If only one thing you that you can change... what would it be?

wow, you think so about changing today or tomorrow? how? please tell me? I dont even know what will happen yet... I am trying just about everything but thing switch around and it is hard to predict

As I see it, every day is a fresh start. You're reading this right now, so you're alive, you've probably got food in the cupboard if not in your stomach, and you have the Internet. That's not a bad start on making some changes in your life. First of all, make a list of the things that bother you. You mentioned having responsibilities, perhaps too many for your own comfort. List the things you're responsible for as you think of them. List other stuff that bothers you, even if you don't think you can change them. Listing these things will help calm you about them and get them identified; don't worry if there are multiple pages. When you're done, get up and move around a little to get the blood moving again. Second, take another look at that list. On each point, consider whether it's something of your own doing, and what you can do to change how it effects your life. Most responsibilities are something we've taken on or let others put on us. Look at these and ask yourself what's really needful, what you'll keep of the rest, and what you can let go of. Having sorted out the Needful, the Optional and the Throwaway, you have some choices. You may be stuck with the needful things, at least for now, but you can at least try to accept what's necessary. With the optional ones, they are the things you choose to do; no need to complain about them while you choose to do them. With the throwaways, throw them away already and get on with life!

HI, if you are happy then no need to change and seem like everything is perfect for you already. God is good to you though

That's good cuz everything is just good to you but not me. If I can go back then I think my life would be a lot better. how do I know? I don't be then I dont have to be far from my parents? and I dont have to be alone even I have a family and I dont have to be with someone that I love the most but im hurt. I am a strong woman if u know me more... I have been working since I was 16 and no help from family, I live here all alone and my family is in different country... and now, I take care of my two children myself, plus im working full time and full time housewife... I think I am a strong woman but just sometimes someone picking on me

HI, I think it is ok... u have to feel comfortable about urself more than others... right, if we can change then we should

HI, thx for responding. the reason I want to go back in time cuz I want to change my life, change everything I have here. I dont want to take any step without my children but another thing is just stabbing me every day... and it is hurt. If I go back in time then I would not have to meet this person and I dont have to be here in America. And I dont have to be on here... My family love me so much and I just dont love myself at all... so now thing change and I have to deal with what I have and accept it.

Hi, a mistake is a teacher to us... and we will learn something valuable when we did it. Just like me, I made a mistake in my life time and I learn something very important about man...I feel like I dont have a life so I want to fix it.