I am supposed to...but i do this instead...How about you?

Hi Goddessjess, The alternative for reading is quite productive too. Nice that you're able to work on mylot for two hours. However, please don't sacrifice the time for your sleep as it can pose some harm to your health. although i understand it's weekend so have all the time to stay late anyway we can always extend sleep the next morning. Hmmmm...exchanging a healthy dinner for chocolate---can i have one too? hehehehe! Thanks for your response! I will make a duplicate copy of this response and paste it in your other response as there is a possibility that on of them will be deleted for double posting.

@Starsailover, same here my friend. i am aware then about some foods not being healthy but at time i really can't help taking some. to quote you...it's delicious and the more you deprieve yourself for such, the more you crave for it. hehehe. thanks!

Hi goddess jes: I can understand this really well because, these are the decitions that i take so often . I don't know eating something that is not healthy at all but it's delicious and being online and most of all, being here in mylot are really big temptations. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day. ALVARO

I am supposed to go to church not until this evening my mom told me it was saturday but my mind says it's already sunday. that's why i got curious on why the news on TV patrol is saturday i was about to leave when it strongly rained falling off two branches of different trees and the winds were kinda strong.

@Jaiho, Making it up to them when they comeback will be a great thing to do. by this time there will be more stories to tell about their trip and it will be an exciting bonding moments for you and their family. My weekends are really reserved for my family. Asmuch as possible i don't schedule any dates with friends during the weekend. i want full time for them since from monday to friday i am so busy with work. since i am already out then, i preferred dates or attending ocassions with friends during weekdays. @Letranknight, My dear friend you seemed to be so stressed now as it is manifested in being disorganized with dates. it's one of the signal (peace my friend). better relax and enjoy life. good the it rained hard so you just stayed home for the moment. Though if you go to church you are apt to attending the anticipated mass.

sounds good to meeeee.....

Not exactly, but I did read a book while everybody else went to a movie.

did you have one dawn? if not, close your eyes and just feel me giving you a massage. i do swedish massage too with aromatherapy. for sure you will really feel good, so relax and will have a soud sleep. don't worry once i get the chance to see you, i will treat you for a massage...i will personally do it for you as i used to do it with my friends and colleagues in the office when they're tired.

Wait until it comes out in redbox or blockbuster express. I know by then it's already out on dvd but it is better than spending 8.00 a person to watch. And renting it for 5 days just doesn't make sense any more. We rented Alice N Wonderland and I also rented Edge of Darkness, I also got Princess and the frog when they were first released on red box. I'm gettting down to where I don't have money for the final week of the month and you pay 1.00 per day to get it. I'm getting Book of Eli next and I have Direct Tv and I can get it on there but it's still cheaper to get it red box or blockbuster.

Hi Honey, You made a good decision for giving up the chance to watch it this weekend. Since it will be payday next week, you can still watch it and enjoy the date with your boyfriend. For now, you can invite your boyfriend to stay with you home and watch movies together and maybe cook something for him to make it special in a way. Thanks for dropping by.

@msfranciso That's right. I can't risk to spend my extra savings just for watching movies. Who knows I might come to need this one of these days. Yep, we decided to stay here together and watch movies online. I made him some spicy buffalo wings and I'm glad he liked it! @crysontherock too bad toy story's not out on dvds or has good copies online yet. but I'm taking note of that. it's really cheaper and practical to watch movies online or at home. paying and watching them in theaters is way to expensive!

It's good she understands.

Hi C, that is non-negotiable C. i considered my saturdays and sundays holy...my only time to be full-time mom and wifey! i really love weekends! my friend has a kind-heart to understand me and my situation and priorities. but she's assured of my love for her...i am just a call and text away when needed!

she did. though the dinner date that we scheduled to make up was postponed due to hard rain. maybe we can find a good day this coming weekend to pursue it.

thanks, yeah I've been having problems with my astma and allergies in the past couple of months and I haven't been able to make it. my mom had a craft shop and we've been donating supplies to the church and a couple other organizations. The church is having there first vacation bible school in July. So hopefully I'll be able to attend cause they've asked me to play piano. but I've come to realize something. Even if they don't understand. God does. I'm trying to get my sleeping back on track to where i'll be up in time to go. And thank you for the comment. I also feel that it helps to have your house in order so when you go to church you can get yourself in order. And your welcome on the suggestion. me and my parents and my brother have always went out to dinner somewhere. the Birthday person got to choose the place to eat and that's where we went. It's been harder to get together like that over the past couple of years since my parents divorced but we do make an attempt at it. Sometimes some people only come around when there are free stuff around like food and entertainment and its good to do that in a more private setting for her/him to know that you are there in other ways if they need you and not just when they are having a birthday.

you will be blessed with the kind of service you are giving our less fortunate brothers and sisters. let's hope and pray that you will be fine as far as your health is concern. yes, it is important to let of loved ones and friend know that depsite our busy schedules we can always spare some time to be with them. cheers!

