Im4real79

@Im4real79 (58)

United States • Age 45

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Why my friend gets more attention from men than me? I'm ignored

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 19 May 11

My friend is a pre-op male to female gay transexual. I'm a straight female. We have been friends for many years. My friend takes female hormones and has developed breasts,soft skin, feminine voice, etc so he looks very much like a...

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Is my best friend really a friend at all? Should I move to her town?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 27 Apr 10

I have a friend who I have known for many years. She lives about 35 miles from me in another bordering state. I am currently going through financial problems and need to find somewhere cheaper to live. She has been asking me to...

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My estranged friend won't talk to me by phone and it hurts. Tired of it. Help!

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 26 Jun 09

A friend and I have been having some trouble. Mainly because she doesn't treat me right and I was fed up. We got into a argument and currently we are not talking by phone. I apologized to her, even though it wasn't all my fault....

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My friendship is over after 10 years and she refuses to talk to me. Am I wrong?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 17 Jun 09

Last month a friend and I got into a argument and now she tells me the friendship is over. We have been friends for over 10 years. The argument started because I was hoping to spend time with her at least once this summer and she...

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friendship

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My friend has lots of money and I need help! Should I ask her?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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low income

unemployed

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My best friend is always neglecting me. Should I end the friendship?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 30 Dec 08

A long time friend of mine "Emily" has been neglecting me. She would rather spend most of her time with her partner and her many other friends. I haven't seen her in months and it bothers me. She could care less. I understand she...

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Anyone dealing with not having a car and find it frustrating?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 21 Dec 08

I am almost 30 years old and I still haven't had my first car yet. The reason is because I never make enough money to save up for one. I am alone and I have to pay rent, water bill, electric, etc. That leaves nothing left over...

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2 people

Does anyone live in a apartment with noisy neighbors or paper thin walls?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 18 Dec 08

I have a apartment that I am renting. When I first moved here it was quiet, but about 3 months into my lease I started noticing the noise upstairs. There are at least 5-7 people living above me. The foot traffic up there is...

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Do you have a friend that calls you just to brag what he or she has?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 17 Dec 08

I have a friend who is starting to get annoying. When she does call, which isn't too often. She stays on the phone the whole time talking about money and what she paid for everything. I am lucky to get a word in edgewise. For...

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Do you have any one sided friendships or friends who take you for granted?

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 16 Dec 08

I have a long time friend who is very selfish and takes me for granted. We were close friends for years. I try to spend time with her or ask her to come and see me, but she will make any excuse to avoid making any efforts on her...

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