Am I an ignorant, homophobic monster?

I don't think you're an ignorant, homophobic monster. But, then again, judging by the names you were called, I guess I feel the same way you do about gay rights. I guess everyone has a need to be accepted or at best tolerated. When they feel rejected they lash out. The ironic thing about it is that most often, people who demand tolerance are the ones who are the most intolerant of people they disagree with.

I dont think you are...LOL Most of the gay/lesbian people I have been around have been easy to rub the wrong way...NO PUN INTENDED LOL

i tell it the way i see it, and by chance if some persons do not agree oh i diffinitly hear it, but thats why were here to exchange view's, make friends, and learn new things etc,etc. i think i responded to the same question but got nothing back yet. i think a lot has to do with how we were raised so if the 1952 is your b-day im 2 years older and back then no- one wanted to hear about the gay life style, and if they were gay most kept it a secret, time marched on and things changed as things do, progress ? if your gay i guess, i diffinitly do not have a problem with the gay's as long as children aren't involved, then it's time for gay bashing, but hey thats my view, everyone is different. enjoy your evening and dont let it bother you, i had 1 guy say he was gonna be under my bed when i got home, well bring it on, if you make it past the rattler i let loose at night, or the gators, come on in...and meet smith and wesson.

you are most certainly entitled to your opinion and views on the subject and you have every right to express them without being attacked. i think that people that do attack others for their opinions are ignorant and intolerant of others. do not stop being who you are and saying what you feel just because others may disagree.

That's why i avoid replying to those complicated discussions coz some people they don't want a negative reply, or opinions that opposed to thiers. I don't know why they bothered to post discussion if they don't want to read others opinion, they should be open and not to debate. Happy posting.

I think this discussion can reveal to be a very useful one, since we´re talking about tolerance and freedom of speech. Neverthless, and since Sandra didn´t do it, i would like to invite everyone who wants to fully understand and participate in this discussion to read the post that originated this one (just type "am i the only one who is tired of hearing to this crap?"), it´s from goldeneagle. Then go to page 2 and check Sandra´s response as well as the responses to her response. I invite you to do this because, believe me, you are receiving only half of the story... Thank you for launching this debate, Sandra Peace

I do not believe that you are an ignorant homophobic monster. I imagine you were pretty naive to think you could give your opinions honestly and not get flamed for it though. This is precisely why I shy away from discussions along those lines. No one wants an opinion, they just want justification.

I read your post on that topic and chose not to respond. It was rather insulting towards gay people...the entire discussion was. They don't choose to be gay. They are born that way. It is really sad that your daughter feels less of a person and that she is not as worthy as you or others because of how she was born. I am sure that if she could possibly find a way to be happy being any different and living up to your expectations of her then she would. I'm sure her inferiority complex runs deep. I hope that someday for the sake of your daughter and your relationship with her that you will be able to find it in your heart to let her know that you love her and are proud of her just as she is.

Look, I believe that homosexuality is something that you are born with, not something that you choose. And I don't believe that a loving God is going to advocate hate towards something that he created. But if you come along and disagree with me about that POLITELY, I'm not going to come and attack you for it. I may disagree with you, but I won't start calling you names or getting nasty with you.

I am so sick of seeing discussions people start that are clearly only looking for others to mirror their sentiments. And it really irks me when people monopolize someone else's discussion and attack other respondents. We are allowed to have opposing opinions after all. I honestly just stay away from the more controversial ones and can tell almost immediately if someone is actually looking for different view points or if they just want confirmation. I guess it kind of sucks to feel like I'm censoring myself but I just don't want to deal with the garbage.

Don't watch what ther peple say just give your honest opinion about a topic, these are your thoughts and your opinions not everyone thinks the same way.

you are not either of those things. your honest. dont stop being honest. you cant please everyone. and if people dont want otheres opinions then they shouldnt post right?? lol. dont worry about it. they should have posted a note saying only comment if u agree lol. anyhow dont ever stop being honest thats what this place is for. i would hope for honest opinions on my posts. so anyhow. ur not wrong. ur honest and people cant accept that then they shouldnt post. now lets see how many ugly comments i get now lol

Hi sandra, I haven't seen the discussion you responded to or the insults you received but by not being deterred by insults to carry on posting makes you a strong person, I would hate to be the receipient of ignorant insults. I hate confrontation so decided to stay away from controversial subjects as I've noticed the same sort of thing that must have happened to you in other discussions. Maybe when people are face to face they can have this sort of discussion rationally but there's something about the internet which brings out vitriol towards strangers, head up and keep on posting. I've now also responded to some things which I'd determined to keep away from and now expect to receive similar treatment. It would appear that free speech lives as long as you agree with the other person!

Hi Sandra1952, I am in full support of what you've said.You have every right to post your honest opinions.If we don't do that but put up false things that we don't believe in then what's the use of a forum like this?I'm shocked to know that people can post such comments that you have received.They are just a bunch of pretenders.Another reason behind this kind of psychology is that people often feel that using insulting language can grab attention and it makes them feel self-important.Just ignore them,voice out your honest opinions loud and clear!Remember against that whole bunch of warped mentalities there are thousands of mylotters who will turn in your support.So go ahead with what you believe in is right. Happy myLotting! :)

I think passion gets in the way sometimes. Sometimes it is hard to discuss our different opinions without getting a little heated. You don't sound like a monster to me.

Hi Sandra...Unfortunately some people just naturally resort to violent personal insults whenever there is a difference of opinion. I don't know why they choose to behave in this manner - because I do believe it is a choice. Maybe by the end of this discussion you can have a good answer...I'd love to hear it!

Hi my friend - I think we are all entitled to our own opinion. Sometimes ppl just want to hear the answer that reaffirmes their own thoughts and belives...Do you remember the miss USA pageant a few months back, when Miss California answered a quesion re_gay marriage and suddenly everyone started getting mad at her b/c she didn't get the "right" answer, even though she gave that answer that was right to her....that's how it is :)