New city ordinance! What do you think of it?

@JenInTN (27514)
United States
March 28, 2009 5:55am CST
They have recently passed a new city ordinance here in which no one under the age of 18 is allowed at the mall without an adult. The mall has been the "hangout" for teens but no more. Starting next month..without an adult..they are not allowed. I can see why this law was put into place because some of the teens there were out of control. I do feel bad for the ones that acted respectfully. There really isn't a lot that teens have to do here. What do you think about this new law? Good or bad?
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
29 Mar 09
This is unfair to those teens that acted respectfully. It shouldn't be all teens. This should be passed first to the public before putting it into city ordinance...
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Thanks for the response and I agree.
• Philippines
29 Mar 09
the new city ordinance has its both advantages and disadvatages. The disadvatages are teens can no longer hang out at the mall without an adult accompanying them. the advantages the shoppers who likes to go to the mall will go more often without thinking some teens will annoy them.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Mar 09
It's true it has it's positive and negatives. I know there were teens there that were disrespectful.
@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
29 Mar 09
I think teens should have some sort of adult supervision, but not allowing them to go to the mall without a parent, will only force them to start hanging out somewhere else. The law should be between certain hours, not banned all together. What is the punishment if a teen is at the mall without an adult? It is unfair to a certain extent too because a teen could be at the mall with a parent, but wants to look in different stores, therefore, they separate from the adult. I think it is a bad law.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Mar 09
I worried about where they would go too. Mine will be at home but I can't speak for the others. The punishment has been stated as being a ticket for parents to pay and calling someone to come and get them. They have already started to try and cook up other hangouts. My daughter come and mentioned the new place was the park...could she go. Of course I said no. That's not an appropriate place. No supervision at all. She used to go and see movies with her friends but unless I'm able to go..that's out. I do see why because there were some really out of control kids there but at the same time it hurts the ones that were respectful.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
28 Mar 09
i think its a good idea so that the teens has safer life they can hang out but limitts time and with adult its a lot better.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Mar 09
It will definately promote family time...lol..Thanks for responding.
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
28 Mar 09
Hey Jen! You know, it wouldn't be a bad idea if they would do it in the city near where I live. There is one particular mall that is a big problem where there has been very serious gang violence and all sorts of teenage fights. But, I know that they would never do it and never be able to enforce it! It is true that the malls seem to be a teenage "hangout". It is a shame for the ones that are there just to socialize, but unfortunatly the bad ones outweigh the good! Let me know how it works out!
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Mar 09
I'll keep you updated but I wouldn't be surprised if you don't see it before long. The larger city that neighbors us is also thinking of putting this in place and their malls are really big. With the economy on the rocks and teen violence growing..you never know. Thanks for responding.
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@Jae2619 (1482)
• United States
28 Mar 09
Where I live they have passed this a few years back, because the older fellows didn't feel safe enough to go to the mall because the teens were harassing them, so they stopped shopping there, and doing the mile walks and so on, so the mall lost business. Since they have passed this, they mall started booming again. It does make you feel bad for the ones that followed the rules and went to just shop, and hang out quietly, but as with anything it only takes a few misfits to ruin it for everyone.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Mar 09
I think that's what the mall hopes for in this case too. Not only are they hit with the economy but they hear the kids are running off business on the weekends. It is a shame for the ones that are respectful but I guess they feel like it's a drastic situation. Thanks for responding.
