Pictures don' t look like you?
By Margajoe
@Margajoe (4746)
Germany
June 28, 2009 5:01am CST
When you get your picture taken, are you happy with the results?
Does it really look like you?
The you you recognize in the mirror?
When I look in the mirror, I think I don't look to bad for my age.
But, when I get my picture taken!!!!
I had 10 pictures made of me. Only one seems good enough to put on MyLot.
Even this picture does not seem like me as I see me.
Anyway it is the real me, no make overs.
What about you? Do you like the results you get from your pictures of you?
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33 responses
@kriazenterprises (139)
• Pakistan
28 Jun 09
Just be your self and believe in yourself. pictures are reflection of your inner-self. If you are happy and feel good your picture will be good but if you always try to look good and never satisfied with your self then no matter what you do, your picture will always be disappointed. just remember smile!
It increases your face value.
LiveLovelyLongLife
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@Margajoe (4746)
• Germany
28 Jun 09
Yes that is nice.
But, even when I am in a good mood, my pictures are normally terrible.
Every once in a while there is a picture I can relate too.
Mostly they don't really look like me, like how I see me. hahaha!
But you are right, it is the inner self that should be beautiful.
@kriazenterprises (139)
• Pakistan
28 Jun 09
and by the way if all efforts fails and you can't get the right picture then worry no more. just send it to me and i will do the photoshop magic for you. that's why ia ma here for to bring the smile on people's face :)
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@Margajoe (4746)
• Germany
28 Jun 09
That is nice of you, thank-you.
My BF does that too, but somehow for me he won't do it.
When I asked him yesterday to make some pictures of me, he looked at me funny.
He does not understand why I would put them on the internet.
For my friend , he made really nice pictures. She put them on the internet.
Maybe he is afraid of me meeting other men.
Have a nice day.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
28 Jun 09
I think the camera is more scared to take my pictures cos I will end up disgusted and frustrated seeing seeing my pics as they look horrible. My snapshots will end up in the bin. I am not a photogenic person and that is the reason I do not like my photos taken. But when I was younger, heaven knows how sweet I was. Only with little make-up I can be mistaken for a beauty queen.. Now that age has erased every bit of my youth leaving me with sagging and flatten features that is not worthy of a camera pose.ha...ha..ha..
@photobug10 (1)
• Canada
29 Jun 09
Do you think that maybe we are all being a little hard on ourselves? We can't look 20 forever. Sometimes I think we expect to see the old us in pictures, you know the one that we thought was full of flaws way back when we truly looked fabulous. Time stops for no one, even celebs don't age well, especially all those relying on plastic surgery to bring back their youth. If you think that the celebs look good, just remember that photoediting fixes everything, so stop comparing yourself to impossible and unattainable standards. Instead... celebrate the good things in life, all your achievements and happy moments are far more important than saggy skin. I look at my kids and think, thank God I'm here and healthy and a little worse for wear, but happy just the same. No place I'd rather be. It's all a state of mind, say it and believe it and the whole world looks different.
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@applefreak (3130)
• Singapore
30 Jun 09
there are times that i dislike the picture. i am not a photogenic person so that explains quite a lot.
recently, i had to get a passport sized photo for my resume. a colleague looked at the photo and started laughing. another colleague actually said that she'd take another photo to send with the resume. guess i don't really look good on that photo.
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@applefreak (3130)
• Singapore
1 Jul 09
yes the picture is my girl. isn't she pretty? i always call her 'pretty girl'. she enjoys being called pretty.
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@Margajoe (4746)
• Germany
9 Jul 09
Yes she is very pretty. I think cats understand us too.
Today I told my cat Mittsie, that he was not going to get all the same food I eat anymore, because most of the time he does not like it.
He then bit me!!! In my hand very hard! AS if he was offended.
I never had that happen before. He knows I am angry and stays far away from the newspaper. hahahaha!I just have to look at him and show him my hand (the place where he bit me) and he runs away.
They are not stupid.
But still your girlie has beautiful eyes!
Have a nice day.
@Margajoe (4746)
• Germany
1 Jul 09
That reminds me of my picture for my id card.
We are not suppose to laugh anymore, and the left ear has to be free.
Well, I look so old on that picture!!!
It is terrible, and I have to carry this with me for years!
I look like I escaped from jail.
Love you cats picture, she has beautiful eyes!!!
Is you cat a she??? I have been told when a cat has a small snout, it is she.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
wow I got a lovely angel
well Joe I am camera shy and never look the same on photos
and on real life so I rarely take photos of myself
and only one of my friend here online has a photo of me.
you are so lovely Joe
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@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
29 Jun 09
hmmmm angels dont appear to us you know and we dont know what they look like so just imagine me as one of those cute baby angel then take care too Joe
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
14 Jul 09
Sometimes, though sometimes I'm not. The end result isn't always the same. LOL That's why it's probably best to take a bunch of pictures to get one or 2 that you're satisfied with.
For the most part the pictures of me look like me. Though like you my husband took a lot of pictures of me before we got the one that I'm using as my avatar picture. As you can see we finally agreed on this one!
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@worldbestwriter2008 (1633)
• Philippines
18 Jan 10
yeah i am happy with the result even some of the taken photos looks bad..or even it looks not like me..i am still happy then..what can i do, if that's God's given gift to me..i born like this and i'm so happy with this..picture are only picture they are not real, what is real is my personal looks.
