DO YOU AVOID PEOPLE Whom you don't like

@singuri (571)
India
January 24, 2010 7:10pm CST
Let it be men or women ,Its doesn't make any difference if you don't like them..I think only way to happiness is to avoid unwanted people let it be work mates or neighbors.Why to get adjusted with people whom you don't like.I tell people whom I don't like to keep away from me.Can you say that to others that you don't like them and not to disturb you?
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30 responses
• Estonia
25 Jan 10
I usually try to avoid such people. I try to make it clear, politely of course, that I don't want to communicate with them. If they don't get it, I tell them directly what do I think and ask them to stop bothering me.
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@May2k8 (18359)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 10
It depends on whether they are considered a nuisance or not, if yes I do not avoid it, but maybe a little distant with my mates. By saying I don't like to that person, maybe it was the best way. So, my mate would not approached me anymore.
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• India
25 Jan 10
Not exactly.I dont avoid them just because i dont like them.Actually there can be various reasons for me not liking a particular person.That doesnot mean i should avoid that person.This should not be done as we are all humans.
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• India
25 Jan 10
well i mostly avoid those people you know...it does not suite me to talk to them...because in my heart and mind i know that i dont like them but sometimes if situation comes you have to talk to them you cant do anything then but mostly i dont talk with them
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• India
25 Jan 10
hate is a strong word. i dont hate anyone. i sometimes only dislike people and as it goes with my habit, i try to know the person more and more better with whom i dont go well
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@AbyssalV (35)
25 Jan 10
If it's a friend I sort if out, but if it's someone I don't really know theres no point, real relationships as in friends need to be sorted out.
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@sandymay16 (1617)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
If I don't like that person I always try to avoid that person. I try my best to be not in the same room as that person. And if the situation can't be avoided I don't make small talk at all and I just ignore the person. My day would be ruined if I do get to meet the person I don't like. Trying to put up a fake smile is not me.
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@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
25 Jan 10
If I know people at work I don't like I just won't talk to them. There is only one person I don't like at this time. I hate my dad for being a lousey father and I don't stay in touch with like my siblings do. With people who have used me in the past and want to continue being friends I won't like this happen! I tell them to leave me alone or I just do not stay in contact with them. This is why I like to have a few friends I can trust!
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• Philippines
25 Jan 10
you're way too brave man. But I can't say it right to their faces that I don't like their presence. Sometimes when it's inevitable, I just shut my mouth up and do other stuffs. I won't entertain them. You may call me anti-social but I really don't want to appear plasctic to the people I don't like. In some point, I want to escape from the city that I live in. There are a lot of people that I like to avoid or don't want to meet. I hope I get the chance.
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@anthony89 (154)
• United States
25 Jan 10
I avoid people I don't like if they are not family or have any relationship with my family. I only avoid people who are not related and I really don't like. If I don't like someone who has relationships with my family members then I won't just ignore them completely but I will still say hi. I tell people I don't like to leave me alone, because it's usually them asking for something because they were once friends with me. I try to avoid those people who are users completely and have nothing to do with them at all.
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@megamatt (14292)
• United States
25 Jan 10
Well, I try and avoid these people whenever possible. There is normally a pretty good reason why I do not like them. If I have constant interaction with them, it will lead to nothing but trouble. If I am forced to interact with these people, I am normally two things. Extremely cordial and extremely brief, in an attempt to limit my interactions without problems. It is hard to tell people that you do not like them, because there are times when you come across as the unlikeable person. It has to be done very gently and very carefully.
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@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
25 Jan 10
Sometimes even if you dislike someone you have to face that person everydays, for example, when it's your friend's friend or so. I usually try to see as less as possible people who I don't like, and if I have to see them often, I won't usually speak to them.
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@ltruong (128)
• Australia
25 Jan 10
Well it depends. If it's people that I'm fighting with or have problems with I tend to confront them and walk right past, to provoke them. But if it's someone that's like a freak/weirdo then I'd just ignore them and leave them alone.
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• China
25 Jan 10
Hello, Singuri. If I don't like someone, I will not contact him/her from my side. But sometimes it is not avoided that he/she will turn to you. I will be pilote if he/she doesn't do something unsuitable. We will not like everyone around you, but we must learn how to communicate with everyone smoothly.
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@mariechin (426)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
NO I dont avoid them... I just interact professionally with them. Sometimes you get irritated but you know you can't always avoid them, you just need to find ways on how to interact with them.
@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
25 Jan 10
It's depend on the relationship. If the relation have to keep then we need to adjust but if no need to continue the relation or if relation breakup then there will not be any problem for other then no need to do adjustment. And i will not do.
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@faimei (127)
• Philippines
26 Jan 10
Yes, I avoid people whom I do not like. So that I can avoid commotions or any unnecessary encounters with that person. If in case I need to interact with them then I might just work with that person professionally and forget what I don't like about his/her for the moment. But if she or she will get to my nerve then I would probably just walk away. If she persists then I would frankly tell her what I don't like about her and ask her to please stay away.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
26 Jan 10
Well I avoid someone that likes me it's not that I hate him or anything,it's just really awkward for me and I can't handle that kind of stress right now. I think it's cute that he likes me, but I just feel that I have to avoid him. Well my two friends they avoid each other because they don't like each other very much. They have some deep issues between each other that can't be solved. Hopefully one day they will stop avoiding each other and talk like two civilized people.
• China
25 Jan 10
hi,singuri.when i meet someone who i do not like,i maybe talk little to him,or i say nothing to him,but i never avoid him.
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• United States
26 Jan 10
Well I mostly do it, just I can't do it with people like my boss, customers or my boyfriend's friend, sometimes you have to tolerate some people depending of the relationship that you have with them.