starsailover

@starsailover (7829)

Mexico • Age 37

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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To Stay Or to Go?

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 1 May 13

I just read that My Lot will stop paying us to post and respond. I'm staying because I love the posts I read and write here but I wonder how many are here only for the money and will go? I have met and talked to many good and...

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starsailover Hi Sarah: This is a nice decision. I haven't decided yet because I am still shocked. I am not here just for the money and I actually don't need this $10 I make in Mylot every two or three months but it was a good incentive. I think many people, specially in...

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How rude are cigarette smokers....

bjc66bjc @bjc66bjc (6730) • United States 22 Apr 13

Let me say that I don't have anything against smokers because with all the warnings there are and those nasty TV commericals about smoking, if one want to smoke let them smoke and thats just the way I feel about it.. But not...

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starsailover Hi bjc: I don't hate smokers. In fact, my own dad is a smoker and I love him. The thing is that it's not comfortable at all to sit in front of a person that is smoking and at the same time, when someone is smoking, he/ she is affecting the health of the people...

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Are we too dependent on technology?

hhawksworth @hhawksworth (1) 22 Apr 13

Share your views on whether advances in technology have improved our lives, or have we become too dependent on it?

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starsailover Hi hhawksworth: I think you are right to a point. It's truth that technologies are good for us but the more they make our lives more comfortable we become lazier and of course too dependent to them. Sometimes we have to go out and work out to feel alive and...

23 Apr 13

Husband cheating or not

runningwater @runningwater (10) • United States 9 Apr 13

My husband started staying gone for days at a time. He says hes just out having fun. He comes home takes a nap and shower and is gone again. Im not aloud in his car he keeps the doors locked and he text someone the hole time hes...

cheating husbnd

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starsailover Hi running water: Although you are not giving us enough information I think that's enough to put a red flag. If your heart tells you something might be wrong you better don't leave things right. Try to look carefully and don't talk to him until you have big...

23 Apr 13

Similar discussions by the same user

starsailover @starsailover (7829) • Mexico 8 Sep 12

Hi Mylot users: Have you find some members on Mylot that start very similar discussions at the same day? How do you feel about that? To make the same question too many times just with a little change? I'll make an...

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starsailover Hi ajithlal: Definitely yes. It's natural that from time to time some subjects are repeated. But what is wrong is when someone deliberately start in one day very similar discussion with the only objective of making a lot of posts on the site. ALVARO

23 Apr 13

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Not even a day and best response is already chosen.

MissPiggy @MissPiggy (1748) • Indonesia 15 Apr 13

So what's the use of responding? I mean, I saw one (because I don't know if there's the others) mylotter who already picked a best response even after a few hours. It often makes me feel lazy to response because I know there won't...

best response

mylot

respond

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starsailover Hi Miss Piggy: I think we have different points of views here. At least as a topic starter, I think I need more than a day to decide what's the best response for me. Sometimes it could take me more than a month My rule as a topic starter is...

20 Apr 13

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Is it better to write everyday or only when the inspiration comes?

katie0 @katie0 (5203) • Japan 16 Apr 13

Hi! I'd like to ask not all writers but those who create stories, do you think which one is better for a writer? Most of professional authors tell us to write everyday but I never can do that, whatever comes up is really...

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starsailover Hi Katie: As a writer I think that we should not force inspiration. However you could find a moment everyday to get relaxed, it could be your special place when you feel comfortable and try to make inspiration come to you. But of course if you find that you...

20 Apr 13

Got No Friends????

bird123 @bird123 (10658) • United States 13 Apr 13

Let's work on that. Happiness is a Big Draw. Don't you just love being around Happy people? People happy and having fun draws us all because we all want that for ourselves. Step one: Be Happy! Generate fun and they will come to...

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starsailover Hi bird: Thanks for your message. Some years ago I was more worried about having friends but as I grew up I realize that it's not thinking "I want to find friends" that you get them, but when you give the best of you. If you give love you'll find love instead...

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Am finally not addicted to coffee anymore.

eileenleyva @eileenleyva (27560) • Philippines 18 Apr 13

Used to be, not a day goes by without six mugs of coffee, minimum. It was heartbreaking, really, to know that one is addicted to something that is detrimental to the health. Bitter though the taste, it was as if coffee was...

health

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starsailover Hi eileen leyva: Wow! I have simply need to say that you really were a coffee addicted. You drank too much coffee, even for my standards I used to be a coffee addicted. Breakfast was not the same for me without a cup of coffee but I'm glad I start...

20 Apr 13

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50/50 believe in aliens, why would governments cover up?

katie0 @katie0 (5203) • Japan 13 Apr 13

The number of people believing and disbelieving in Extraterrestrial intelligent life forms increased so much lately (maybe because of Ancient Aliens, Zacharias Snitch, Erich von Däniken or could be Independence Day, Star Wars,...

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starsailover Hi katie: The discussion is way too long. I share with the people that believe in aliens the idea that there's a big possibility that other species exist out of our planet but at the same time I think there are not enough proofs at the moment to demonstrate...

