Im4real79

@Im4real79 (58)

United States • Age 45

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Why are you still single right now?

mr_smile @mr_smile (33) • Philippines 21 May 09

Post in you comments and tell us why? :)

single

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Im4real79 I am single because there doesn't seem to be any decent man my age who actually wants a relationship. I am tired of the head games. Most guys I know all they care about is their selfish needs.

26 Jun 09

What do you do when they aren't trying?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 13 Jun 09

So, I have this friend who doesn't appear to be making any attempts to continue to be my friend. We e-mail back and forth, nobody really initiated that, it just sort of goes both ways, but she can go quite awhile between e-mails...

friends

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Im4real79 Your friend sounds just like a friend of mine that i have. I say the term friend very loosely because in actual this girl isn't my friend if you think about it. I have known her since I was a teenager. We are both in our 30's now. Whenever I try to make plans...

26 Jun 09

repairing a friendship

willy6 @willy6 (498) • Jamaica 24 Jun 09

Sometimes we are hurt by our closest friend, when friendship break down that is no reason to throw years of companionship down the drain, you should open the line of communication with your friend. Nothing will happen unless you...

closest brak down cool down apologise separate way

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Im4real79 I am currently trying to repair a broken friendship, but the other person is making everything long and drawn out and it is getting tiring. Instead of talking to me on the phone or in person. She text messages me and then becomes silent for weeks at a time. We...

26 Jun 09

I have no friends

slyvanus2001 @slyvanus2001 (53) • United States 25 Jun 09

I only have acquaintances. Sure, I know people. But I always have to schedule time with them. I don't have a friend who I can call up whenever I want to and talk to him/her. The one person who I would consider a friend moved to...

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Im4real79 I know what you mean. I am 30 years old and I still hardly have any real friends. I am currently experiencing problems with a friend of mine. Technically she isn't much of a friend. She only wants me around when convenient for her. I can't call her when I need...

26 Jun 09

There are no jobs in my town...

psspurgeon1 @psspurgeon1 (1109) • United States 20 Oct 08

Literally, there are only 4 job listings in our newspaper. That is the way it has been for months. We have tons, literally 40% illigal immigrants in our city and people cant find jobs. Not sure what I will do when I decide that I...

bad economy

illigal

no jobs

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Im4real79 It sounds just like my town. The classified section is only a page or so with only a few listings.I would like to move away from here, but I can't until I find a better job. I don't have a car, which further limits me.

29 Dec 08

Always there for them but they disappear when I'm in need

stardustw83 @stardustw83 (435) • United States 28 Dec 08

I have a friend. Well actually my best friend she is my age and is married and has 4 children which she is adopting. She has so many fears and doesn't think highly of herself and she calls or writes to me on a regular basis to get...

best friends

friends

not friends at all

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Im4real79 I know exactly what you are going through because I am dealing with the same problem with a so called best friend of mine. We have been friends since the late 90's. I have been a very good friend to her, but I can't say the same thing about her. I have always...

29 Dec 08

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Do you rent or own your place?

missybear @missybear (11391) • United States 28 Dec 08

I rent my 1 bedroom apartment now for over 6 years. I wish i could afford to buy a house but i can't and my credit isn't that great so that doesn't help. Where do you live? House or Apartment and do you like it?

apartment

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Im4real79 I rent a 3 room studio apartment. I have been living here for the last 18 months. I do not like it here. I live on the second floor. The neighbors upstairs make a lot of racket and never seem to sit still. Always stomping, yelling and slamming cabinets and...

29 Dec 08

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can money buy happiness?

juanmary @juanmary (39) • China 28 Dec 08

can money buy happiness? this is the question that my friend ask me yestoday.what's your opinion?

happiness

money

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Im4real79 Well, it depends on the person. I know for me if I had money I would certainly be much happier. Not having enough money to pay bills, etc can cause unhappiness and extra stresses.Having money can solve some problems and make a more comfortable life. On the...

29 Dec 08

petpeevs

brandypelland @brandypelland (586) • United States 21 Dec 08

what are your worst pet peevs about people?

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Im4real79 One of my worst pet peeves is when in a grocery or a retail store people will stand in the middle of the isle talking on cellphones or with someone else meanwhile blocking the whole isle with the shopping cart. Geewhiz!

21 Dec 08

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Are you a driver?

sweetdesign @sweetdesign (5142) • United States 11 Dec 08

I do not drive. I have never had a drivers liscence. I come from a family history of non drivers. My uncle in CA has never had a liense either, my mom drives but didn't get her license till I was 6 years old (my brothers were 16...

