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Welcome back sweetie! I am sooooo sorry this all happened to you! I can't believe it! But we did miss you and are so glad you have returned....

Welcome back dear .. And sorry for what happened. Anyway, cheer up i know God's has plan for you. Just be patience and you will see the light. All people encounter problem your not the only one just relax and have fun. Again, welcome back hope you have a great time in mylot again. Were here to support you always and give advices as much as we can. Take care =)

of course I welcome you back hon, I am so sorry that this has happened to you, it is just not right, I hear you about the rent, I can't find anything that I can afford.

I have missed you and of course I'm so glad that you found your way back to us. I'm so sorry that you have had to move from your beautiful home. I tell you I am stubborn and I would not have left just because my husband wants something different. Think of it hun, you are paying more in rent now, you most likely had to pay a deposit there, and deposits to get power on an such. Not to mention the move. If the hubby wanted a new life or time to himself, that should have been on him. I would tell mine that. I love my husband but I am not giving up my home. In fact, my husband one time told me about 18 months ago that he wanted a separation or divorce. I told him okay if that's what he wanted and I wished him luck in finding what he wanted. But I was not giving up my home, he agreed. It was like that about 2 or 3 months. Then he called me and told me he wanted to come back home that he loves me and just can not live without me. I told him okay but I set down a couple of rules. Nothing major, just things that bothered me and I wanted changed. He agreed and the next time he got a week off he came home. This happened during Christmas before last. We have had no problems since then. The fact that you are taking care of his brother should have been enough that you and his brother shouls have been able to stay in your house. If your husband wanted to go out on his own, then he should have come up with the money to get what he wanted without if affecting you and his brother anymore than it had to. I feel badly for you. I sure hope that things work out for you. Many blessings to you dear.

Welcome back, so sorry to hear of your problems. My life is not as bad as yours thankfully, but my 80 year old mother just went thru a hysterectomy for uterine cancer. She is cancer free, but I have to run there at least once a week to take her to doctors and shopping. She lives an hour away. Hang in there!

Welcome back Grandmaof2. That comes from a Great Grandpa of 7. Art

Welcome back darlin I have missed you. Its really nice seeing you back. I hope things start going better for you. I have been having a time of it to, but in a different way. HELP, MY HOUSE APES ARE BACK Its been 15 weeks, 2 days, 6 hour, 59 minutes and 59 seconds and counting. They are supposed to be geting the house next door. They need to do some work on it, but they are the laziest people in the world. I am so looking forward to having my house back to myself. I have been trying to work on my attitude about the whole thing, just when I think I am doing better, they do something that tees me off royally. I keep telling myself that other people have it much worse then me. But I will tell you, these people sure are hard to live with. Thats my rant for the day. Take care Hun, it really is nice seeing you back.

Glad to see that you are back I haven't seen your name here for a while. That is one thing about Mylot you can come back when ever you want to.

Welcome back! You are a good person to continue caring for your husbands brother while he bails on you. If your husband want the change he should have left you in the house. He seems to be having a crisis...maybe suffering from depression. Well good luck and good to have you back.

I hope I don't have to go through that bad news that it happens to you we left the apartment 5 yrs ago to move into the house apartment might not be a bad choice if the monthly pay includes hydro in winter that's not a bad deal but then again having a house is better because the money spent for it goes back to the house

Welcome back, and yes, I have been involved with something along the same lines...an ill loved one, the necessity of being uprooted a couple times, a bit of a money crunch, and NO INTERNET for a while. Whew! Glad to know you will be OK. I haven't been able to keep up with myLot friends much lately either, but here's hoping we both get back on track soon and get to stay there now!

Thankfully, I have not been in your spot. Years ago, i did take care of a young boy with cebral palsey and I know how challenging it can be. So this is your husband's brother and your husband bailed? Kudos to you for hanging in there for his brother! I'm so sorry that things are so tough for you. I think if you look into things that you could get paid for caring for him. It would help with your rent and all.

I was not aware of this Grandamaof2, and I am not going to ask you to go into details about it again. I am sorry to hear this is happening to you. I can truly say that your reward will be waiting on you and it will be the reward from God. I can tell by your discussion that you are doing this out of the goodness of your heart. And you are blessed to be able to get another place to live for you and your brother-in-law. May God be with the two of you. And welcome back. I am not on MyLot as much as I used to be. But I do frequent the site. Take care of yourself.

I am so sorry you are going through this and that you are faced with such a difficult time. I hope that things turn around for you and your brother soon.

Wow, life did hand you a whammy! Sorry that you had to give up your home. We are facing the need to sell the home that belonged to my ex-husband. We aren't certain that we will be able to get a mortgage and buy it. It would be a pity to let it go. But, life is that way. I send big huggers to you.

So he decided not to work and leave you to care for his brother? You are a priceless person. Life is nzot fair for sure, but you are truly a gem and you must love your brother-in-law!!

Oh I'm so sorry I did not know. I hope everything can work out for the best for you and your husband. I may have to move from the apartment I live in, not sure at the moment. I was notigied by a server that there is a forclosure on the house I live in, and my landlord is not saying anything, so I'm looking and collecting boxes.

Welcome back Grandmaof2 but I wish it were under better circumstances. I'm so sorry your self centered husband did this to you two. He has to be pretty pathetic to leave his brother to your care! I don't think the judge will take that lightly either and you just might get the house in the end or a lot of the proceeds once it's sold. You're a good person and only deserve the best, which will happen when it's time, just hang in there, it will come.

That does suck! Welcome back! I hope things are geting better for you...and that you'll be back for a while.

Hey Grandmaof2~ Well Wecome back! I didn't know any of this which just shows that I have been missing here more than I though and I am so sorry! I had no idea any of this was going on. The last I heard was that you didn't know what was wrong with your husband's physical condition, but I see it was alot more than that! I am sorry about your house. I know how hard that must have been to deal with because I have been through that with my family's home. I do hope now that things will start looking up for you. I want to wish you the very best and hope that we will now be seeing much more of you once you are settled in your new place.