Im4real79

@Im4real79 (58)

United States • Age 45

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Why my friend gets more attention from men than me? I'm ignored

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 19 May 11

My friend is a pre-op male to female gay transexual. I'm a straight female. We have been friends for many years. My friend takes female hormones and has developed breasts,soft skin, feminine voice, etc so he looks very much like a...

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Is my best friend really a friend at all? Should I move to her town?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 27 Apr 10

I have a friend who I have known for many years. She lives about 35 miles from me in another bordering state. I am currently going through financial problems and need to find somewhere cheaper to live. She has been asking me to...

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Im4real79 I use to live where my friend lives now, so i am not a stranger to the city, but my friend is a lousy friend and I just don't know if she is worth the time to move back there.

27 Apr 10

Is my best friend really a friend at all? Should I move to her town?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 27 Apr 10

I have a friend who I have known for many years. She lives about 35 miles from me in another bordering state. I am currently going through financial problems and need to find somewhere cheaper to live. She has been asking me to...

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Why are you still single right now?

mr_smile @mr_smile (33) • Philippines 21 May 09

Post in you comments and tell us why? :)

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Im4real79 I am single because there doesn't seem to be any decent man my age who actually wants a relationship. I am tired of the head games. Most guys I know all they care about is their selfish needs.

26 Jun 09

What do you do when they aren't trying?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 13 Jun 09

So, I have this friend who doesn't appear to be making any attempts to continue to be my friend. We e-mail back and forth, nobody really initiated that, it just sort of goes both ways, but she can go quite awhile between e-mails...

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Im4real79 Girl. I am going through the same thing. My posts tell it all. My "friend" lives in Pennsylvania and she has two kids.Which I understand, but she has time for the rest of her friends who have money, cars and can take her shopping. I am low income without a car...

26 Jun 09

What do you do when they aren't trying?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 13 Jun 09

So, I have this friend who doesn't appear to be making any attempts to continue to be my friend. We e-mail back and forth, nobody really initiated that, it just sort of goes both ways, but she can go quite awhile between e-mails...

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Im4real79 Your friend sounds just like a friend of mine that i have. I say the term friend very loosely because in actual this girl isn't my friend if you think about it. I have known her since I was a teenager. We are both in our 30's now. Whenever I try to make plans...

26 Jun 09

repairing a friendship

willy6 @willy6 (498) • Jamaica 24 Jun 09

Sometimes we are hurt by our closest friend, when friendship break down that is no reason to throw years of companionship down the drain, you should open the line of communication with your friend. Nothing will happen unless you...

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Im4real79 I am currently trying to repair a broken friendship, but the other person is making everything long and drawn out and it is getting tiring. Instead of talking to me on the phone or in person. She text messages me and then becomes silent for weeks at a time. We...

26 Jun 09

I have no friends

slyvanus2001 @slyvanus2001 (53) • United States 25 Jun 09

I only have acquaintances. Sure, I know people. But I always have to schedule time with them. I don't have a friend who I can call up whenever I want to and talk to him/her. The one person who I would consider a friend moved to...

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Im4real79 I know what you mean. I am 30 years old and I still hardly have any real friends. I am currently experiencing problems with a friend of mine. Technically she isn't much of a friend. She only wants me around when convenient for her. I can't call her when I need...

26 Jun 09

My estranged friend won't talk to me by phone and it hurts. Tired of it. Help!

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 26 Jun 09

A friend and I have been having some trouble. Mainly because she doesn't treat me right and I was fed up. We got into a argument and currently we are not talking by phone. I apologized to her, even though it wasn't all my fault....

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My friendship is over after 10 years and she refuses to talk to me. Am I wrong?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 17 Jun 09

Last month a friend and I got into a argument and now she tells me the friendship is over. We have been friends for over 10 years. The argument started because I was hoping to spend time with her at least once this summer and she...

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My friend has lots of money and I need help! Should I ask her?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 There are no jobs in my area. A new company came to town recently and there were 500 people lined up for 100 positions.

10 Feb 09

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My friend has lots of money and I need help! Should I ask her?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 I agree completely.

10 Feb 09

My friend has lots of money and I need help! Should I ask her?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 I occasionally sell on eBay, but I have run out of things to sell. I don't make much from that because of all of the fees. I wouldn't mind donating plasma, but there is no such place like that in this town. I would have to pay money to go to the city. The...

10 Feb 09

My friend has lots of money and I need help! Should I ask her?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 She wouldn't even help me look for a job. She is too selfish to think about others. I have known this woman half my life. I know her responsibilities. She has money coming out of her eyeballs. She has a easy life, compared to me. She only refuses because she...

10 Feb 09

My friend has lots of money and I need help! Should I ask her?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 I would never borrow that amount of money from anyone. This so called friend of mine has plenty of money to burn and can afford to help a needy person if she wanted to. $50 is nothing to her. She has everything she needs.

10 Feb 09

My friend has lots of money and I need help! Should I ask her?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 I have no other friends to ask. The one or two other good friends I have don't have the extra cash to help me.

10 Feb 09

My friend has lots of money and I need help! Should I ask her?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 I live in a rural area and there isn't much help here. The food pantry here isn't great and sometimes the food is outdated. Once a month 1 or 2 churches give out gift cards to a grocery store, but sometimes they run out. I have to have a car to get there and I...

10 Feb 09

My friend has lots of money and I need help! Should I ask her?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 Yes, it is rough. I live in this rural town that doesn't want change. It is like being stuck in the 1800's out here. Even the hospital sucks. I want to move out of here so bad, but I need a car and a job in order to do that.

10 Feb 09

My friend has lots of money and I need help! Should I ask her?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 We really don't have much of a friendship as far as I am concerned. She has never been there for me. Yes, you are right she should have asked me if I needed anything. She is so busy talking about herself she sees nothing else.

10 Feb 09

My friend has lots of money and I need help! Should I ask her?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 Well, she really isn't a very good friend. She knows I am struggling and could care less.She is very money hungry and if there is nothing in it for her, she won't bother with it.

10 Feb 09