If you had to introduce yourself to a group of strangers,what would you say?

@JenInTN (27514)
United States
July 17, 2010 9:45am CST
As most of you that know me, I have an issue with speaking in front of a group of people. Since starting school, most of my classes have required speeches and at the very least, an introduction. I usually just tell them my name and where I work..I got kids..very busy..yadda yadda...very plain actually. So I'm wondering..if you had to give an introduction of yourself to strangers..what would you tell them about yourself?
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20 responses
• China
18 Jul 10
Due to the nature of my work, I often have to make self-introduction. I'm working as a college teacher, and as you know, there are new students enrolling every year, and I need to introduce myself to all the students who are strangers to me in the first class. My self-introduction usually covers three points, my name, my education background and interests.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
18 Jul 10
I suppose you are very comfortable with introducing yourself in front of strangers. Have you ever been nervous or have you always been at ease? Thanks for responding.
• China
18 Jul 10
You're right to some extent. I do how feel relaxed when introducing myself after making so many self-introductions. But I used to be very nervous in doing so and almost couldn't utter a correct sentence. With much practice in recent two years, I've overcome this and can be at ease in making self-introduction. Don't be discouraged because of this. Everyone can be nervous in the beginning. All you need is practice and relaxation.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
Should I introduce myself, guess i will, If it was in school, i will say my name, my age, ask them how do i look and tell them i am single. assuming they would laugh then i am gonna point with someone and ask them if she is single also. Then i am gonna ask them who is married and reply Your are very very lucky
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
17 Jul 10
I would like to sit in iw your introduction...lol...you sound like you would be a lot of fun to take a class with. Everytime they asked for speaking volunteers...I could just point at you and get out of it...
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
to continue with my speech i will stare at the professor and tell I wanna go home
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
17 Jul 10
I guess alot would depend on the vibes i was getting from the crowd. If they felt friendly i think i would feel more open to them.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
17 Jul 10
Vibes is a big deal! If I feel a bad vibe...I have a lot harder time. So far so good on that. Most of them are as reluctant as me to introduce themselves. Thanks for the response Jo. Hugs
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
17 Jul 10
u WILL DO JUST FINE, I am so proud of u for going back to school. I love ambition in people . Hugs to u, bunches of them.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
17 Jul 10
group of strangers - This is a group of women writers at my place. I do not know them personally though.
Well Jen, for many a soul this is a tough time facing a group of strangers and letting themselves out. Many feel nervous, many feel as if the group is a hostile one and thus posing a threat to their being etc. Though by nature I am soft spoken I do speak or face a crowd or a group of strangers as normally as I would face any other person. Few words of introduction like-" Hi me Rajib. I hail from xyz, abc is my profession. Nice that I met you and fortunate to get an opportunity to interact with you all" and bla bla. Public speaking is my hobby and passion and thus can face a huge crowd without getting palpitation. lol
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
17 Jul 10
LOL...I hope to one day face a crowd without the palpitations... I usually stick to the basics too. Thanks for responding.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
17 Jul 10
..without the palpitation...
@ET28LV (1890)
• Latvia
24 Jul 10
Hi Jenin, If I need to read my speech to strangers and I need to introduce myself with them I would say some things about my childhood, school times, my adventures, trips, tours. Also I would talk about my hobbies for things what I like to do. I would happy to talk about things whose are important for me and world. I would say some advices how to improve our country system. I wouldn't talk about my private life, my relatives and friends and my personal information, because they are strangers. I would say only my first and last name from personal information. I know It is very hard to talk about things when there are big group of people who are listen every your word. Take care, Have a nice day!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
25 Jul 10
Very nice. You really have your stuff together for this public speaking. Thanks for the input!
