Are you happy with just one lover or do you need more?

United States
January 10, 2010 10:44pm CST
I have been on both sides of the coin, but prefer just one. I also don't care for the who's my daddy epidemic that seems to be going around these days. But when you are young you are stupid. Anything goes.
4 responses
jojorv
@jojorv (201)
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
i prefer being with only one. we need to respect our lovers or partners. we should stop having multiple lovers at the same time. only one at a time.
tanniebabe78
@tanniebabe78 (2934)
• United States
11 Jan 10
This is very true. I find it so sad that many of the kids of today have no idea who their true father is because the mother has had so many partners that time frame. Its not just the adults that are affected.
BART78
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
11 Jan 10
when i was young, and yeah! stupid, i had two to three girlfriend at same time and i learned and enjoyed alot from those years...now that i settle down, i'll stick to my only one..
tanniebabe78
@tanniebabe78 (2934)
• United States
11 Jan 10
Isn't it nice when we get older and mellow out? lol. I would take a lot of stuff back if I could.
iona84
@iona84 (18)
• Romania
11 Jan 10
I think that it depends on each person and on how much you love the person you are with. Some people are made to be faithful while others can't help on cheating. I personally was with my first boyfriend 5 years and because he was not "the one" I went out with other guys and don't feel bad for doing it. Now that I'm married and I'm with the person that completes me and also the father of my baby boy, I cannot think even think about being with other man. I believe that this is true love!!!
cloudymcstiles
@cloudymcstiles (40)
• Indonesia
11 Jan 10
I think one lover is more than enough. As long as he is the right person :) But sometimes, people say things to me like "what are you doing with just one guy?" or "you're still young... don't waste your time" like that. It really annoys me when people say things like that :(