Which is fair in love: Telling the truth or lying so the other don't mind?

I would choose to tell the truth to my lover! Only the honest is the pretext of true love

Not a bad way of thinking about things.. I feel, however, that if you're trying to protect someone from being hurt, then a little lie is nothing. The positive outcome greatly outweighs the negative, but like you said, that's just me..

Well, if I didn't feel like talking with my partner for any reason at all, I would simply say that I don't feel like talking right now. I think that it is perfectly OK for two people to not feel like talking. Or for one to accept the fact that the other may not want to at any given time. I would be one to just tell it like it is, the truth and not lie. I can not tolerate lies either. Especially in a relationship. Once we get to know our partner better, we can sometimes just tell, from their body language that perhaps they don't feel like talking. That's OK. Sometimes we just don't feel like it and there is nothing wrong with that.

If you love someone you should never lie to them no matter what. Lies hurt even if they are small one's. I hate liars.

Hi and hello there darksorrow! ^_^ As what the saying says: "The truth will set you free." Telling the truth is one of the best thing you can do to your loved ones. Telling a lie is like cheating on them. And also, telling the truth is like there's nothing to worry about. Happy MyLotting!

Well, Well, Well! I go for TRUTH! TRUTH may be hard to digest, but not an impossible one. Even it may end the relationship once for all (If your lover doesn't like to live with you for instance and tell it to you). But it is much more dangerous to tell a lie which may not affect you or your relationships for short time, but will surely affect everyday's life. Imagine a person who doesn't like to live with you, still stays with you telling lie that he/she loves you still. She/He is lying to you and your heart. That person never feels happy or satisfied with you. Differences raises every day and one day truth will come out at last. That day nobody will be in a position to accept the truth and life becomes too complex puzzle to solve. It spoils both persons lives! Truth on the other hand, creates lot of trouble for that time being, but over the period it assimilates and get digested. So it will end up in something good and helps a person to go ahead in his/her life from that point.

What I think you are talking about really, is trust, If some one lies to you it is a betrayal or broken trust. Or they think you are not adult enough to hear the truth. I find it offencive when I hear adults telling lies to any one over the age of 5. Because when those children/ adults find out the truth they will never be able to trust the word of the liar again. This isn't just about what is fair in love but what is right in life

i was haunted with lies but i'm longing to face the truth because the truth always set me free, lies can hurt forever and truth will stay awhile and be gone afterward. i always prepare for myself in facing the truth because i feel satisfied on it. i like to handle the truth not lie. :) i'm also hurt when one tells a lie on me because i cannot lie i always tell the truth even if the risk is loosing somebody, i try to cover it up and try to moved on.

Honesty is important for all the people. It's the brige of relationship with others. No body likes lies, so do I. However, sometimes telling a lie can improve the relationship with others. I don't think telling the truth all the time can hold a good relation forever. Of course such a lie should be an occassional one and it won't break others' feelings. The persons who always cheat you are not believable.

Telling the truth is better.In my point of view a person i loved so much if she was not honest to me i will speak straightly .. That your character is not well so keep change it .. SO it will be right ..I think so..

I think telling truth is fair in love. It is because if you lie and from some other source your partner came to know about it then he or she will get hurt. In love everyone should care about there partners and strong your base with faith in each other and truth.

Telling the truth is always best in love...please try to frank with ur partner

your like my boyfriend..hehehe. he had the same reason of yours and its true but there certain situation that you may choose to lie for the sake of others. it really depend upon the situation. Actually, i'm a professional lier but when i met my boyfriend i feel the most honest person on earth hehehe. i dont know if my bf has sixth sense or whatever coz he knows if im telling a lie or not that's why i'm always afraid to make the stories pervented like i usually do before. The changes happened very crucial but the result feels good. i had this 90%of chances that i'l be in heaven if i die..hehehe.

It's better to tell the truth all the time. Lies destroy a relationship basically "trust". If you have a feeling that you don't want to have conversations with the one you love it is better to say it straight. It may hurt but it's more tolerable than telling stories that aren't true.

I think telling the truth is still better because when you have nothing to fear of afterwards when the person will discover.

Hello darksorrow, When you love someone, you always want to talk to that someone. And, when that loved one doesn't want to talk to you, you will start to think negatively. However, if you are not free to talk, you can just tell that person straight forward. You don't have to lie. It hurts when someone that you love, lies to you. I don't like to lie and to be lied. So, the easiest way is to tell the truth like you do!

Well, in my eyes, honesty is the best policy. And if it was me, I would tell the truth because I wouldn't want someone to say I'm beautiful but not really think that. No matter if it hurts someone, you have to be honest when it comes to relationships. But if it's just someone that asks your opinion about them, then you can make a little lie so you don't hurt their feelings or go about it in a better manner.

Me tooo... The same one if i dislike some person i did not speak with that person... They know that i not like them of my attitude... I will tell my answer in my attitude as that i don't like you.. I use hard words to avoid her...First i will give a warning and then i spoke to her straightly...So telling the truth is the best...

I think u r right.but sometimes it is not very good for our relationship .some kind lie is needed in the identity situation, i guss.

Well telling one truth is far better than telling whole lot of lies ahead. This makes your partner more reliable and honest towards yourself,make you bond better. So be true to yourself and others to make your life happy.