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@AJ1952Chats (2331)
• Anderson, Indiana
4 Apr 09
Different ones of my friends and I liked to shop at the mall back when we were in the 12-18 age bracket. We were goofy and giggly, but we weren't disruptive--and we were also there to shop as well. This was in the mid-1960s to the early 1970s. Behavior of teens in a mall was a far cry from what goes on today. If we as teens saw other teens behaving as too many of them do now, we would have perceived them to be juvenile delinquents. It's a shame that the well-behaved kids such as your own are also being affected by this, but, at least, it will turn the mall back into a place where EVERYBODY can comfortably shop/browse. If teens act like two-year-olds at the mall, that's how they will need to be treated--as in tots don't go to the mall without an adult. Hopefully, this rule will make it so that teens will hang out with their parents more, as we've become a society where, after a certain age, we just let our kids go, but a lot of them don't seem to have the background in what is and what isn't acceptable behavior. If the kids want to have a little independence while shopping, the parents can always sit on a bench close to where they're shopping so that they have a presence there but are still giving their kids space.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
4 Apr 09
Things are a lot different from when I was a kid at the mall too. It is not a bad thing really that this change is in place. I do agree that it will have parents spend more time with their children. There were a lot of children that went there that seemed to need more time with parents. Thanks for the response.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
28 Mar 09
I think 18 is a little much. I think the mall by where I grew up changed it to 16 a few years ago. 16 seems a little better than 18. So, what happens to the 16 year old that was working in the food court after school to earn a little money to help their family out? I think it is ok to limit it, but if you are old enough to hold a job you should be able to go to the mall by yourself.
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
28 Mar 09
Hey muscles! I am doing pretty good. Just relaxing right now and enjoying a little toddler free time. She is with her dad today. My son is glued to my sisters laptop, so it is like he is not even here. It has been so long since I have been to a mall I guess I don't really know how it is anymore.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Hi lilybug! I think they are going to use special badges to identify the teens that work there. Thanks for the response.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
29 Mar 09
bad people are always the ones who make good people pay the consequences in a situation like this. it's not righr but it's life. u know they have good reasons for doing this.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
30 Mar 09
u are very welcome.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Mar 09
Hi jo! Yeah..I know they do and it is life. Sooner or later you gotta know that one can ruin it for all. Thanks for responding.
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@nanajanet (4436)
• United States
28 Mar 09
Although I hate that they have to do it, I understand the reasoning behind it. It is sad, though, because as a teen, my friends and I (before there were malls) loved our shopping trips together. It was a part of growing up. But we went shopping, that is all.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Mar 09
I understand too. I have went to these malls on the weekend nights and there are children there that are out of control. Thanks for responding.
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@ShellyB (5241)
• United States
28 Mar 09
I find that weird and sad. I dare say that some stores will have to close at the mall since only teens shop there.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
28 Mar 09
That's true that teens have certain stores they shop at. They are allowed but only with adult supervision. Thanks for the response.
@ShellyB (5241)
• United States
28 Mar 09
What I'm saying is that with adult supervision, they will not go as often.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Mar 09
That's true.
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
29 Mar 09
One who acted respectfully must have felt that one who were not behaving well shouldn't get entered into it. They must be happy that now they can get rid of those ugly little customers! I think it is good. Teens must not enter a mall without an adult. In this way they will be in a public place with their parents more which will taech them how to behave in public. Good decision!
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
30 Mar 09
Never thought of that solution. I hope this place also apply the same rule. I have already spoken to the mall manager!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Mar 09
There are a lot of happy people here because of this new ordinance. I think it is a good choice for the ones that behave badly. Thanks for the response friend.
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@snowcat46 (2322)
• United States
30 Mar 09
It sucks for the teens, but I can see the parents being thrilled. What with kidnappings, rapes, and more happening out there, now the teens have to take their parents and actually hang with them. One, you get to spend time with your kid (even if it is forced at first), Two you can make sure they're alright and safe, and Three it gets you out of the house and involved with them. Whether you like it or not. I think it's a good idea for the long run, even if everybody is furious right now.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Mar 09
Hi snowcat! I think it can be a good thing as well except or the parents that don't much care in the forst place. If it does lead to them hanging out with their kids more..it will be great but if they let them go who knows where to be their new hangout..it could make things worse. I do see why they put the law in place because there were some REALLY disrespectful kids there. Maybe it will be a good thing though. Thanks for the input.