@kindy198636 (471)
• China
29 Jun 09
That depends, sometimes the picture will better than the real me, and I'm happy to put it on the websites, Haha.And if the picture worse than the real me, and looks ugly, I will get ride of that picture, actually the picture always make me fat, that make me crazy.
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@kindy198636 (471)
• China
2 Jul 09
Haha, thank you, this baby is my sister's son, he is really cute, now he is three years old, I like to take picture for him, he always look good in picture, so jealous, Haha.
@nzalheart (2338)
• India
29 Jun 09
Hello Margajoe!!!
Well the picture we see with the photograph is more accurate to how actually we look than the image in the mirror. Because in the mirror, your image is just opposite. That is the right part of you become the left part of your image and the left part become the right part in the image. I forgot what term is used for this translation. Anyway, what i mean to say is clear. But in the photograph, there is no such translation. And therefore give more accurate picture about how we look.
We can't see our real face easily. Only in the photographs you can see how you really look. Sometimes, I wonder I could see myself like I am seeing other hehe...But that is not possible...
And about the picture, that really depends on how good the picture come it. Sometimes, the pictures look bad that how we actually are and sometimes the picture come out very nice than how we are isn't. So there are good pictures as well as bad pictures. So, I can't say that the pictures don't like me. If I have to say I don't like my pictures, that means to say that I don't like my face...
Interesting discussion Margajoe...keep posting...Happy mylotting...
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@Margajoe (4746)
• Germany
1 Jul 09
Thanks.
But, I really like to beleive it is the mirror that is right.
If I look so much like my pictures, I am not happy.
Sure, some are okay, I am no beauty queen and don't expect to be.
But, one person also said it had something to do with the light?
Maybe it also has something to do with the person making the picture.
Have you ever seem pictures of Madonna?
Personally I think she is ugly in real life. But her pictures are beautiful.
Maybe photo shops???
@nzalheart (2338)
• India
5 Jul 09
Yes, light also plays a major role in taking photographs. It totally affects how we are going to look on the photos. Like the shadows of our forheard, hair over the sides of eyes making face darker at some points and brighter at some points. When the side of light is perfect, the picture comes to be best. And about Madonna, they are taken by good photographers. I am sure you will also look very nice if they took your photograph. They know which pose you should look better and from which angle and how the photograph is to be taken. That is the art of photography...
Sorry for late reply, I was away from mylot for some days...
Happy mylotting...
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
5 Jul 09
Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It depends on who is taking the picture and how good they are and the lighting, all sorts of factors.
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@Margajoe (4746)
• Germany
9 Jul 09
Yes I have noticed that some people seem to make better pictures.
You are right.
I was looking through my photo albums yesterday and found some of my pictures looked rather good. I did not notice that before.
But, I have changed too. I am older and have gained weight. SO, I guess a part of me still sees me as young and skinny.
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@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
29 Jun 09
So I am not alone in this!
All along I thought it to be a mental malady of mine…I could never identify the me I see in the mirror with the me I see in my photos…so much so that I have actually stopped my pix being taken! I am not a beauty but my features are all there in right proportions so when I look at myself in the mirror, I see an OK person smiling back…alright, maybe my left jaw is a little twisted and my upper teeth a lil high but it doesn’t look so prominent in the mirror but when you see my pix! OMG….you would be forgiven for thinking I got hit on the jaw by a champion boxer…the jaw looks so twisted! And I look so fat….nah! I like myself better in the mirror.
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@Margajoe (4746)
• Germany
1 Jul 09
Yes me too!!!
One person here said it has to do with the lighting of the picture.
I don't know. I do know what you have with your jaw, I have with my nose.
It always looks so much bigger in the picture.
My face looks much longer too.
And like you, I look fatter than I normally see myself.
Very seldom that I have a picture of me that I really like.
@moondancer (7433)
• United States
29 Jun 09
It is really odd. I hate pictures of me. I rarely take them because as you say what I see in the mirror and what comes out in a picture do not look the same. I have a thin face. I am over weight but not as much as a picture makes me look. The pictures make my face even look fat, so what gives? It's kind of like they say about tv that it puts 15 pounds on you well when I take a picture it puts 50 pounds on me. I just don't get it. I also look as white as a sheet in a picture. I am pale but not white, white. I guess now you know why you never see pictures of me, or hardly ever anyway.
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@Margajoe (4746)
• Germany
1 Jul 09
Your dog takes good pictures. He looks like he has a great home.
There is one lady here that says it all has to do with the light.
I don't know, maybe?
I look very fat in pictures now too. I have gained weight, but not as much as my pictures tell me. hahaha!
When I was skinny, I looked like a skeleton, know I look like a cow.
Very few pictures of me that are nice. Oh well.
@cowgirljess (336)
• United States
29 Jun 09
I hate having my picture taken, no matter what they always come out looking cruddy, well at least I think so, my man loves most of them. I guess they look like me, but the camera does add some pounds (at least that is my excuse and my nose always looks really pointy, but in life, it is little a little piggies or so i have been told. lol So for the most part, no my pictures suck, every now and again maybe one is fifty, do i like one of the pictures taken of me.
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@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
29 Jun 09
sometimes i dont feel like it is me in some of my pictures and often times i dont like its outcome. well i dont know why i dont really see myself that attractive. but sometimes, those pictures are so deceiving even i could think that i become a lot more attractive and beautiful. some even use photoshop to edit their features so that they may look, well, though quite diffrent but still totally not them.
jhelai