Feelings: when are they real?? When can they be trusted??

YES.. that's the reason why communication is very important role in knowing with each other. As anyone deserve to be loved and can be trusted.

it is absolutely normal to have these confusions. that is why a lot of people do not really rely on just love. relationships do not work with just love. there are a lot of other factors that needs to be considered. love alone cant be trusted because even we for ourselves do not really know how to define love. there's no definite meaning of love so to be able to find the best person to be with, we have to consider lots of other factors.

I also feel the same and it usually happens in the Office where you rarely know who is genuine in their feelings towards you and who is not so this becomes intriguing for me to make a difference.

I'm in this kind of situation. I am saying that I am in love with this person but we hardly know each other and we rarely even see each other. We've been dating exclusively for a few months now and we go out almost every weekend because that's the only time when we're free from work. We talk over the phone and send each other text messages from time to time and so I felt I've fallen in love with him. I know that he cares so much about me, and he said so himself, plus he told me that he wants this 'relationship' to work. I know that it's still too early to say that this is really 'love' but that's how I feel, and like what the others here say, you just have to trust your feelings, and if I may add, guard your heart.

Well in love, trust and feelings are always real.

We have no way of finding it. We just have to trust our feelings and do what our heart says. I do get feeling like this but luckily there has not been any harm to me.

we always have this doubt especially during fights but if love is true then the feelings will also be true... :)