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Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 27 Apr 10

I have a friend who I have known for many years. She lives about 35 miles from me in another bordering state. I am currently going through financial problems and need to find somewhere cheaper to live. She has been asking me to...

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Im4real79 I use to live where my friend lives now, so i am not a stranger to the city, but my friend is a lousy friend and I just don't know if she is worth the time to move back there.

27 Apr 10

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 13 Jun 09

So, I have this friend who doesn't appear to be making any attempts to continue to be my friend. We e-mail back and forth, nobody really initiated that, it just sort of goes both ways, but she can go quite awhile between e-mails...

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Im4real79 Girl. I am going through the same thing. My posts tell it all. My "friend" lives in Pennsylvania and she has two kids.Which I understand, but she has time for the rest of her friends who have money, cars and can take her shopping. I am low income without a car...

26 Jun 09

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 There are no jobs in my area. A new company came to town recently and there were 500 people lined up for 100 positions.

10 Feb 09

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Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 I agree completely.

10 Feb 09

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 I occasionally sell on eBay, but I have run out of things to sell. I don't make much from that because of all of the fees. I wouldn't mind donating plasma, but there is no such place like that in this town. I would have to pay money to go to the city. The...

10 Feb 09

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 She wouldn't even help me look for a job. She is too selfish to think about others. I have known this woman half my life. I know her responsibilities. She has money coming out of her eyeballs. She has a easy life, compared to me. She only refuses because she...

10 Feb 09

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 I would never borrow that amount of money from anyone. This so called friend of mine has plenty of money to burn and can afford to help a needy person if she wanted to. $50 is nothing to her. She has everything she needs.

10 Feb 09

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 I have no other friends to ask. The one or two other good friends I have don't have the extra cash to help me.

10 Feb 09

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 I live in a rural area and there isn't much help here. The food pantry here isn't great and sometimes the food is outdated. Once a month 1 or 2 churches give out gift cards to a grocery store, but sometimes they run out. I have to have a car to get there and I...

10 Feb 09

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 Yes, it is rough. I live in this rural town that doesn't want change. It is like being stuck in the 1800's out here. Even the hospital sucks. I want to move out of here so bad, but I need a car and a job in order to do that.

10 Feb 09

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 We really don't have much of a friendship as far as I am concerned. She has never been there for me. Yes, you are right she should have asked me if I needed anything. She is so busy talking about herself she sees nothing else.

10 Feb 09

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 9 Feb 09

I am a very low income individual. I live check to check. I live without luxuries, including cable tv, eating out and I have no car. I haven't bought new clothes in months. All I have for fun is a 10 year old computer and books....

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Im4real79 Well, she really isn't a very good friend. She knows I am struggling and could care less.She is very money hungry and if there is nothing in it for her, she won't bother with it.

10 Feb 09

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 30 Dec 08

A long time friend of mine "Emily" has been neglecting me. She would rather spend most of her time with her partner and her many other friends. I haven't seen her in months and it bothers me. She could care less. I understand she...

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Im4real79 I have talked to her about it before and it does no good.

31 Dec 08

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 21 Dec 08

I am almost 30 years old and I still haven't had my first car yet. The reason is because I never make enough money to save up for one. I am alone and I have to pay rent, water bill, electric, etc. That leaves nothing left over...

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Im4real79 Yes, I have my license and I do keep it renewed because I don't want to go through the whole process all over again. As for a loan. I have bad credit and can not qualify for car loans. Nothing I can do, but keep trying.

21 Dec 08

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 17 Dec 08

I have a friend who is starting to get annoying. When she does call, which isn't too often. She stays on the phone the whole time talking about money and what she paid for everything. I am lucky to get a word in edgewise. For...

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Im4real79 You are right about that. She expects me to be her friend, but is not one in return. She takes and takes and takes and never gives. She would rather concentrate her time on people who can take her out to fancy dinners and buy her gifts. I don't need her, she...

18 Dec 08

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 17 Dec 08

I have a friend who is starting to get annoying. When she does call, which isn't too often. She stays on the phone the whole time talking about money and what she paid for everything. I am lucky to get a word in edgewise. For...

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Im4real79 I have tried talking her before, not about this, but about how she treats me. She gave me a guilt trip and made it seem like she didn't know what I was talking about. She tends to turn stuff around on people to make her the victim in everything. I have always...

18 Dec 08

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 17 Dec 08

I have a friend who is starting to get annoying. When she does call, which isn't too often. She stays on the phone the whole time talking about money and what she paid for everything. I am lucky to get a word in edgewise. For...

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Im4real79 No. I don't encourage her. All I say is "that's nice". I am really not impressed with what she is saying. She is a very selfish and self absorbed person. She comes from a well off family and feels the need to tell me every detail about her new spendings.I...

18 Dec 08

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 17 Dec 08

I have a friend who is starting to get annoying. When she does call, which isn't too often. She stays on the phone the whole time talking about money and what she paid for everything. I am lucky to get a word in edgewise. For...

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Im4real79 You are absolutely right. She isn't a friend. We hardly spend any time together because she makes alot of excuses. Just recently I asked her to come over and see me. I have been asking to see her for the last 9 months. It is always the same excuse "I am busy"...

18 Dec 08

Im4real79 @Im4real79 (58) • United States 17 Dec 08

I have a friend who is starting to get annoying. When she does call, which isn't too often. She stays on the phone the whole time talking about money and what she paid for everything. I am lucky to get a word in edgewise. For...

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Im4real79 That may be the case. She does tell me she is happy, but I don't think she is. She has alot of health problems, including diabetes and cardiovasular issues and she is only 29 years old. Money can buy alot of things, but it can't buy health.

18 Dec 08

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