right not to let you go - not when you have not completed serving your bond or contract. If you are then you may want to see what is the compensation like to disrupt and terminate the agreement prematurely. And it will be helpful and required for you to disclose such matters to your forthcoming employers so that they can consider buying out your bond or contract.
Now, I seem to understand that you are resigning without a job in hand and I would advise you against it especially at a time like this. It is perfectly alright and legal to attend prospective job interviews after office hours or personal annual leave or rest days. After securing a job, you can inform your prospective company when your commencement date will be which will have to coincide with your resignation pre-requirements or your national labor laws.
Please note that you will not be allowed to work in your new company when you are on annual leave time with your current company. This happens when your company does not want to pay you for your unclaimed annual leave and you will have to factor the numbers there into your advance resignation notice.
To be fair, I think you can always try and seek out solutions with your current company first before considering going to another company. I am sure if the company is fully satisfied and happy with your performance I am confident that they would not paying you slightly or even well above market rate. Failing which then would you want to consider resigning. However, not without having a confirmed job in hand.
Hope this will be of help and do take care.
All the best.
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
14 Mar 09
gayathrigs,
If you find it so detestable and beyond humane toleration then walk, by all means.
I think I am just looking out for you as a friend and telling you to be aware that jobs are relatively hard to find now. So, if you can go without a job for an extensive number of months, affect your livelihood and not regret your decisions, then again, walk by all means.
Even if your present company would not want to release the necessary testimonials or leaving certification letter, you can still mention your working experience in your resume or CV. It should not be a big issue whether you have it or not, just move on if you want and need to.
Have a nice weekend.
@gayathrigs (871)
• India
14 Mar 09
Ya thats what, thanks for being a good friend and giving your valuable suggestions, i need to deal every thing in a planned way this monday when i go to the office.
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@gayathrigs (871)
• India
14 Mar 09
Yes dear, i dont have any job in hand, but then , in the present company where am working right now am not at all feeling interest to work anymore.. hence... and not only that because of less staff they are not accepting resignations. thanks for your reply.
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@suzzy3 (8341)
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13 Mar 09
You need to find your self a lawyer or some kind or organisation,we have the citizens advise bureau we need a p45 in England to take to the next job .Your employer can make it almost impossible to find another job so handle with care take advise before you do anything.Take great care.
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@brendagalpo (10)
• Philippines
16 Mar 09
I'm not sure why your company does not accept resignation. It's you who is resigning and it should not affect their business. Sure they would lose a great person like but that not enogh reason for them not to accept your resignation. Submit your resignation...Give them a 2 weeks notice and see what they do. No one can stop you from resigning. It's your life not theirs.
@gayathrigs (871)
• India
17 Mar 09
Hi brenda, I really wish i get resignation, i have sent him a mail for which even he replies very very late, he says think one more time, how many times do i have to think? i told him clearly that its a personal reason, i have no more interest in the company, am not knowing what to do. thanks for your response.
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