• United States
29 Mar 09
Jen- We have that here in Minnesota and I love it. Ours doesn't begin until after 6pm, but it's nice. I don't feel bad for any of them to be honest. I may be a strict parent but my kids won't be going to the mall alone for any reason. The Mall of America is an international mall, people come from all over the world to see it, and with that much traffic, I won't have my children in harms way. Namaste-Anora
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Mar 09
I can see why you feel that way. I'm pretty strict with my kids too. I would let my 15 year old go to the movies with her friends and go to the arcade for a while because socially there really isn't a lot to do here. I live in a small city. There were some really awful kids there that caused this whole ordeal though. I can see why they put it into place. Thanks for responding.
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• United States
30 Mar 09
It really is a shame when a few bad apples ruin the bunch,you know. It's good though that you're willing to be flexible with the new ruling though and at least go with them or such so they can enjoy going. I remember spending weekends at the mall when I was a kid. Namaste-Anora
• United States
29 Mar 09
I can understand the passing of such an ordinance. There needs to be more programs to keep kids busy, such as the YMCA or other youth clubs. * Teens in packs are bad news. Even good teens once they get into packs can be seriously bad news. Same with kids. Vulnerable adults such as the elderly and even other teens can get hurt when a pack gets out of hand.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Mar 09
There does need to be more programs put into place for teens. Teens in packs are bad news sometimes. I do understand why they have done this. Thamks for the response.
@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
29 Mar 09
The sad thing is, Jen, that everyone has to suffer when a few disobey the rules. As so often happens in life, the innocent are punished along with the guilty! I don't think there are many parents of teens who are willing to "hang out" with them at the mall, so the new law is going to affect a lot of kids.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Mar 09
That's true worldwise. It is also very common that good are often punished along with the bad. I guess it's just a life lesson for my teen. Thanks for the response.
@goldeneagle (6743)
• United States
29 Mar 09
I actually like this idea. The malls here in Pensacola are like a mad-house on the weekends because of all the teeny-boppers and wanna-be thugs who call it home from Friday night until Sunday nights. My wife and I avoid the malls like the plague on the weekends. I am sure this new ordinance will help the businesses at the mall sell more, because I am sure there are people who, like my wife and I, will not go to the mall on the weekends, because they, like us, do not want to have to deal with all the teenage thugs and freaks who hang out there on the weekends. It will definitely improve the image of the mall. A lot of the teens who hang out at the malls here do not ever really buy anything worth speaking of. Sure there are those who buy some new clothes or a CD every now and then, but the busiest part of the mall when all the teens are around is usually the Food Court. I wish they would pass and enforce a similar ordinance here in Pensacola...
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Mar 09
The mall here was like a mad house too and small. They do think that by getting rid of the teens on the weekends it will bring in more quality customers. There have been a lot of complaints about the way these children were acting there and it did keep people from wanting to be exposed to these groups. Thanks for responding.
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
29 Mar 09
Probably there were too many complaints about the teens sabotage on the store facilities, or other crimes occurred, such as stealing, or shoplifting cases. The stores in the mall must protect their assets, so, it might be a good thing.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Mar 09
That's a good point. There may have been some theft or something more involved that they based their dicision on. Thanks for responding.
@Hvaniday1 (550)
• Malaysia
29 Mar 09
Good for those wasting time by hanging out for nothing. Bad for the Mall in terms of lesser traffic. Who is answerable to the tenant's by not able to generate more traffic to the Mall. Unless, there's no tenant. Haha...make sense or not? Happy Mylotting.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Mar 09
You always make sense Hvaniday I guess that Walmart down the street will be happy with this law..lol
@lingzi (567)
• China
29 Mar 09
it depends for whom ,that's good ,or bad. i think the parents of teens are very happy about that new city ordinance.but it's really binding for teens. certainly bad for seller.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Mar 09
It does have it's ups and downs. There is a lot to consider with this new law.