Is it bad that your boyfriend/girlfriend doesnt want to kiss you?
By globleking
@globleking (2754)
India
November 14, 2006 3:37pm CST
Is it bad that your boyfriend/girlfriend doesnt want to kiss you?
13 responses
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
14 Nov 06
I think there can be many reasons why someone doesn't want to kiss you, it all depends on the case. For example:
- The person has a problem with bad breath and is affraid to spoil the kiss
- The person has bad teeth and is affraid you might get a turn off by that
- The person has never liked kissing very much (does want to cuddle?)
- The person has lost interest in kissing or the partner
- The person needs something new and fresh to make the kissing more interesting
- The person doesn't feel the spark in the relationship anymore and avoids any token of affection
These are some of the reasons I know why people don't want to kiss. It depends on how long you have been seeing each other, what type of person your partner is, and so on.
In every case, if something worries you, talk openly about it with your partner.
When you are worried and won't tell your partner, there might become frustrations that build up and escalate in the future. By that time, you might even not know where these came from in the first place; like the last drop added to a full bucket.
So bottom line: If you are unsure, sit down and talk about it with your partner. This is the only way you will ever know the true reason.
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@janey84 (523)
• Australia
19 Nov 06
When he doesn't want to kiss me, it's because he is so busy dat he has lots of things in his mind..too much stress i guess,, dat makes him want to b alone for a while...but after everything is clear,he would come n kiss me...at first i'm a bit angry about it..but later i find dat it's not his intention to do dat...u noe wat i mean...
@fiasco007 (819)
• United States
14 Nov 06
what is the reson he doesnt want to kiss you?he don`t love enymore or its somebody else for me is very bad its a bad sign
@manzician (4727)
• India
15 Nov 06
I cant say.. My gf just cant stop kissing me...Aneewayz.... Thanks for your question.... Its really nice to be here at mylot.... Are you guys here for money or just for fun???
@TrainsR4Me (231)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Although there are some people that really are scared to kiss each other, I'd worry that something else in the way. I would see that as a red flag, sit the person down and have a talk with them.
@guudkarma (39)
• United States
15 Nov 06
he doesn't like to kiss...and I do... it's a problem.??...or it could be...