• Malaysia
19 Jul 10
Those first introductions can be the most difficult and sometimes the most important. People are making flash judgments every second. Everyone move you make is being scrutinized. But with the right introduction, a good personality, and some confidence, you have the power to cement you good image in their minds and create an instant bond. First of all, you can start with your own name. But if you know their name, it's a really nice touch to address them by it. Once they've been addressed, then you can throw you name into your conversation. Secondly, if you have any mutual acquaintance, a specific reason for starting the conversation, or anything that gives credit to you, it is good to mention that early on. It lets them know you aren't trying to waste their time. Besides that, you also can ask them questions. Ask them about what they do, what they like doing, their history. Ask anything that's appropriate to your conversation. In general, people really enjoy talking about themselves, so the more you let them talk, the more they're going to like you..haha Actually, there are only simple and short ways that can lead you to a good conversation with them.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
19 Jul 10
Thanks for the input Albert. It sounds like you are very good at introductions. My oh my if I could get somone to take the stage sometime..that would be great...lol...Most of them are as nervous and reluctant as me. That does make it a bit easier for me.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Jul 10
Not much lol I think about as much as you do I am actually quite shy and considering I used to be an Area Manager and always had to introduce myself I never lost the Shyness but I used to cope alright because I did not have to say anything much about myself as such
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
18 Jul 10
lol..I just hate it. I don't know why I feel so intimidated by getting up in front of people. I'm fine as long as I'm not the center of attention. Or a least under a formal occasion.. Thanks for the response.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
18 Jul 10
Not very much.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
18 Jul 10
LOL...me either.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
18 Jul 10
I find that kind of thing difficult as well but sometimes it is unavoidable. Years ago when I was single I decided to join a bushwalking club and had to meet the rest of the members early on a Sunday morning. I was nervous but I really wanted to join so I drove to the meeting point, parked the car, took a deep breath and walked up to a small group that looked friendly enough; I smiled and simply said, “Hi, I’m Paula...” Fortunately the people were very nice and immediately made me feel welcome. These days when I look back I don’t know how I did it! When I separated from my first husband I was left alone and friendless because our social life up until then had revolved around his friends and we had been together since we were sixteen years old so I had little choice but get out there and meet people in order to have some kind of a life. I joined two bushwalking clubs and a social club all by myself just by walking in and saying my name, it was tough but I did it!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
18 Jul 10
Good for you paula! You are very strong. I know that it is hard to join a group on your own..most people join with a friend so that they don't have to start out alone. I know that in my class group that there is a mother-in-law and dauhter-in-law plus another that are sisters. They take every class together. I am just in there...lol. It's ok though. Thanks for responding.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
18 Jul 10
nice to meet u all here. i am shibham from india and a stranger for you and vise versa. i am college teacher in modern indian language and still a bachelor. this is my formal introduction here and if u want to know more please ask.... thanks you.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
18 Jul 10
Vey nice shibham! Opening up the door to get to know you on a personal level where one might be more comforable is great. Thanks for responding.
@Ladyslipper (1327)
• Philippines
18 Jul 10
It depends on the group of people, occasion and situation. I have a lot of experiences introducing to a group of strangers so I'm no longer that nervous doing it. If I would introduce my self in a class I'd give my full name, nickname, course, reason why I took that course, expectation from the class and a little about my interests and hobbies. If I would introduce my self to an NGO or a civic group I'd start with my name also, my ideals that has something to do with the objectives, mission and vision of the group and I'd share some experiences and inspirational stories to them for motivation. If I would introduce my self in a panel for interview I would start with my name followed by why I was named that way by my parents and then my interests aligned with the company's mission, vision and goals. If I would introduce my self to a group of executives which I do most of the time now that I'm working in a corporate industry I'd start with my full name, designation in the company, tenure in the company, work experiences and best practices.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
18 Jul 10
I guess that the more we do these introductions or presentations...the more relaxed we become. Sounds like you are really good at speaking in front of strangers. I hope to do as well as I get used to it more. Thanks for responding.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
18 Jul 10
As I work with disabled youths I sometimes have strangers who drop by to help us around. Besides my name I never forget to make them feel very important for the time they have spent with us. If I could I would love to meet them beforehand and talk about some of the do's and don'ts. The one thing I would love to touch on is 'helped helplessness' and that simply means giving these disabled youths not a chance to do things by themselves by being unnecessarily helped.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
18 Jul 10
I can see how it would be important for them to leanr self reliance. Sometimes people want to help so much that it hurts. I'm ok with a one on one or something like that...even if I've never met them but standing up in front of a group..that's what gets me. Thanks for the response.
