"Next time I fall inlove, it will be with you!"
By markmoney
@markmoney (2868)
Philippines
March 9, 2010 7:39pm CST
Hi guys! Just want to share this. There is this girl very special to me. We communicate everyday. In the early days of our friendship, I was just showing her that I like her, and she is special to me. But one day came, I already told her that I love her already. Actually she came from a break up and I was the one who was always been there for her. So when I finally decided to tell her I love her, actually I didn't hesitate coz that is really what I feel and I'm very sure of it. It maybe too early since we haven't known each other for long. But for me, there is no such thing as "right length or period" before you can say you already love the person. For me, love is felt. You will know it to your self, your mind, your heart, your body, all are longing for her. She is always the one running on my mind. She is the one I care. She is the one who is special to me. She is the one I like. She is the one who makes me happy. She is my inspiration. She is the one I always pray for. She is the one I want to share my life with. I already fell in love with her, I'm very sure of it. When I told her I love her, she said she understands me. She knows how I feel. She didn't answer me right that moment, but this is what she said "Next time I fall inlove, it will be with you!". Of course, I'm very happy to hear it from her. So we just decided to continue our friendship. I'm happy coz it didn't affect our friendship, we are still continuously communicating to each other. So what can you say about the line that she said? Do you think I still have a chance to win her heart? I would be glad to hear from you. Happy myLotting! 
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25 responses
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Wow..what a line,i forgot the singer who sing this song...
"next time i fall in love,it will be with you"...i think it's Chicago(i am not sure)
In my opinion,it's an indirect saying of "YES"...I LOVE YOU TOO"
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Girls were using some mysterious line sometimes,men should be smart enough to understand(girly mood...eh)
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Girls were using some mysterious line sometimes,men should be smart enough to understand(girly mood...eh)
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Oh ok, so you are really a fan of Chicago huh? That's great! You gave me an info, thanks! Yes, I'll give her time. I can wait forever, if she say she will be there too.. Haha, another song! Thanks again! Have a nice day!
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Hi jaiho! Another myLotter told me that there's really a song with that title. It was sang by Peter Cetera and Amy Grant. Oh really? So you think it's a YES? Haha! Well, yes maybe she is already in love with me, just doesn't want to reveal it yet. Lol! At least, there's a hint right? Hehe.. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
uh...Peter Cetera..so i am right,he is really from the Chicago,till they were disbanded and goes solo...
Yah,i am sure,she's too shy to admit this early,just give her more time my friend
@fatimasiddiq (42)
• United States
10 Mar 10
That is so sweet. I am getting married soon and for the longest time me and my fiancee were nothing but friends. He was in love with me much longer than I have been so with him. So I would have to say yes I think that you do still have a chance. To know for sure I would have to know her a little better. It does sound like she is just not ready to start over again. Sometimes people need a break in between relationships. You do not want to be dating her too freshly out of a bad relationship anyway.
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
I'm glad that you are also thinking that I have a chance. Well, maybe she just really need more time. I really understand her, and I'm really willing to wait. Well, I will just continue being always there for her. I will enjoy the time that she is spending with me. I hope he can really fall in love again.. Best wishes to you for your upcoming wedding. I really wish that we will also end up marrying each other. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@fatimasiddiq (42)
• United States
11 Mar 10
I have an idea that might work. For three or four days become unavailable for her to talk too. Sometimes it takes thinking that you may have lost someone before you see what they really mean to you. It may be the hardest thing you ever did, if it is the hardest thing to do then I think you two will be together. Trust me it will work.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
10 Mar 10
i am a woman and based on her sentence, i am pretty sure that she also already has a feeling for you... it is just that she just experienced a heart break and need time to mend her broken heart... i suggest that you keep on your friendship with her at the moment and don't stop loving her... wait patiently and i'm sure that one day the time will come that she will really love you too... good luck... take care and have a nice day...
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Hi lingli! It's good to know that she has also a feeling for me. So it just need to grow more to be called love already. Yes, I will stay as his friend and I will never get tired on taking care of her. I will also continue loving her. I will be patient. I hope time will come that she will really love me too. Thank you for your response. Have a nice day also! Take care! Happy myLotting!
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
I love that song from James Ingram, such a wonderful song. Just go, do things you believe is best for your relationship right now. Don't force things, it will just fall into a proper place if it's a right time for you. The most important thing is, you retained the friendship so you still have ways to get in-touch and communicate with each other, who might knows this time around things might be different.
