Mothers' and fathers' days: what about sons' or daughters' day?
By don_naces
@don_naces (464)
Philippines
May 8, 2010 11:00am CST
I am wondering why every year there are special days for our mother and our father. Why not celebrate sons' or daughters' days? Tomorrow we will be celebrating Mothers' Day. I still do not know what I am going to give to my mother. Maybe just a little message thanking her for being a loving, caring and responsible mother. Anyway, is it really possible to have sons' or daughters' day? Maybe if that will happen, many of us would be very happy.
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12 responses
@oldchem1 (8132)
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8 May 10
In the UK we celebrate Mother's Day in Marc and the real original name for it is Mothering Sunday and it is always held on the forth Sunday of Lent.
In Victorian times it was a time when children in service were given the day off to go home to their mothers and families.
In England it goes back to the 1600's and was originally a religious occasionlinked to the Virgin Mary.
I believe that it wasn't until 1872 when Mother's Day was started in the US.
Father's Day didn't start until 1910 and was an American idea, this has no religious connection but in some Catholic countries it is held in MArch on St Joseph's day.
There is no need to be a child's day or a boy's and girl's day as every day is good for them!!
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@don_naces (464)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Thanks for the trivia. I thought it originated in the United States. In our country, it has nothing to do with religion.
@caliya (1169)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Probably the greeting card companies have not come up with that idea yet Daughter or Son's Day but maybe they will, who knows. You can buy your mom a cake with the icing happy mother's day. I am sure she will be happy.
Or you can just pick flowers in the garden and add a note to it. That would be really sweet and I am pretty sure your mom will appreciate it.
@don_naces (464)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Thanks a lot for your response. I forgot that we have flowers in our garden. I will take your advice. I hope greeting card companies could come up with such idea.
@anjel016 (329)
• Philippines
9 May 10
To be honest, I don't think it's really necessary to have this "Son/Daughters'" day... I mean, why bother with it? It's not like it's worth to celebrate it. Look at the fact. It's our mothers and fathers that sacrifices to give us a good life. While in return, sons/daughters just get all the blessings. Do we tuck in our mother every night when they sleep? Do we give our parents a bath? Do we serve them their food every meal? The things we do back at them is just a mere "thank you" for everything they did to us. But them? They do it because they love us and wants us to have a good life in the future.
@afarz2604 (15)
• Malaysia
9 May 10
Honestly, if a son/daughter CAN do all those things that you just mentioned, then and only then would you deserve to have Son/Daughters' Day...nowadays,you see elderly sleeping on the streets,homeless..it's just sad knowing,wondering that whether they have a son or daughter out there...
@Auntiescarf (842)
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8 May 10
I always used to wonder this as well, Im glad to see someone has posted the real reason as I was not aware of this either, and Im from the uk as well so really I guess I should have known about it. I dont know about having a Son or Daughter day, but Im all for having an extra bank holiday, anything that means more time off work lol!
@Auntiescarf (842)
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9 May 10
No way, more bank holidays means more days off work!! There is no such thing as too many bank holidays!
@zralte (4178)
• India
8 May 10
I think we have too many days already without adding some other ones. The greeting cards company would sure love to add that to the ever growing list of days; so that they can make more money.
Let's face it, isn't everyday 'Son's Day' or 'Daughter's Day'? Every day our parent's showers us with love anyway. Do we really need a day dedicated so that our parents can give us presents?? I think not.
@don_naces (464)
• Philippines
8 May 10
Celebrating a special day for us would not require presents. Just a simple greeting or hug would suffice.
@mrseanbond (86)
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8 May 10
I honestly hope it doesnt happen not because im a killjoy. Just i think parents splash out enough on there kids trying to keep there kids happy and in with the latest trends etc. it would have no religous significance so would just feel like a marketing ploy. to make you buy over priced cards and junk. Mothers and fathers day means something to me personally cause yes you may scream and yell at your parents but that lil extra pressie to say thank you mum thank dad for looking out for me etc but son and daughter day that just sounds like pure and utter greed you get christmas birthday easter presents we feed you cloth you and put a roof over there heads but you still want more it makes them sound like spoilt brats.
@zralte (4178)
• India
9 May 10
I agree with that. My parents and also my parents-in-law have done a lot of things for us and will continue to do so. And now I am a mother too, I don't need a special 'DAY' to show my daughters that I love them. No matter what day, it's everyday that I love them and will do things for them. Same goes for my parents, they certainly don;t need a day to say 'I love you' or give me a hug.
Anyway, we have too many of these days already, why add another one for the enjoyment of the greeting card companies?
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
8 May 10
In some places they have a childrens day. I don't know why they don't have it everywhere. Our children are just as important to us as we are to them.
@mlloyd23671 (28)
• United States
9 May 10
i mean i am not too sure what we would be celebrating on that day.... thankyou for being a son/daughter? i mean everyone is someone elses son or daughter so there is nothing special about that, but not every mother or father is a good one. so i think it is only right to show alittle extra appreciation one day out of the year.
@maxyl12 (236)
• Philippines
9 May 10
I would not mind if there is no son's or daughter's day. Because I believed our parents did so much for us since we're young. I remembered every year that my parent prepared for my birthday even though were tight in budget just to make me happy. I think its about time for us to make our parents happy by celebrating their day. And so just this once, just tell them that I love you daddy or I love you Mommy for everything until the time I can walk on my own. It does make a change and make a family bonding closer. Is'nt it nice?
@bollellav (20)
• United States
9 May 10
Maybe one day they will create a son's day. But sons will have their own day eventually when a son hopefully becomes a father