Hi Cryontherocks, Thanks for makikng me feel better for not attending the party. Thanks too for that recommendation to just have a separate dinner with her. Actually, we already scheduled one my friend. It will happen next week. So, you are active in church activities. I know everything will be put in place as i can see and feel your determination to organize and finish things over. Goodluck and have a peaceful weekend!

Hi Lingli, When at home there are lots of things to do but more often than not we end up being stock on one activity and most of the time it's watching tv/movie or surfing the net. later that we realized it's been hours that we are on and failed to do some chores. WEll, it's a big break for us specially on weekends but for a change we too need to do some of the cleaning and cooking. Thanks friend and nice seeing you in my discussion.

the problem with cab drivers in our country even they know where to go they pretend not to and ask you where they will pass. and sometimes they pass on roads that are long cuts than short cuts. it makes my wife scared when cabs passes on streets that my wife is not familiar with. with our son with her it makes her more scared. so if she wont have a ride home then she aint going. so sometimes friends look for her ride home before they invite her

you are definitely right. i used to have petty fights with stubborn cab drivers. i know my destination and the way to get there the best way we can. but they want a long cut then. they even asked for extra or additional amount due to traffic. hello where in manila can you find a place so cool and not having any problems with traffic. i got your point friend!

Hi 7th, Friends always understand our situation and our priorities. They know the struggle that we undertake just to be with them. I admire your wife for taking your son to the party just to give in to their invitation. But the concern with the ride home is a big consideration.

Hi Neil, that was a great alternative for being inside the chinese temple. at least your son enjoyed touring around the city zoo. this experience will be kept i his heart and memories for the rest of his life. a great bonding day with you!

Hi CK, Nice seeing you again my friend. how are you? As what i've mentioned in myy earlier responses--for my family it's non-negotiable. I have my share of "lazy times" but you know what, i really can't afford to be in that state longer. i am used to mulit-tasking and needs to work on double time for my other concerns and business. honestly, i can do mylot while doing the laundry and preparing food for my family while watching my kids and watching tv too...hahahahaha. As long as we know our priorities by heart --we are guided! no regrets! hugs for you friend.

Hi Fornalina, It's a good break for you friend. Don't feel guilty about it. Anyways, you did spend time to review your lessons and maybe you are ready for the exams. Don't be scared. you can review again later and refresh your memory for those that you've reviewed before. Good luck. i know you'll make it!

Hi Dorann, THat was a tough but heart-warming choice. If i am your father-in law or the host of the celebration i will take it as a gift. you made the right choice. they are celebrating life---being a father and you are with your friend struggling for life. just being there made her feel better. You will be blessed for that kindness you've shown to your friend. So, what's the latest news about her? Have a joyful weekend!

Hi Juggerogre, Good decision. At least you're able to rest. Don't worry you will recall it later. for the meantime just enjoy responding on other's discussion instead of worrying about your discussion at least you are still so productive. thanks for your sharing! goodluck.

Hi Santos, Great the you realized the importance of attending your OJT. But of course it's also good if you're able to attend your oath-taking. it's a once in a lilfetime event. but since you're hired then for that training then you are blessed. I agree with you for believing in the saying about --everything happens for a reason. keep up the good work.

Hi Goddessjess, The alternative for reading is quite productive too. Nice that you're able to work on mylot for two hours. However, please don't sacrifice the time for your sleep as it can pose some harm to your health. although i understand it's weekend so have all the time to stay late anyway we can always extend sleep the next morning. Hmmmm...exchanging a healthy dinner for chocolate---can i have one too? hehehehe! Thanks for your response! I will make a duplicate copy of this response and paste it in your other response as there is a possibility that on of them will be deleted for double posting.

Hi LetranKnight, Thanks for being in agreement or favoring my decision to stay with the kids than spent the my day til night with my friends. actually, just to be with me and be updated with each other, she will be trating me for lunch anytime next week. She's a good friend and i appreciate her being so understanding about my situation.

Hi Starsailor, I admire you for your commitment to be with your class instead of giving yourself the best nap that you get get for the day. You did a good job to and you are clear with your priorities. My family is always the number one priority in my life. I already did call my friend and explained the reason for missing the party. She did understand and will just see me next week. She said she'll drop by the office and we will take our lunch together.