Are you not or are you against pre-marital ... ?
By jhaded10
@jhaded10 (42)
Philippines
January 19, 2010 8:34pm CST
this is always the question. a question that will weigh how you value your morality. how you value yourself and how you value your relationship with your partner. in the conservative world, it is an issue but to those who have openly accepted that this "thing" is not a big deal, well, whatever our decision about this matter, the responsibility is in our hand. whatever the consequence maybe we should be responsible.
3 responses
@phoenix1344 (698)
• United States
20 Jan 10
I am for it in certain situations. My boyfriend and I for example have been together for 4 years now and have been intimate for only 2. We are both each others first and only partners and we also plan on getting married.
And I know he wouldn't bail on me and if a baby happens before we aremarried then we will act accordingly and get married. (We aren't married yet because we still live in our parents home).
Then again, I also just became religious and Christian so my boyfriend and I are working on remaining pure until marriage if we can.
But the hardest part is it doesn't feel wrong to me. It feels just like strong love between us but nothing sinful. It can't always be sinful if done right.. or maybe it can.
@jhaded10 (42)
• Philippines
22 Jan 10
yeah it always depend in certain situation. if you're really sure that his the right one and eventhough you didn't end up together in the end, as long as you love the person, you will not regret it.
congratulations in advance for your marriage and i know both of you will become a responsible parents. :)
@jholai (43)
• United Arab Emirates
20 Jan 10
being responsible for the consequence is MOST important..but one should be ready and open (accepting). i am neither pro nor against it. as far as our morality and upbringing concerns, we are not supposed to. in the conservation world, it's really a big deal..people talk. but to a modern person, if he/she can manage perfectly well and confident of his/her actions/results..it won't be a big deal..it happens all the time in the practical world...so i would say, it depends on the people concerned. if they are mature enough to handle..as long as they have both have mutual view on that.. then everything will be fine..
@ronz_27 (123)
• Philippines
20 Jan 10
Preservation of morality is very important. We don't want to be immoral. but sometimes morality is only a word we forget to value it.Pre-marital in real scene is immoral in the sight of the church. but sometimes in lovers they forgot it because of the powerful love flows in their hearts and mind. But after the things happen there always a question in the mind and a projection that may happen or a reward of the things that they had done. What is important there that everyone should be responsible for what they had done.lol
