I don't wanna break off...

we really can't tell what other feel. may be it hasalso become just a habit to make you feel bad whenever she feels bad about what you did. be sincere, show her you love her without making er feel like you're obssessed. the thing is: if she really wanted to leave you, she would have left long ago. so i say, you guys have a great chance. you just have faith.

have faith my friend. do not give up so easily. you should tell her how much you love her and show to her how deep is your love to her and prove it. that's all you need to do.

well, all i can say is you can't force a relationship... if she says that she doesn't love you anymore, then you just have to let her go... if you force the relationship, both of you will suffer and it will end to nowhere... anyway, may be she just want a time off... just be patient and wait for her if you really love her... if it really doesn't work out, you just have to let her go... good luck... take care and have a nice day...

There is a say that goes "if you love some thing let it go, if it comes back to you it is yours. If it does not it never was." Let her go and if she truely loves she will come back. If she does not then there is no way you can make her understand or keep her. if it is meant to be it will be.

You are acting obsessive. If she needs a break, you need to let her have it. Have you ever heard the statement : "If you love something set it free, if it doesn't come back it was never yours to begin with, but if it comes back, it will be yours forever." ?? Sometimes the best person for you is not who you think she/he is. Only your maker knows who is your future and you can not force others emotions. I hope you let her be and if it is meant to be she will find her way back to you. God Bless

Wow, what she said is a little harsh... I think I would be a little hurt if my loved one told me that you were just a habit and I never loved you. If you want to stay with this girl then just tell her bluntly how you feel. Don't sugar coat it because that doesn't always get you where you want to go either. I would get you & her in a private place, some where nice that you can be open but not worry about someone interupting you or bothering you and just pour your heart out. I don't know of a girl who won't melt to a guy telling her everything he's got in him, unless she really doesn't want to be with you and at that point she will get up and walk away if she really doesn't want anything to do with you. If she doesn't want to be with you, don't force it upon her. I know many women can't stand that "psycho" guy who won't leave you alone. Time & Space is always a good thing, but don't give her too much or else she will take it and run. If this is meant to be it will be, but if its not don't dwindle on it... You deserve to be happy as well and if she sees this it may just drive her nuts and cause her to come running back to you! Best of wishes in whatever you do!!!!

i think what you have to do is win her back. make her feel want you want to make her feel. if you truly love her then don't just say it, show it. this is probably just one of the trials where you get to prove how much you really love her and that you never want to lose her. make her feel special and make her feel that she means the whole world to you. but if in case, despite everything that you have done, she still doesn't come back to you, try to move on and try to be happy even if it's really hard because you have done everything you could to save your relationship. good luck to you.

I am sorry you feel so bad. What concerns me about your dilemma is that you said, "She acts stupid when I spend less time with her..." Do you mean she gets upset with you because you're not there? I appreciate your reasons, exams etc take a lot of time but just because she misses you it doesn't mean she's acting stupid. Do you think she broke up with you for that reason? You can certainly make an effort to win her back; women enjoy being romanced and fussed over and most importantly they love being heard. All I can suggest is romance her and keep the communication open and talk to her about how much you love her and really listen to what she has to say. If it doesn't work out you may have to accept that it wasn't meant to be and that eventually you will meet the right girl for you.

As a woman who was in her shoes before I would advise you to listen to her. I did not have the heart to tell the man I with that I was not happy for about two years and when I finally did try to tell him he would not listen so I stayed with him 10 more years and that whole time being with him was a burden to me. I am not even saying it was his fault, just that we were not compatible. He was a habit like I guess I was one to him but it never got better and when we eventually split up, it was a relief for me to be away from him. Yes, she may be just upset because you have not spent time with her and if that is the case, then everytime you have to commit your time to something she may put you through this. I know you love her, but you may have to give her space to determine if she really loves you.

ouch, dude, i have never been treated like that. but for me, if she really doesnt love you then let her go, there will be a time that she will remember you. And when she wants you back, then dump her. REVENGE dude! lol

Maybe you can give her gift and tell her how much you really really love her.Make she know it!

You can't make someone stay that doesn't want to stay. If you do love her let her know and then let her go. If she does really love you she, will realize it and be back. If not well, your heart will heal. Love is not feeling, love is a commitment. We all go through times that we think we don't love the other person we are with, unfortunately, we lack commitment to see it through and find true love. God bless and maybe turn it over to Him.

People don't say, "I never loved you", for no reason. Even if it doesn't make sense because she "acts stupid" when you spend less time with her. Oftentimes people will become jealous even when they don't care about the other person. It's more about control and insecurities. You cannot make someone love you. And you cannot win the love back from someone who never loved you to begin with. The harder you try, the more she will dislike you. My advice would be to let her go, and act as if you don't need her. (because really you don't) She may reconsider and re-evaluate her feelings. Many people don't want to "break-up", but it happens. And it is important to respect the other persons wishes.

using your wisedom friend if you want her to love you or to admit having loved you.

Hi there. Well, why don't you tell her how you feel in the sincerest manner? Maybe she will come to realize that she still loves you. Maybe, she is just in a mood where "love" is a question. Just try to understand her and give her some time and then talk with her again. Talk things over and the reasons why she fell out of love from you. Just don't do harsh things because it can worsen the situation. Just be calm in analyzing what the problem is and then try to find a solution.

Perhaps she still love you, but now no reason to love you.Maybe you do not want to leave her,but force her to have a reason to leave you.If you are still not reconciled to her,on her attempt to retain some of ways,If you found that she really does not love you,then you let her go.This is the last thing that you can for her.

yeah as some fo the other people on this site have already told try to talk about it and be a good listener as to why she thinks she doesn't love you anymore. Prove to her that you really care for her and that she is the most important thing in your life. cancel all other stuff you have going on and focus on her and nothing else for a while and see if you can win her back