Rolex watch -- would u sell an inherited one to get out of financial difficulty?

Rolex watch - an expensive rare edition Rolex watch
Philippines
February 16, 2010 8:22am CST
You inherited an expensive Rolex watch from your parents and is one whose manufacture was limited or only for a few pieces. You value very much the heirloom and it has even been years that you are keeping it for safety. You even hesitate wearing it for fear of losing it to robbers and hold-uppers but would want to hold on to it because of the memory and sentimental value attached to it. But then, times go hard for you and you experience great financial difficulty and you needed money direly. Would you sell that Rolex watch that has become the only memory of your parents and one of very high sentimental value to you?
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16 responses
@allknowing (137552)
• India
18 Feb 10
Heirloom - I would sell it in time of need
If I have no other alternative save to go about with a beggar's bowl I will sell it to save my dignity as what's in a piece of metal if it is to be kept as a memento and what guarantee do I have that my progeny will respect it the same way I do?
• Philippines
18 Feb 10
Hi Allknowing, Selling it would be the best solution. With the huge proceeds, it will surely get you out of financial difficulty while comfortably living and feeding the family. I would decide to sell it, too. It has never served its purpose to me because I don't want to wear it for fear of being robbed or putting my life in danger. Rather than it lying idle, I know the owners would be happy to see me get out of financial trouble with the help of the valuable piece of heirloom that they left me.
@allknowing (137552)
• India
19 Feb 10
Thanks for the BR tag
@emerillus (467)
• Philippines
16 Feb 10
Well, for me if it will help me financially, I'd rather sell it rather than go hungry. The watch is only a thing, it is really a big help because it is a Rolex. I'm very sure my parents will approve of my decision because they love me so much they will not want me to become hungry, I'm more important than the Rolex and if I die, I can't bring the Rolex with me anyway.
@newtalent (1112)
• United States
16 Feb 10
So true and I have to agree with you, It is hard to let go a material object because it does recollect the the memories of that person. You will always have memories and you can keep them alive in heart or when you talk to family members. No one can take those away from you as long as you choose to keep them alive which I am sure will because you are asking for advice on a difficult decision. Ultimately you will make the decision that it right for you so let you heart talk to you. Good Luck and take care.
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
Hi Emerillus, Selling it would be the best thing to do under that dire financial need. We know how much Rolex watches cost now, especially the vintage edition. I am sure it can go a long way to solve financial problems. Of course, we have to part away the memories that it carries. It may be something we feel guilty or sorry but selling it is the right thing to do rather than, say, borrowing money or even doing illegal acts to solve financial problems: Newtalent: You are right. The memories will always be there. Let us live in the thought that they who have left us, don't want to see us suffering, and, in a way, are even glad to have the Rolex watch helped us who are still struggling on earth. Thanks to both of you!
@srganesh (6340)
• India
17 Feb 10
Assets are things we invest for financial security.It is common for everybody to accumulate in any form for their family members.But they will not like to see them starved bugt safe guarding the assets.it will be foolish to have a rolex watch with hunger in your stomach.So,just sell it out if you can get a reasonable price.
• Philippines
18 Feb 10
Hi Srganesh, That should be the best thing to do rather than getting hungry. A Rolex watch that is considered vintage surely catches a huge amount. That amount should be more than enough to help you out of financial difficulty. It is surely a hard decision to make but you just have to sell it in that situation. The item may no longer be with you but the memory attached to it still lingers.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
17 Feb 10
I will sell my Rolex watch in case of financial difficulty for sure. I don't have a Rolex watch. I am a person, who is not very fond of watches and I am not in a good financial situation now. Not only Rolex watch, I don't mind to sell any expensive antique piece, which can get me considerable amount of money, in case of financial difficulty.
• Philippines
18 Feb 10
Hi Daliaj, Between getting hungry and having an expensive piece lying in the safe and gathering dust, I would also sell it. I would be sad and guilty doing that as I know it was something very valuable to the owner. I will just reassure myself that the owners are happy seeing me making use of the item which they left me. With the value of the Rolex watch, it would help me a lot. The memory I had with the owners will always remain especially that even if they were gone, they were still able to help me.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
18 Feb 10
I wouldn't ever be able to sell something that held a lot of sentimental value to me. I would personally find everything else in my home that I was able to get rid of in order to get myself out of financial difficulties before I would even be able to consider getting rid of the watch that had been passed down to me. I think that we are entrusted with the sentimental items for the fact that we are not going to look at them as money in our pocket but rather associate them with our memories.
