I hate being in love...

Wow! You took a right decision. Thats it.

I think it's not that you hate being in love, but you maybe feel that your love isn't appreciated.It happens when we choose a wrong person, but sometimes it's so hard to control feelings.Love itself is a gift.It's good that you're capable to love.There's a right person for you somewhere and the right person will never reject your feelings, believe me.

I kind of agree with you on this one, and it's not that I don't believe in LOVE, it's just that I think in one way or another, LOVE will eventually come and when the right time comes, then only being in love is for REAL. p/s: I wonder why so many couples break up and get together so many time. Is it like for REAL!? haha

Hiya lienrose, For a time I thought that after I broke up with a long standing boyfriend. Then I realized it was the best thing I had done. We were going to get engaged and married but somehow things did not seem right and so I said no because then I found out what my life with that Man would have been like and it was not going to be nice. A few weeks go by and I still hated the word love. I went on Holidays and I did not want to talk to any boy or about marriage or children nothing at all. About a week after I was there I "met" someone who just struck up conversation with me and that conversation has been going now for a good long time. Also I am still with him. Love comes back to you if you are willing to let it in and around you. I don´t know your reasons they must be very personal. But love will enter your Life like it did mine just wait and see.

I don't think love is not real,maybe in your case but for people like me I truly believed that falling in love is one of the best things that happen in a persons life.

NOW? with the advent of technological advancement and immorality ??? DON'T GET ME WRONG HEHE...If I can only DICTATE my heart then DON'T FALL IN LOVE THIS IS TERRIBLY SAD AND IRONIC PART : When man became more intelligent thus rational of things, LOVE loses it value, criticizing every aspect of it. rather than letting it move flawlessly as love is abstract. I WANTED TO BE IN ROMANCE but I don't think it exists much today. This is really maddening me!!! :( Thanks for posting LIENROSE :)))

I think you haven't found the girl that's meant for you. Time will come that you'll just laugh about what you posted here because you realized that it's no longer true.

You might be hurt after falling in love, maybe that's why you hate being in love. Love is for real..and love is the best thing that ever happened to me. I love being in Love with myself, with God, with my family, with my friends, with my boyfriend and being in love with eveything :P

oh lien :( why you say this? what happened to you? :( please share with us what happened^^ i be happy to advise you :) im kinda heartbroken too right now bcs this guy i love and thought he loved me so muchy too loves other girl :( and now i dont know what should i do. he says he loves me but we live far and he met her and loves her :( but he said he doesnt love me admires me a lot but he said why i dream to be with you and not her? i dont know what to think really :( sometimes i feel he loves me but other times :( it is a complete mess. so i be glad if can help you. if you want share sure^^

I think that you have not understand the words love ..........you mean that love is between girl and boy but is not like that ........we can love our parents and friends also ..........we are loved to be born in this world ........we should enjoy.

I think the reason why you said that is maybe you have been through different traumatic relationship from the past, but once you have found the right girl for you, you will realize that love is such a wonderful feeling that you will ever have, because falling in love is a wonderful thing.

Before I was in love,but now I hate to being love because I really get hurts by love,I regret now why had done like this.It is really painful in my heart that when someone hurts you very badly either your bf or best friend.

I think you don't know what LOVE is that's why it's not real for you. LOVE is a gift from GOD. Don't hate it, you should be happy about it because without love you will not be perceive in this earth . Your parents did believe in LOVE and you are the result for the love they have shared each other. In other words, believe on it and it will become REAL.

maybe you hate to be in love coz you don't want to fall deeper... and if you try so hard to hate it, you might be lying to yourself, fooling yourself too, making a belief that it not real or existent,,, ^^, (sorry for being kind of rude with my response,,,)

I am sorry love has not been a good feeling for you. When love is reciprocated, it can actually be one of the best feelings in the world! I have been in love where feelings have not been reciprocated as well, and it does hurt. I have also been in relationships where there was a mutual feeling of love...and it's one of the greatest pleasures in the world! I hope that somday, you will be able to enjoy the same.

same as me LOL....why we do like that? because we are afraid to be hurt again by love...

Hi LIENROSE! Can you actually control not being in love? If you had met your match you would probably say the opposite.

Yes, I hate being in love because we don't get perfect and long lasting love from others.Ii is only like in a dream as it just for a moment and if have misunderstanding than we not love and care about it .

That means you haven't understand what love is and don't ever try to find also,its better not love someone because its only hurts and gives only pain.

So what u like being in? Or else u not getting anyone there?