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Im4real79 I just posted a question similiar to this. I do have a license, but I don't have money to buy a car or put a deposit on one. Hopefully, I will have a car in the near future. I live in a small town and the bus transportation isn't great.Not having a car makes...

21 Dec 08

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Has anyone questioned the legality of required converter boxes?

worldwise1 @worldwise1 (14885) • United States 7 Sep 08

I have been thinking for some time now about the requirement that everyone who does not have HDTV must purchase a converter box in order to be able to watch TV after the given date in February 2009. What if I'm perfectly happy...

converter

hdtv

utilities

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Im4real79 I know what you mean. I ordered my coupons months back, but they expired before I could save enough money for the additional $10-20 needed to get the converter box. So, now I guess I will continue to go without tv and watch dvds since the analog signal will be...

19 Dec 08

Do You Have Satellite or Cable?

Zezlol @Zezlol (409) • United Arab Emirates 10 Dec 08

In the early days, someone probably denounced cable by saying, "Television is like water, and no one will ever pay for something they can get for free". Still, people subscribed. Cable provided a tremendous service for those who...

cable

satellite

television

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Im4real79 Neither. I can't afford it. It is $60 per month just for the basic in my area.

19 Dec 08

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Do you live check to check?

kbourgerie @kbourgerie (8780) • United States 24 Mar 08

In these times its difficult to put money aside. Basically when you get paid through whatever source it might be, you pay your bills, buy groceries and whatever other amenities you might need and there is little left over. For...

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Im4real79 Yes. I live paycheck to paycheck. After I pay my basics such as rent, groceries, utilities, etc. There is nothing left over. People say to cut down on luxuries and entertainment, but doing that won't help because I don't have any luxuries. I have no cable tv,...

19 Dec 08

Do you use Amazon or Ebay?

baileycows @baileycows (3665) • United States 17 Dec 08

I use both of them but I am really starting to like amazon the best. They even have free shipping on alot of thier items. So what do you think? Or which one do you like better?

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Im4real79 I like both of them.

17 Dec 08

Owning old SNES and NES?

ak3600 @ak3600 (50) • Canada 10 Jul 08

How many of you still have a SNES or NES? I want to buy one just to have the memories :) so many games and so many hours spent playing haha.

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Im4real79 I don't have a SNES, but I do have a NES. I have two just in case one stops working. They are stil readily available online, but the prices have gone up a bit. I have some good games, such as SMB2 and Contra.

17 Dec 08

Do You Brag About The New Things You Have?

zhaychel @zhaychel (610) • United Arab Emirates 15 Nov 08

I have this friend of mine that has an attitude of bragging new things she have. She'll be sending off messages to her friend list about this new gadget she has and how she got it. She was doing this often and I was like HUH? Do...

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Im4real79 I have nothing to brag about, but I do have a so called friend who calls me at least once a month to give me the rundown of everything she just recently bought and how much things costs. Everything to her is money. It gets tiring after awhile.

17 Dec 08

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Do you have selfish friends?

maean_19 @maean_19 (4655) • Philippines 3 Jul 07

I always encounter friends like this and most of them are girls. Just this morning, a friend sent me a message asking about something and i told her to go online and check for the site of the Supreme Court. There she could find...

friends

life

people

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Im4real79 Yes. I have a friend like that. I have known her for years. She mostly calls me to brag about everything and talk about herself.

17 Dec 08

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$1000

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 16 Dec 08

If you had $1000 extra right now to do with as you pleased, what would you do with it? Pay bills? Finish Christmas shopping? I am expecting some money very soon, it should be near $3,000. If I get it before Christmas I might...

extra money

free money

pay bills

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Im4real79 I would help my family with some money and put the rest away towards a car.

17 Dec 08

Do you Expect anything from your "Friends" ????

twinklee @twinklee (894) • India 17 Dec 08

Hi all, what do you expect from your close friends? And if they are not meeting your expectations , how will you feel? Do you think EXPECTATION kills relationships?

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Im4real79 Yes. I have expectations, but it does no good. I have 1-2 good friends who I trust and love dearly and a fair weather friend who puts on a front as if we are the best of friends, when I know full well she isn't one. She treats me like a second class citizen...

17 Dec 08

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How many true friends do you have?

heyurock @heyurock (85) • United States 14 Dec 08

I have recently gone through some very difficult times, as I'm sure a lot of others have, however, I am so thankful for this whole experience because it has brought a few things to my attention. I used to think I had a lot of...

true friend

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Im4real79 I have a fair weather friend who I have known for years. I don't trust her completely and can not rely upon her at all. She only comes around when it is convient for her. I have two additional friends who I trust and have been there for me for the most part,...

16 Dec 08