• Philippines
19 Feb 10
Hi Dorannmwin, I understand that it is really very difficult to part away things which mean a lot to us. It surely makes me guilty and sad, too. But, if I were in a situation where there is nothing else to sell except the watch, I will be forced to sell it. Also because the watch fetches a huge amount, it would surely solve all financial difficulties at one time, rather than selling most of the items in the house and still feeling financially tight even after using the money to pay off obligations. I respect your opinion on this. Thanks for sharing.
@Cutie18f (9546)
• Philippines
19 Feb 10
Sell? No. But maybe pawn it if the money is really needed badly. I just can't part with an heirloom just like that. Perhaps I will pawn it and redeem it when I have the money.
• Philippines
19 Feb 10
Hi Cutie18f, Well, you may consider pawning an item to solve a financial stress. But still you will need to look money to redeem it. I am sure pawnshops are hesitant in, or are not, accepting Rolex watches as guarantee for a loan with them. These are really valuable items and, most of them, really make sure these are the genuine Rolex watches. There are a lot of fake "everything" proliferating everywhere. It would surely be a loss for them to be duped of accepting a fake one instead of the genuine watch. It would come out very unprofitable for you in the end ... you need to pay interest every month until you are able to redeem your item. If, after the maturity date you cannot, it will be an additional big headache on your part having to look for money to use in redeeming the item. Besides, if you cannot redeem the item, pawnshops will find difficulty in having to dispose such expensive items. Also, I have heard talks that most pawnshops take genuine parts of our items and replace with less valuable or fake ones. For Rolex watches which are really expensive and rare, I wouldn't even entertain the idea of pawning it.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
16 Feb 10
i think i will sell it if i am really in a very desperate situation for money... i believe that my parents will understand my situation and would want me to do that as well rather than seeing me go hungry and die... also, i can't bring the watch with me when i die... of course i will be very upset when i sell it... but i believe that time will heal the wound... take care and have a nice day...
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
Hi Lingli_78, Rather than do illegal things to feed ourselves and where you have the Rolex watch to solve financial problem, might as well sell it. It will surely go a long way because of the high value attached to it. We may feel guilty and sad over having to part away with the watch, but we are sure they will understand it. You are selling the watch for a good purpose. The guilt and sad feeling will vanish in time.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
16 Feb 10
stuff is just that, it is stuff and if you need money to eat, why not. the only reason that i would be sad about selling it would be the sentimental value that was attached to it like you mentioned. but which is more important? a watch or food or shelter?
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
Hi Cher913, These are just material things, yes. But the sentimental value attached to them is beyond value. It may be sad having to part away the Rolex watch but what is more important in the circumstances is for you to feed your stomach and have financial freedom. I am sure with the huge sales of the watch, it will come a long way for the family. They who have left us, will be happy seeing us being able to make use of their valuable things.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
17 Feb 10
You never know what you are capable off when the time comes. I times were really tough and I didn't have a choice I would sell the watch. I'm sure my parents would forgive me
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
Hi Missybear, If in a really difficult situation and there is no other way to do, I would sell it, too. It would be hard but I should decide to do it to save myself and my family. Rather than keep it locked and garnering dust, might as well make it useful for us. I am sure my parents will understand. These may be valuable to them but I know they will be happy seeing us out of financial difficulty by the use of the valuable watch they left us.
@chulce (1537)
• United States
16 Feb 10
To keep food on the table and a roof over the heads of my family, yes, I would sell it. It is meerly an item and yes, it may have sentiment behind it, but, if you have pictures of family that have worn the watch, etc. This still can help you remember the good times, and later when in thought you can thank them for helping you save your family. We as humans in general need to remember that we can't take the material items with us when it is our time to leave this earth. These items will stay here for others to use and enjoy.
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
Hi Chulce, Selling it would be a wise move to save you from financial difficulties. With a sure big sales over the Rolex watch that has become vintage and precious over time, let us be consoled with the fact that those who have left us ahead would be happy to see us, the living, saved and fed because of the valuable thing they left to us. The memories for them will linger. Nobody can take that away from you. In a way, you may feel guilty doing it, but it was really needed for people whom they have left behind and loved, to live. You are right, we cannot take these material items with us when it is time for us to leave.
