Here is what a true love is like..
By p_vadla
@p_vadla (1685)
India
May 11, 2010 12:59am CST
[b]Here is a story told to me by my doctor friend....
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80s
arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry
as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an
hour before someone would to able to see him.. I saw him looking at his
watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would
evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the
doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his
wound.
While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another
doctor' appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat
breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.
He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of
Alzheimer's Disease.
As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized
him in five years now.
I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even
though she doesn't know who you are?'
He smiled
as he patted my hand and said,
'She doesn't know me,
but I still know who she is.'
[b]I thought that is the kind of love I want in my life.True love is neither
physical, nor romantic.
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10 responses
@achilles2010 (3051)
• India
12 May 10
It is one of the excellent example to show what true love is. Thanks for sharing it with us.
@rhodalyn (251)
• Philippines
11 May 10
such a nice story..its the same situation with the characters in the novel "the notebook" by nicholas sparks..
i agree that's true love..
recognizing physically is not the main thing of it..-its recognizing the one you love from within..its when you close your eyes but you still smell his presence, feels the goodness of his touch,hearing his romantic way of calling your name..treasuring the memories by heart again and again and again..
@chelsea001 (33)
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11 May 10
Touching stOry,.,
but its really hard to fynd true luv in this selfish world now days ...
@Patzi_anele (132)
• Philippines
11 May 10
oh, that was a nice love story... its hard to find nowadays that such kind of person who will love you no matter what, according to a song ' the heart never forgets' probably the mind would contain memory chips can fade after you encounter such kind of disease but feelings will still linger as long as it is there it won't forget.
@uniqueorn (1011)
• Philippines
11 May 10
True love indeed. IT takes no recognition to love. Even if loss of life does not break the feeling of love. Love is abstract. One's attached with our emotions, it brings it with us forever. Even if it comes from a bitter and hard relationship, it still lingers within us subconsciously. Love is not owning after all. Love sometimes is a mistake which leads us to the better person or it may simply be the personification of our views in life like caring for someone even if it means that they don't give it back to us at all.
@jacquiline (124)
• Philippines
11 May 10
true love is when you grow old and still feel the same a hundred years before you met each other. what i wanted to say is, being happy of your decision to be with someone who forever cherish and will love you no matter what. a person who is willing to kiss you even after you wake u in the morning smelling like garlic breathe. someone who will pull you back whenever you feel down . someone who is not just willing to stick with you through good times but will also share with you through bad times. a person who is dreaming to be with you even if your hair turns to gray. who would make you smile and carry who around when you have arthritis to worry about.that person who make make you smiling all the time, that someone who will love your parents as her/his own. will treat your brother and sisters kindly. a man who is willing to pick me up at home in the middle of the storm just so we could be with each other. will understand and respect my decision and let me know that life is about love and respect not just romance. someone who will not leave me for anything in this world and that someone who would feel contented having me.just me and only me.