Are men really capable of loving deeply and truthfully?

@edorms36 (275)
United Arab Emirates
April 26, 2010 1:04pm CST
I just wonder now, for some reason this question pop up my mind. I was just thinking if men are really capable of this kind of deep emotions, because, so far as I can see; men tend to be unfathomable and distant. Now I just want to know if they do feel a deeper sense of love, or of truly loving someone or are they just getting into sorts of relationships just because it's necessary for them, they do marry because they need to, otherwise their sexuality will be in question, or they do get marry because it will be convenient for them. So, men are you really capable of loving deeply, in the truest sense of the word? Women... have you experienced being loved truly by the men in your lives?
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
27 Apr 10
I think some of us are and some are not. Whatever you have said about men I can say the same about women. Women are no different. They can be superficial, using us men, and then discarding us as if we were garbage. I have seen good women have bad men and also the opposite, good men ending up with horrible women. If one finds genuine, lasting love, faithfulness and loyalty, then one is blessed indeed.
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• United States
27 Apr 10
The only time a man will be faithful, is when he gets hurt by someone he loves and care for. Other wise he will run around like a dog in a heat. I guess I would have to say from personal experience. I was with my girlfriend for 12 years......and within those 12 years, I cheated. I've been on trips with other girls. I've had 3-somes....o-man, I had some good times....and then, she left me. My world was crushed. I took it very hard. I decided I will never again be a cheater. I got Married to a beautiful young Filipina. And just had a beautiful baby girl. So what I'm saying is that if i didn't experience the heart break in my last relationship, I would still be trying to bed everychick I can.........and i consider me a typical guy. By the way, you look kinda cute, you seeing anyone?....lol
• Philippines
28 Apr 10
youre not as cool as your name, dawg.
• United States
25 May 10
I put the "C" in Cool, son......
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
27 Apr 10
Hiii.... Human being is a social animal. Without social ties (strong or weak) it will be impossible for any human to survive properly. As men are also human, this applies to us too... I am a man and I know how deep and emotional I have been... Everyone needs a life-partner, everyone does! So do the men... And that's why they search for soul mates. Now the difference is only that that women think in a different way than men. I would advice you to read 'Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus', which will clear all your doubts and confusions! Have a nice time, friend...
@ypyanyan (956)
• China
27 Apr 10
oh , if i can find my soulmate . it is a great luck . it said that men can love his first lover very much . he can put his all emotion on his first lover . so we should not doubt their love .
@Gany15k (1673)
• India
27 Apr 10
Yes, men are most capable of loving deeply and truthfully than women...I'm pretty sure about that..I won't say all the men are same but most of the men are true in their love..Men are kind hearted but looks very bold..Women are looks soft but very hard This is what I can tell in short...
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
30 Apr 10
I think that the key to your question is that you are talking about "men" Each man is different. I doubt that "men" can love "truly" and I doubt that "women" can love "truly" Some men CAN and some women CAN. Different people get married for different reasons. Are you asking because you would like to know if YOUR man "truly" loves you or not ?
@piya84 (2581)
• India
27 Apr 10
Yes they are off course.Many men are capable of deep love.I think you girls come across some really bad guys who cheat on you.Thats the reason you are talking like this.When you will meet your true love these question will disappear automatically. I know many men do cheat on their girlfriends and wives but you see it applies to women also.Many women also cheat on their husband.
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
Of course they do, I can only speak on my hubby's behalf. If women can love, surely men can do too, they are just the same human created by God. There might be different levels of it but the love that last forever is something that came from God because first and foremost God is love. So the love relationship that both I and my hubby share is a covenant we made between our God. If God is the center of that relationship, it is Him who will guide us and hold us no matter what happens. You can see the demonstration of love everyday as you get to know the person more. I can't explain much or in detail, but I am sure that most couples here who are also in love with their spouses would say the same thing. The definition of love as what 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 is the one that you always remember in keeping that covenant alive. So no matter how far you are from each other, you can be sure that love is very much present because you both desire and long for each other and work together to keep the bond.
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
27 Apr 10
yes men are capable of loving honestly and deeply. Infact men are more committed to love than women who are less committed.I have seen men lose their mind over love and i have also seen women marry another guy without any remorse of having ditched her boy friend. So its wrong to assume that men are not committed in love
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
Yes. Men are capable of loving truly, madly, deeply because i've done this and it feels euphoric and heaven. It's like i'm flying without wings when loving someone special. She loved me back so i felt like i was flying higher than ever.
@pcserver (392)
27 Apr 10
No, just women know what love is. Of course we can. It is a very dumb question I think. The myth that women come from Venus and men from Mars does not mean that we are not capable of loving somebody. I think we are just a bit different. After all that is why we are divided into men and women. But it depends on the person and his feelings if it comes to love.
@Kisha14 (117)
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
I think so I based it in my own experience. He knows how to love one and stick to his word. Every day he tell me how much he loves me and he do what I say. He give more than what he have. That is why I know I am lucky to meet someone like him.
• China
27 Apr 10
I think men do have true love, but their love always tend to be changable. Once they are in love with you, you are their whole world, but when they don't love you any more, you mean nothing to them but an old woman.
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
men in general for me has its own personality. not all men are dogs as they say but they are emotional too. my hubby for example, has extraordinary qualities. he's positive, patient, smart and cheerful. i think you need more men friends to experience the real them. goodluck.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
26 Apr 10
I do believe that men are capable of loving both deeply and truthfully. Commitments of the hearts are not just reserved for women. All genders are deserving and have the capacity to love as deeply and truthfully as ever. We cannot lose faith in each other. relationships will wither away.
• China
26 Apr 10
Yes men are capable of loving deeply and truthfully. But not all the men. Really difficult to get perfect and truthfully men. But they exists. I never get such a love in my love yet. But i know my father who loves my mother so much. And also one of my friends boyfriend.
@Grat15 (439)
• Singapore
26 Apr 10
My wife, at that time, not as beautiful as julia robert or as sexy as shakira, though not poor but also not rich, a single parent with a 2 year old boy, not even closse to every men dream. But, i merried her. Cause i love her and still do. I never care what people said, even my parents. Of course, men love to see and flirting or, maybe, even having an affair with pretty and sexy women. But, it all has nothing to do with love.
@mjanakha (479)
• United Arab Emirates
26 Apr 10
Men are really capable of loving deeply and truthfully. Iam sure because my husband loves me so deeply, often I think I am not loving him as he loves me. I have seen my father who cannot even live a second without my mom. I have seen lot and lot of men in India who really respects their feeling towards their better half.
@vsmith (119)
• United States
26 Apr 10
in my relationship now i feel that my man truely loves me. i say this because he doesnt try to use me for money. he caters to my every need and he always wasnt me to be happy before himself. in the past when i was prego i was crazy and tried to leave him, have even pushed him to the point that any other man would of left. but i know that it is his true love for me that kept him around.