@teamrose (1492)
• United States
17 Feb 10
No. The only way I would sell that treasured family heirloom is if I needed the money to keep from me or my family from starving. I would figure another way out of the debt. Take a second job, call the creditors and put the bills on a payment plan, even file bankrupcy, before I got rid of the watch.
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
Hi Teamrose, I understand. I meant to start the discussion in a situation where there is no other way to solve you out of financial difficulty (sorry for missing this out). All other things done, except on deciding whether to sell the watch or not. I am sure it would be a difficult decision to do. This is especially so if you very well know how precious the Rolex watch was to them when they were still alive. I would surely be guilty and sad having to sell it. But, if there is not other way to save me from financial difficulty, I would sell it, rather than us getting hungry and lawsuits are coming.
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
If needed, and have no other recourse, why not. The sentiment will always be there, besides, they are happier,if they are on the other world, to know that they were able to help you, in one way or another. Besides, the item is not counted in heaven, it's their act that counts. So go on.
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
Hi Ireneomiralles, Selling the watch would be the only recourse and you just need to do it. You just have to do it to get you out of trouble (which will surely incur more expenses) and also to feed the stomachs. I am sure they will be happy seeing us making use of their valuable things. Rather than the watch collecting dust (because you don't wear it for fear of being robbed), might as well sell it to help us through financial difficulty.
@myzire72 (1154)
• Singapore
16 Feb 10
The watch is not our parents. Even without the watch, we will still remember our parents. Parents who pass down valuables to their children will wish that the valuables will come in handy when the need arises.
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
Hi Myzire, In effect, you are saying that material things do not replace any human being. I agree with you. Even if we part away these things, the memories attached to them do not go with them. They will always remain in us. We will always remember them. Let us be consoled with the thought that they are happy wherever they are seeing us making use of the valuables they had left us.
@newtalent (1112)
• United States
16 Feb 10
Well if afraid to wear it, then yes. You can get robbed at anytime. I mean some can do a home invasion, a friend can help themselves to it, and steal right from under you and then you will still have nothing and you be not be able to use it. i understand the sentiment part, even that they trusted to you to keep it safe. But , It was given to you to do as you choose to with it without stipulations. Let me ask you this question. If you inherited cash instead of this item, would you not spend the cash because of sentiment value and the memory of this loving person that chose you to be the recipient? Or would you because you needed the money? Same question different context. This was given to you to do as you please or need to do with it. Its hard seeing this way but you are still alive and you still have to fend for yourself and family the best way you can. I hope this helps and good luck. Sorry for your loss or the person in question, it's a difficult time.
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
Hi Newtalent, Rather than it becoming useless because you are afraid of using it, might as well sell it to save you from financial difficulties. The memories stay with you forever and just be consoled with the thought that the valuable thing left by your parent has really helped you and your family. It had been used for a good purpose for people that they left and loved. I think it would be a different thing with cash inheritance. Cash has to be spent --- it is our medium of financial transactions. It gets demonitized if kept for a long time. A Rolex watch is a rare to acquire or own, especially for the medium-income families. It also appreciates over time. You can acquire cash anytime but you can never find the same Rolex watch that you had. That is why the difficulty in deciding whether to sell it or not.
16 Feb 10
It's a difficult task, walking a tightrope between sentiment and destitution. Some years ago I inherited a pearl necklace from a much-loved Aunt. I kept the necklace locked up in the house as I was scared of losing it or being robbed. On the rare occasion I wore the necklace I had a photograph taken and the picture is wonderful, showing the necklace beautifully. Then I found myself in a really bad situation and couldn't pay the bills, had debt collectors knocking on the doors. Reluctantly I took the pearl necklace to a jeweller and he suggested I put it into an auction. I was shocked to find that the necklace sold for more than enough money to pay the bills and sort myself out. Ok, so I sold the necklace, but I have that wonderful photograph of me wearing the necklace and, of course, all the lovely memories of my Aunt.
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
Hi Recycledgoth, I personally think it is indeed a difficult task. You very well understand the situation because you had been into one before. It is hard to part away with something because you know that the owner of the property really valued it a lot and considered it precious to him. But, on the other hand, you have no other way to save you from financial difficulties except to sell it. It buys you out of problem and feed you than having it collect dust where you hid it.
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@k00lit (1)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
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