My estranged friend won't talk to me by phone and it hurts. Tired of it. Help!

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A friend and I have been having some trouble. Mainly because she doesn't treat me right and I was fed up. We got into a argument and currently we are not talking by phone. I apologized to her, even though it wasn't all my fault. She thinks she did nothing wrong and hasn't apologized at all. I don't care if she apologizes to me, I just want us to be friends again. She told me via text message that we can work everything out. As of today, we still haven't talked yet on the phone and it has been weeks. She only texts me occasionally, no phone calls whatsoever. She hasn't called and I don't understand why. If she wants to work things out, why hasn't she made a effort to do so? She text messaged me yesterday telling me about Michael Jackson passing on. We texted each other back and forth for awhile and then all of a sudden she stopped responding to my messages. I figured she didn't want to text anymore so I let it go. I want to be able to hear her voice, not send repeated text messages back and forth. Same thing happened last week. We repeatedly sent messages. It costs me $.50 per message and it adds up. We are both in our 30's and she is acting like we are middle school kids. Why won't she talk to me like a adult over the phone? I want to call her so bad, but I know if I do she will make up some kind of excuse or tell me to call her after 9pm when her minutes are free. Then when I do that, she won't answer the phone. I am starting to think she doesn't really want us to be friends and is just playing me like a fool. To see me work for this friendship and she is probably laughing behind my back knowing full well she doesn't want to be bothered. I have done everything I can to make this friendship work and she is not very supportive at all. I don't know what to do. Is she playing games or holding me off until she "feels" like talking to me or to finally drop the ball and say "the friendship is over". Like she has all the power. Technically she is holding all the cards and it isn't right. I can't stand this anymore. If she doesn't want to be my friend, why doesn't she say so? and I will leave her alone if that is what she wants. It isn't fair to string me along. I need peace. Help me please!