Space & time
By roark82
@roark82 (20)
United States
March 18, 2010 1:33pm CST
When someone say to there lover I need some space and time apart and we will Be ok.
Now does this mean I Need some space and time and apart or is it somthing more going on. I have a friend that her boyfriend sad that to her so he can have a fling and when he get it out of his system he get back togather with her. In my pass when I was told this and it was the end. But I was told this befor. And it was just that she need some space and time. So I wanted to hear what it means to you. have you sad it to some one or was it told to you and what was the out come..
4 responses
@babysphinx (38)
• Philippines
20 Mar 10
Hi there. I have often asked my boyfriend for some space and time apart but he never gives it to me (lol). Instead he would be more caring and sweet because he thinks I just need more attention. He's probably right :)
We've been together for 5 years now and there are times when you would start to question your feelings. Asking for a time apart is like doing a test drive to see if you can handle being without your partner. When you feel like you need more space and time then it means you have to work double time on your relationship.
@joan2010 (45)
• China
19 Mar 10
I don't like the saying,so i will never say it to anyone.once it arise which means there are some problems between you.Maybe he no longer loves you like before ,if not he will try his best to get along with you ,so once it happens she should consider to end the ralationship .
@smukherjee_on_line (578)
• India
18 Mar 10
I think in a good and healthy relation this kind of situation will not arise at all. If it arise then you can sure that there is some problem in your relationship.........
@SaNdRa15 (128)
• United States
18 Mar 10
I hate to say it--he's just not that into her. People who love you don't need time and space away from you--he's just trying to politely get out of the relationship. I now it hurts right now, but she should count her blessings that he's giving her a way out and look for someone who really wants to be with her. Hope things turn out all right!