20 Apr 13

Google chrome crashing quite often

ravisivan @ravisivan (14082) • India 19 Apr 13

I am not sure whether many others have this problem. My google chrome is getting crashed quite often. say four or five times in one hour. I am feeling so dejected I deleted chrome browser completely. what is the experience of...

google chrome crashing

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starsailover Hi ravisivan: I used to like Google Chrome, mostly because it has that 'spelling correction' but I started to experience this same situation so I decided to return to the old Mozilla Firefox and I have to tell you that my experience is good. The browser has...

20 Apr 13

Thousands of desires with no money to fulfill all of them

ajithlal @ajithlal (14716) • India 13 Apr 13

I have thousands and thousands of things needed or desires to buy with no money to buy them. I think most probably it must be desire that makes me want things. I wanted tablet, laptop, dth connection, dual sim mobile phone, tv...

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starsailover Hi ajithlal: I see that you are dealing with this situation and it's hard for you but try to be more aware on how you spend your money and if you really need to buy something. Sometimes, if we have the ability to say no or that we'd buy this thing 'later' in...

20 Apr 13

A Priest and a Hammer....

bird123 @bird123 (10658) • United States 19 Apr 13

There was a crowd around a priest at a nearby church I was visiting. There was something about this priest that drew people around him. Seems everyone hung on his every word. He seemed a bit too holier than thou to me. Well,...

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starsailover Hi bird: I think that's a beautiful story you are sharing with us. And in general if we could have the ability to face these harsh situations with some sense of humor they won't be so bad or at least it would be easier for us to deal with these...

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Facebook is a mess now...

MissPiggy @MissPiggy (1748) • Indonesia 12 Apr 13

So I sent a complain about the messaging setting to Facebook the other day. I told the admins that the setting has made me feel inconvenience. You know what did they reply? "[b]Thanks for your feedback. We're constantly trying...

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starsailover Hi Miss Piggy: I am sorry to know that you have received such a generic message as a response. I think that's even more frustrating because, at least you expect that they would care about the problem and that they will try to do something to fix it. I hope...

20 Apr 13

Many women live together with their men before marriage - recent study

ravisivan @ravisivan (14082) • India 11 Apr 13

I read in a tamil newspaper the following report: "More american women live together with their partner before marriage. The percentage is put at 50. It was less in the earlier years. another point is that 20% of them become...

recent study

women living together before marriage

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starsailover Hi ravisivan: I think that the usual roles on how relationships should be and take place have changed a lot in western societies. Now it's more common to decide to start living before you get married because relationships are more based on a mutual contentment...

20 Apr 13

The Enforcer!!!!

bird123 @bird123 (10658) • United States 12 Apr 13

Holy books have their rules. People think their holy book comes directly from God. Do people feel they should be the Enforcers of these holy books and rules?? Does God really need Enforcers?? Does God really want...

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starsailover Hi bird: Absolutely yes! Religion and beliefs in general should be base on freedom to chose what you think it's good for you but the most fundamentalist members of different religions see themselves as the enforcers of God's law. Religion must be a personal...

20 Apr 13

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What are some suggestions you would give new parents?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 9 Apr 13

The most important responsibility that anyone can be given is that of raising a child. Most new parents however, have to learn as they go, depending on their natural instinct. The fortunate ones have parents who are willing to...

advice

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starsailover Hi Pose: I think these advices are really good and they are beautiful. however, it's difficult to advice someone on how to be a better parent. Sometimes you get a harsh response because people feel offended when someone is "trying to teach them how to be good...

20 Apr 13

Uinvest

serginho77 @serginho77 (713) • Slovenia 8 Apr 13

What do you think about this site? Are you member there? I am member now for more than 6 months and I got every month 2,9$ for doing nothing. I think this is quite good and it is one of the best making money site so far. What is...

invest

make money

ptc

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starsailover Hi serginho: First congratulation for all you have earned. I have read some news about this site and from the beginning I've thought it's just "another HYIP" I don't know how it has survived but I am very skeptical, I don't like to put my money when I just...

20 Apr 13

Waiting For Him....

Dassodils @Dassodils (2010) • India 7 Apr 13

Haiii friends... How are you..?? Now,my main hobby is waiting for him on the meeting place.I will call him and say the place which we can meet safely.Then I will reach at the correct time.Then he will be late almost time..On the...

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starsailover Hi Dassodils: I understand why you feel angry with your hubby. I hope you had given him the chance to explain why he made you wait because this could be a reason but it's also good that you make him know that this should not happen because he also has to care...

20 Apr 13

So Beautiful So Deadly!!!!

jahernandezrivas @jahernandezrivas (11288) • United States 8 Apr 13

I watch a lot of crime television and I watch ID Investigation and I hate it when my husband leaves that on the channel and leaves!!! It scares me to hear all that! And too see it too!! But anyway I noticed that the women who have...

people

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starsailover Hi ja hernandez rivas: Sometimes is because they are just sick but physical beauty doesn't say anything about a person. Beauty is never a synonym of 'good'. Some people say Ted Bundy, the serial killer was a handsome guy. Actually a lot of psychopaths may be...

20 Apr 13