Do you let your lover into the bathroom when your using it?

I agree Hatley! I think bathroom time is private time. I have been in the shower and he has needed to pee that is okay. Just hurry, get in and out.. I get so aggitated. I just dont understand why its a big deal to SH*t when I take a shower. AINT happenin. dl

I'm just like you two. My partner has never done this, and I wouldn't like it if he would. I know that it's really not a big deal, but when I'm in the comfort room I want total privacy. I don't want anyone disturbing me. I really appreciate that my partner doesn't do this. Maybe he already knows that I don't like it even though I've never told him.

I am embarassed. If I am having a bowel movement and need to strain or pass gas I want to be able to do it without having someone else watching me. Just me I guess! Happy Posting. dl

hi dlovlei, wc stands for water closet. it's the thing that we sit on when doing our business.

Apple what is wc? I am assuming it has to do with the toilet. I hope. I dont think anyone should come in while you do your business. Isnt anything sacred? Thanks for your response. Happy MyLotting dl

I feel exactly the same way. I dont know why but I just do. I dont get to do all my business when I have an audience. I dont think peeing is bad or going if Im in the shower or vice versa. I mind if he is sitting on the side of the tub talking to me. If I have to push or make a face or something, its embarassing. How about you? I have never heard of a door on the toilet not on the entire bathroom. THats different. If I had it like that I dont think I would mind. The door is on the toilet so it doesnt matter cause he cant see me anyways. I think I am going to renovate my bathroom to be just like yours. Thanks for the idea. dl

It's on newer houses and it's a great idea for master bathrooms. In my old house, I had to wait until he was done taking his dump before I could brush my teeth, get my clothes out (you had to go thru the bathroom to get to the closet), etc. In this house I can do all those things, but the toilet functions are private.

I never thought about that! THe more I act as if I dont want it, the more it will make him wonder what Im hiding. My luck it wont work and he'll take me up on the offer. lol The more I think about it, the more I realize its not that important. If he loves me, he will love me know matter what I smell like or may do. Thanks friend! dl

I think its that I am shy I guess. I have been with him for five years and Its still new. I know what you're going to say five years already. I know but my kids father was an abusive man. I guess this is really why I am nervous. I know in my heart that he is a great, loving man but I am embarassed that he will laugh at me. I know its stupid. Thanks for your response dl

What do you mean by "your kids' father is an abusive man"? You mean your husband? The man you are with right now??? In what way he abused your kids? I am sorry but I am a bit confuse. How can he be a great and loving man if he is guilty of abusing his kids?

Good point Danish! I am not to embarassed about being in the shower while he uses the bathroom or vice versa. I just dont like him sitting in there when Im trying to go NUMBER 2! Just my insecurities dl

I dont go to the bathroom if its anything more serious than a pee pee. I feel embarassed about anything else. What if I have to strain and make a funny face? To me that is personal and should remain as such. dl

You are lucky.. I dont have a problem with it. Its just when Its that time of the month or I am not feeling well I would like to be alone. I think I should be able to without having him make a big deal. Sometimes he does sometimes he doesnt. I think their should be boundaries sometimes. If only to maintain a healthy relationship. Thanks friend and I hope you poop in peace,lol. dl

You are a lucky ducky!!! If I had 3 bathrooms I would never have to wait or walk in on anybody. Thats like paradise. I would use the one that is farthest from everyone and everything. Then I would have privacy, That would be heaven ! dl

That sounds cool. I think you and your hubby exhibit a great communication and respect for each other. I also think that I am not comfortable in my own skin so until I am, I shouldnt have to allow him to do this. I dont like the way I look. WHy would I want the man who loves me to see me. I am working thru things. When I am comfortable he will be called in. Until then respect my wishes. Thanks happy posting. dl

I do the exact same thing. If its an emergency, then its a different story. If its just a matter of privacy then he should want you to have alone time. I just think that if you're in the shower and someone needs to use the toilet than ok. Hurry up and be done with that. I just dont want anyone sitting down talking to me or keeping the door open when they're taking a dump. Maybe its just me. THanks for responding and Happy MyLotting. dl

I used to do the same thing. Until..... My oldest daughter moved home and it got to the point whenever I was in the bathroom, she was there. Then I would find both girls in there. Its very hard to have a BM when you've got two kids talking to you about two entirely different subjects. I forgot to mention that I also have two boys(dogs) as well and a cat. THe cat likes to sit in the window in the bathroom so she's usually always there. The dogs go wherever I go. Then the girls.The only good thing is that My hubby wont come in when the girls are there out of respect.Last saturday was the last straw. I was in the bathroom peeing. Of course the dogs and cat were there. Here comes my oldest daughter. Then the younger one. The icing on the cake was when my best friend comes into the bathroom as well. COME ON! R U SERIOUS? This is why I am the way I am. can you blame me? dl

My point exactly! Why is that we have to let them into the bathroom to show that we love them. Heck NO! I have heard all the responses. I do think i am a little uptight but its only because it such a personal things. I dont think that I want to know what he smells like. Even thinking about it its nasty. I'm with you who wants that smell on their clothes?lol Or anywhere else for that matter. I am perfectly happy smelling his cologne rather than his A*s! lmao dl

dloveli, Thank you for your compliments and I'm glad feels exactly the same like you about me. I am glad that your husband realizes and respects your wishes. So, he's a good man as well and that the both of you are working things out. All the best and that the both of you will cherish each other. Take care and have a nice day.

You are a sweet man! Please tell your wife how lucky she is! Its not everyday that I am touched by a response. This is a first. Thank you so much. I cant over the kindness you put forward. It didnt go unnoticed. I have told him how I feel and he has been making sure I have my privacy. He is a wonderful person. I think he just wanted to let me know he loved me no matter what I may be doing. He doesnt like to be bothered when he is in the bathroom. He has a ritual he performs every morning. I think after I told him about my feelings on this he saw that he wasnt giving me the privacy and personal time I need. THanks so much you are a very nice man. Your wife is lucky! dl

I wish I had your attitude! It's funny because I am loud, out going, etc. so it's funny that I am shy about this one thing. LOL I feel embarassed. I guess Im afraid that having him in the bathroom with me will change the way he sees me. I am going to sit down and talk to him and let him know how I feel. Thanks and Happy MyLotting dl