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Hi jlamela! It's really a wonderful song indeed! Yes, I will not force things, I will be patient enough to wait for the right time, I will just continue what I am showing her and I will treasure the time that she spent and will be spending with me. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
10 Mar 10
Hi Markmoney,
It's a great feeling being in love, specially when it is reciprocated. You are undeniably in love with this girl. About what she said, she definitely sent you a positive message there, and it's just a matter of time, so be patient. As she has just came from a relationship, you wouldn't want to have someone who's on the "rebound", so the best thing to do is give her time, and let her discover how wonderful a person you are. When she's ready to fall in love again, you will be the happiest creature on earth, to say the least
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.@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Hi doryvien! Your advices are really good and it's really the best thing to do. It's really a great feeling to be in love, but it will be a greater feeling if the one you love will also loves you back. Well, I'll just wait for it to happen. I will really be the happiest creature in the entire universe if that happens. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@dhysanne (449)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
I think you have great chance to have her heart. She just want you to be careful with it. It is so nice that you are good friends, enjoy what you have now. Don't be in a hurry. I know there will be great things to come for both of you! Good luck!
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Hi dhysanne! Yes I will surely handle her heart carefully. She will never be wrong with me. I really hope for that great things to come. Thank you for wishing me luck! Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Yes zandi, I already collected a lot of patience and it's with me now, I am willing to wait until she became ready to fall in love again. I am the one who will nurse his broken heart and I'm sure that I will make it fully healed. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@rajaiv0810 (1012)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
That could be very sweet, and I hope she'll really fall in love with you coz it seems that you are overwhelmingly in love with her.
Just continue your friendship with her and be patient. As you have said she just came from another relationship and she is still healing at this time. She may not want to be your girlfriend without even making sure of how she felt exactly. she wouldn't want you to have for rebound only but she wants to be in love with you.
Just show her you care and you love her. The right time will come if she is actually the right girl for you. It's always good to be in love so stay on love and happy.
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Hi rajaiv! Yes, my love for her is overwhelming. She maybe still in the healing process now. I'm here to make her wounds heal faster. I will continue to be always here for her. Yes, I will be patient and I will wait for the right time. I know if it's really God's will, then we will be together. Yes, it's good to feel in love. I'm enjoying it. I will keep on loving her. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Mar 10
markmoney that does sound promising. she is evidently still
hurting from a prior break up, but do not give up as she just'may reallyh have feelings for you but has to sort things out for awhile. I would
stay friends, and be loving towards her as always, and be there for
her. I think she just may 
fool herself and really fall for you.
good luck and God bless.
fool herself and really fall for you.
good luck and God bless.1 person likes this
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Hi Hatley! Yes, she was hurt from his previous relationship, that's why I am here to heal those wounds. I will help her to forget him. I will always be here for her. I will never get tired. And I will never let anyone hurt him again. I will be here to protect her. She is so precious and she really don't deserves to be hurt. With me, she will be safe. Thank you, yes I hope time will come that she will fall in love again, and as what she said, it will be with me. Lol! Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
10 Mar 10
I think that is very romantic. I am glad to hear that but don't expect too much from that relationship, it will not help you much, we may never know what will be her feelings later. Just continue to nourish the friendship you have been enjoying.
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Hi neil! Yes, I won't expect too much. For now, I am now contented for being always there for her. The time that she is spending with me is very precious, and I appreciate it very much. Well, I will just continue to take care of her. I hope she will really realize that I am really sincerely in love with her coz I really do. Yes, I will enjoy our friendship. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
hello makmoney,
cross your fingers! hahaha. that's nice that you get to actually tell her how you feel. you're doing a good job communicating with her and continue the friendship that you both have. having a relationship always starts with friendship and when the friendship becomes deeper, that's when true love starts. so, be patient and don't rush her, am sure she will have her time to make a good decision for you.@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Hi LetranKnight! I'm doing it now, I'm crossing my fingers. Lol! Yes, for me, it's easy to tell her I love her coz it is what I really feel. I just voiced it out. I'm being patient now. I'm enjoying my time with her. I will never rush her. I will wait and I will always be here for her. It's up to her in the future if she can really decide to fall in love with me, but I'm hoping... Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
10 Mar 10
She already loves you..thats what her statement confirms. She just needs some time as she had a past hurt..so dont leave her, your love and support is most needed for her. Show your love to her even in the friendship and in all help you do to her. And gals will never say no to a true love. Keep loving her!!
