Should i marry or not?

@luskas (3428)
Portugal
November 13, 2006 3:15pm CST
I´m marrying soon and i would like to ear your oppinion...
10 responses
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
14 Nov 06
If you still want to enjoy your life being single, do not. Love can wait. But if you really love your gf or bf and you think you can't live without him, then marry.
@luskas (3428)
• Portugal
14 Nov 06
Thankx... Simple and nice thankx bro.
@Signal20 (2281)
• United States
14 Nov 06
If you're having any doubts at all, you need to wait. Not sure we're you're from, and how divorces rank in your country, but it's not worth the hassle/money. Fighting is normal in all relationships, especially when you have two complete different personalities. You both need to learn how to compromise with each other for certain issues, and which issues are not compromisable. In my opinion, I'd give it more time and wait and see. Good luck!!
@luskas (3428)
• Portugal
14 Nov 06
Thankx a lot... You seem like a experienced person and i much apreciated your advice. I´m from Portugal and here getting divorce it´s easier than marry believe me :)...
• India
14 Nov 06
discuss with u'r lover and desired.............. advance happy marry life.....
@luskas (3428)
• Portugal
14 Nov 06
Thankx... I think its up to me now.
@chikku (671)
• India
13 Nov 06
I think it is upto you to decide and decide soon as you dont seem to have much time. Take out some time for yourself and think about it without any interruptions as your asking this question on this forum shows that you yourself are not very convinced with the idea. So don't take such a serious step without making sure that this is what you want to do.. its better to say No right now then to repent later..
@luskas (3428)
• Portugal
14 Nov 06
Thankx... Very honnest. I appreciated your advice, and no i´m not conviced yet with the idea :)... Im a little bit scared, but then, why im scared about right?
• Canada
13 Nov 06
all up to you- but if you have any doubts, you should think harder about it. Divorce is a nasty business.
@luskas (3428)
• Portugal
14 Nov 06
Thankx... You´re right, i hate to be divorced. The more i think the more the time goes by... Guess the more i think the less i know...
@masta86 (469)
• Estonia
13 Nov 06
If you are marrying soon then you shouldnt ask us that! You have to know it... Oh god!!
@luskas (3428)
• Portugal
14 Nov 06
Thankx... Are you married? I mean if you are, you had sure all along? Even when was all set up? If you are not married i guess i´ll be the one to say you´ll find out some day :).
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
13 Nov 06
If you are having any doubts at all, maybe you should wait. It is not something that someone else can decide for you. Marriage should be taken seriously and it is a lot of work to make a marriage last.
@luskas (3428)
• Portugal
14 Nov 06
Thankx... I´m not hopping that someone decide for me but i like to ear oppinions from those who are married, who are about or those who never though about it...
@salex142 (686)
• United States
13 Nov 06
it is up to u if u feel that u love that person and that u can see yourself spending the rest of your life with them
@luskas (3428)
• Portugal
15 Nov 06
Thankx for your sincere awnser...
@salex142 (686)
• United States
13 Nov 06
it is up to u if u feel that u love that person and that u can see yourself spending the rest of your life with them
@luskas (3428)
• Portugal
14 Nov 06
Thankx... That´s the thing... I love her allright but we are quite diferent persons. I mean loving someone is just enough? And if we gonna be like we are now always fighting over stupid things? I though i was a good idea just be together without marry but she doesn´t want to...
@gnt23tr (1014)
• United States
13 Nov 06
If you love him/her why not, go ahead.
@luskas (3428)
• Portugal
14 Nov 06
Thankx for your confidence...