• Philippines
18 Jul 10
First of all, I would say good day to you all and state my name too. Then what comes after depends on the situation at hand. If you are in a seminar then state why you are there and what you are willing to do to learn. If you are introducing yourself in school then you should try to include your educational attainment and etc.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
18 Jul 10
Thanks for the input. I usually try to include my major and the length of time I've attended the school.
• United States
18 Jul 10
Hey Jen I think I would start off by saying " hi, my name is Nia and im a little nervous lol" Maybe admitting that your a little nervous may take some of the pressure off of you. After doing that i would say something funny to lighten the mood just a bit. Not like a weird joke but one of those opps did i just say that sort of thing. I had to give speeches in english class and they were a tough group. But once I knew that i had them it was pretty easy..
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
18 Jul 10
LOL..I agree that admitting that your nervous might take the edge off. I try to remember that they are just as reluctant to get up and speak as I am..lol..Most of them are anyway. Thanks for responding.
@nanajanet (4436)
• United States
17 Jul 10
Hi! My name is XXXX. I am very pleased to meet you. Other than that, I am not sure. It would depend on the group, the event, etc. I have no problem talking to anyone. In fact, my husband will ask me, after talking to someone, "Who were you talking to?" I will tell him that I never met them and he will ask why I was talking to them, then. I say, "Because they are there!" LOL
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
17 Jul 10
Hi nanajanet! I don't have any trouble talking to anyone either...it's putting me up in front of a group that gives me a fit..lol..It really does depend on the group or event as to what one should say I suppose. Thanks for the response.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
17 Jul 10
If I were going to teach or give a lecture, I would give my name and then say something about myself to warrent them spending their time listening to me. If I am just introducing myself, It's pretty much name rank and serial number for me.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
17 Jul 10
Same here savypat. I keep it pretty basic with my introduction. Great advice about establishing your credibility on leading a discussion. Thanks for responding.
• Mexico
17 Jul 10
Hi Jen In Tn: I have to say that I am not very good when I have to introduce myself. But I think that the formule would be: -Excuse me and after everybody is paying atention to me. My name is XXX I'm the (tell why I'm here, what do I do and finally why do I have to talk to them). I think that depending on the persons the development of the conversation makes things more easy for me. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day. ALVARO
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
17 Jul 10
A conversation type atmosphere would make it a lot easier for me too. I am great with a group when I don't have to stand up and be the center of attention..I don't like that. Thanks for the response.
@jabezdnl (22)
• India
17 Jul 10
I don't have any idea about this. But usually we first tell our name,our profession etc...
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
17 Jul 10
Yes...that's what I do..sometimes I'll throw in a hobby or special interest if I think it relates to the group. Thanks for responding.
@abin1287 (114)
• India
17 Jul 10
Hi, its a good topic to have a discussion on, I will first try to identify which type of group is it before starting the conversation. As the topic i will start has to have a interest of the listeners. or in general i will start with the some day to day hot topics, like sports, politics, weather, Money. as all the age group has an interest on either of them.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
17 Jul 10
Sounds like you would do fine introducing yourself under most any circumstance. Thanks for the input.
• India
5 Sep 10
ha ha, i think it is really simple,if i want to introduce myself to the group of strangers then i will invite all them on mylot and will start discussions with them on mylot.as we are dicussing and sharing our idea and views with strangers moslty.,here on mylot..!!