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Hi besthope! Wow, your response made me smile. So you think she already loves me, but she just doesn't want to make it official yet. Well, I will give her time. She needed that. I will just continue my care and love to her until she finally decide to make it official, that she will say she loves me already! Hahaha! I'm thinking so advance. I'm just so happy and excited. Well you said, girls will never say no to a true love. My love for her is very true, so I hope your saying will prove that. Hehe! I love her so much! Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
So you think she already loves me, but she just doesn't want to make it official yet. Well, I will give her time. She needed that. I will just continue my care and love to her until she finally decide to make it official, that she will say she loves me already! Hahaha! I'm thinking so advance. I'm just so happy and excited. Well you said, girls will never say no to a true love. My love for her is very true, so I hope your saying will prove that. Hehe! I love her so much! Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting! 
@uniqueorn (1011)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Well, I can really tell how you are deeply in love with this girl you are talking about. But somehow, you have just to wait for the rightest time that you and that girl could keep things going. Your role for now is just to be there for her at her happy and sad times. Just stay friends of the moment. Eventually, the intensity of the feelings between both of you well develop. All the more if you are consistent with her and let her feel that she is indeed special in your eyes. She fills your heart. I know that for a fact. You are complete, one thing you can't deny when you are with her. But take note, you are complete and whole when you are together but she is empty. It's time for you to do your duty. Fill her heart. Give her love. Let her be whole again. And never ever attempt to possibly break her heart into pieces when it isn't even whole to start with. Mend it first before starting a new relationship for a lifetime.
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Hi uniqueorn! Yes, I am really truly madly and deeply in love with her. I will stay like this. Yes, she may feel empty due to the break up, but I am here to fill her heart and make her complete again. Yes, you are right, it will takes time, it cannot be done instantly. That's why I will patiently wait and I will always be here for her. She is simply the owner of my heart that's why I will stay with her. I know time will come, she might finally fall in love again. And when it will be with me, then our love to each other will really be forever. Thank you for your response. Happy myLotting!
@lwethu (242)
• South Africa
10 Mar 10
Don't raise your hopes. She is still hurting and need sometime to heal.I know how is it to be hurt you don't feel like have any one who will be close to you and if you force matters you keep push all te people who loves. I think she made the right decisions. You have to be very patient as it can take time for her to heal.Don't try harder just be yourself your hardwork might irritate her.Be there for her when she needs you.As she is not in state of making any decisions at the moment she might not keep her promises don't be dissapponted.
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
10 Mar 10
I think you have a very good chance with her…not only that, I feel she’s become a lot more matured in her decisions after her break-up so when she finally decides to love you, you’ll have a very special relation. She’s burnt her fingers once so she doesn’t want to jump into another affair (very wise of her)…she wants to be sure of both you and her own feelings and only then she wants to commit…I think you should wait and give her that chance. I liked her words very much…it shows she does care for you but wants some more time. Meanwhile, enjoy being friends with her…after all being friends is more important than being lovers, if you are looking at long term relations.
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@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
10 Mar 10
I seem to hear the rings of the wedding bells. Take heart, I am sure one day you will win her heart. Sincerity does it. Give her time and not be too pushy since she is nursing a broken heart. As long as she remains comfortable with you, I am sure one day you will be the person in her life.
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@Ingkingderders (3832)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
Definitely! I mean, I don't think she would tell you that unless she didn't really mean it right? .. Maybe she just really needs more time to heal and to forget about what happened in her past relationship. And you know, women usually are afraid to fall in love right after a relationship, cause it's really hard to get hurt, and maybe she just really needs time. Just continue the friendship, and I'm sure sooner or later she would let herself fall in love with you.
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@iceydon (342)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
She is your everything. And having her tell you "Next time I fall in love, it will be with you!" is just the same as telling you let me fall in love with you. Its a go signal that indicated how much willingness she have having you as her man. She is everything to you but its seems that she feels only the warmth of your friendship. Your efforts are seemed just on the level of friendship. So put the fire bursting so she may feel your unending love for her not as friends but lovers.Get rid of the context of doing things for friendship. Have your intentions be obvious in everything you do for her. Smitten her with your love.
@saliyzhu (64)
• China
10 Mar 10
How romantic the line is! This is my feeling when i firstly read it.As a girl, i am jealous of her as there is a so sweet boy waiting there. I hope the girl can restore quickly from the break up. And open her eyes to see the boy.Nevertheless the boy may leave her alone as the time will not wait for you! Person who is deserved your love, you must grab him.HaHa!
