What is the best place for you to cry when you in a deep sorrow ?

You're saying like this "you said that you were crying for your sorrows, pls dont do that". I don't think so there's no one would never cry in the midst of sorrows or griefs. It's normal actually to cry just to let all your feelings out, we are human after all that live with emotions. While you can do things to cope up from what you've feel but doesn't mean you have to prohibit yourself to cry. Crying doesn't mean you are showing your weakness, it is something about you have to show it for you to feel alright. While there are some whose pride is dominant over themselves, then you may seek yourself a place to cry where you are alone. But, I tell you, crying with someone else (a person who is closest to you---friend)can feel you better after crying. This is not something to be ashamed for as everybody can experience this stage----things like those are normal in life.

i wanna say you one thing that the closest person of yours wont allow any situations to make you cry. it is 100%true and i'm experiencing it.

I just have something really heart broken yesterday and I didn't sleep well for the last whole night.When I woke up early in this morning,I found my heart beat was irregular due to the unhappy event.I was able to get a nice and quiet time to cry at around 9 in my own bed.I cried with tears and all the unhappiness broken out.After the tears had finally came out,I found myself feel a lot better since all my hurt had ben flush out with tears.I feel tired after that because cry out loud did cost energy.I feel better after I woke up again.I think I need to rebuild myself again after I will clear up all my depression and unhappiness.Sometimes, crying in the shower is always a good place.The water will just flush out all you tears while you are taking a bath at the same time.Since you are bathing ,you can cry out loud and nobody can hear you.I think it is not easy to be a human in this world since it is so much stress and so much unhappy event happening everyday.Relationship with others,unemployment,anger towards all the unjustice issue in the society.Seeing the bad guys always win and the good guys always lose,Poverty,etc.All these thing add up to be a heavy burden to all of us in everyday life.We surely ned a place to cry out loud and release all the sadness and sorrow.Although we may encounter another new issue the next day but still,it is good to clear up our teras within our heart on a regular basis.I hope we can live a happy and joyful life all the times and always.I know it is not easy but as long as we have hope,it is a good thing and we will help each other in times of unhappiness.Then ,this world will at least can be a place that we can still keep on going until the end of our journey in this world.Well,I hope you will have a good day and tomorrow and in the days to come.Take care.

I understand what you mean when you say you are a very emotional and sensitive man.Why? It is beacause I am also one of this kind of people and I really feel pain too.I wish I were those rational guy who will always see things in a logical way but without too much feeling towrds anything.That way,I nmay feel a lot happier.Well, I don't know ......as you said...we were born like that and looks like it won't change overnight but I still think that there will always be hope in our life,otherwise it will be hard for anyone to go on.well,I don't know what to say to you but I would encourage to talk to your frineds when you are having a bad time and enjoy some good music that will help you feel better.Look up to th sky once awhile can see th bird flying around.Smell the flowers a bit more and enjoy the fresh wind on the beach once awhile .Let the nature wash away your unhappiness and jsut let the sunshine in.Have a good day.

Thank you for your comfort and it is good to have more people like you in mylot.I think god surely have a plan for everyone and I thank Him for His salvation plan to me and I thank Him for my Savior Jesus.But there are times that we will still cry out loud even we have a whole Bible to back us up.As long as we are emotional being,then We need to deal with our emotion.It is ok to cry and thank you for reminding me that.But there are lots of people will look at you witha strange look if your cry.You know something,a man is not encoourage o cry in our culture because it was a traditional belief that "a man sholud shed blood but not tears" in our Chinese culture.It was definately bwrong since we were created with emotion bu God.But it si just a kind of pressure that a man will get from our culture when a man cry.It is getting much better in nowaday since The people in our culture are getting more educated.Ther started to understand the emotioinal side of a man and won't just say things with rationally alone.Well,I think it is good to have comfort when anyone is facing sadness and deep sorrow.I don't think we all have to get a counsellor to help us in the time of difficulty but for sure it may help if there is one.But if there is none,I can at least think of two possibilty : God and friends in mylot.Thabnk youagain for all the mylot friends including you whenh I am in an unhappy situation.I hope that I can be someone's helper again when my hurt and sorrow is over.Have a good day.

I really need a beach like you have near my home.Unfortunately,I don't live near to the seashore and I have to go a long way by bus or by train before I can get closer to the sea.I understncd what you mean when you say depression and lonely especially when you talk about relationship broke up.It would surely hurted and I was one of your company.Everything was Romantic and happy in the beginning,but when it was time to break up.It was just like the whole world turns dark and there seems we were running out of hope .Things may not be that sad but when we are inside the problem,we can never see anything from the outside world.Well,I think we need someone to talk to and someone to help us to walk through the problem together. Then we may not feel we are alone.I hope that you can recover soon and have the strength and courage to go forward.Always remember that " tomorrow will b better ".Have a good day.

Shower is no doubt a goo place to cry since the water will flush away your tears which is deep down from your soul.I sometimes do that too especially when I don't want my family memebers to know it.I think another place for me to cry will be in the park or even a sport stadium where everyone can walk in for a visit during the leisure time.I remember I did it once about one week ago when something really hurted me.It was raining heaveily and nobody was there except me .I cry ,and cry and cry a lot for almost 15 minutes and i feel much better after that.The sky was also crying with me and I wasn't alone since the rain was my comfort and the rain became my friends at that time.The best of all was nobody was there and it was about 9 pm at night.I was so happy that I could at least found a nice and quiet place to cry when I was really unhappy.The wind was blowing with the rain as well and I could cry out loud withour anybody to interruped me.Oh,by the way it is heavily raining in my city rioght at this moment but Tonight I don't have anything to cry yet and perhaps it will give me some hope.Since last week I was still in deep sorrow and depression but not now.Well,time will always move forward and we are changing everyday.I don't know waht happen to me tomorrow but at this moment,I don't have to live with tears at least in this moment.Thus ,we need to encourage one another that tomorrow will be a better day,no matter how tough and unhappy that the situation we are facing today.Have a good day and have a happy tomorrow.

yes your right its really the perfect place to burst out our emotions. then when i go out its like nothing happened

You are very right with that. The temple for me is the place next to my room where i can feel better whenever i'm feeling down. after doing some meditation in the temple it brings me a difference, its like you were refreshed after all the burden you feel inside.