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By raeesmanager
@raeesmanager (49)
Pakistan
July 31, 2010 4:34am CST
I enjoy here surfing time on the net , earning some dollars on the net , but the wrong thing with my life is the loneliness, I need a good relationship, i need to forget my past and live with smile,, i want to spend a good time with someone, I am a not boring person, but in my luck there is always some thing wrong with my relations i have my family but I am living alone far away from home for study, i don't know wheather I say it here or not..
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17 responses
@spazz435 (322)
• United States
31 Jul 10
Raeesmanager, I think that the only way you will be able to forget the past and move on with a good relationship, is if you just get out there. There are so many people out there that are so willing to make friends with you, you just have to open yourself to them. Be willing to let people in. Then you won't feel lonely anymore.
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@raeesmanager (49)
• Pakistan
4 Aug 10
oo soo sweet of u dear, now i believe that what ever the matter is, people are there to help, because they have the sweet heart inside them and they we don't want to see anyone down, m soooo happy for all of you, and thank u soo much 'spazz435'
@puddinggirl (93)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
thats why the internet is created.. not just for commercial , new technology , business and so on.. its also for socialization... we can be freinds!!!! (wink)
@thedataminer (515)
• United States
1 Aug 10
I'm sorry that you are far away from your family. Believe me I know what loneliness is. I think to much time on the net might not be good for someone. I know I've spent way to much time by myself and way to much time on the net. But I'm a person without much of a life and without friends so being on the computer gives me something to do. I think to find a good relationship you need to go out and get involved in something like church, some meet-up group that has similar interest that you do or maybe a support group. Take my advice, I never use it. I hope you find that loving relationship you so desire. I wish you all the luck and happiness.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
2 Aug 10
You will never find a lover if you spend much time on computer or too much focus with studies. Girls will look at you as boring person, no life. Go out, socialize and enjoy everything. Balance is all you need. Happiness is only their if you know how appreciate the things you have. Remember that your the captain of your own ship.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
1 Aug 10
im sorry that you feel lonely :( you should go out to some places like the cinema or a club and try to meet new people^^ in those places you can meet people easy. also sure you will find someone to have a relationship with^^ everyone sooner or later finds the right person^^ just dont feel sad^^ cheer up and go out and meet new people^^ who knows one of the girls you meet wont like you? maybe she does and you find your true love^^
@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
All you have to do is try and try until you find the perfect relationship for you. but you dont have to overdo this because you will be like just a player. sometimes the best way is not to look for it at all. it will just come along your way as you enjoy life. if we keep on finding it then you would look like you are very desperate especially if there is no luck for you at all in finding it. Sometimes the best person to have a relationship with is just there around you and you are not noticing it because you are too picky! that all you want to have is have a pretty girlfriend or a handsome boyfriend. stay cool!
@raeesmanager (49)
• Pakistan
4 Aug 10
hmmm you are right i do agree with your response dear, so nice of you...
@cobrayogesh (174)
• India
1 Aug 10
First of all thank you for sharing your thoughts with is we are always here to listen to you hugs. Why do u feel lonely there is a being called GOD keep him in mind when ever you feel cold, lonely disturbed,happy sad, and everything and please don't feel sad about relationships they are like waves for they come and go
@akhileshnigam (494)
• India
31 Jul 10
man is social creater & he not live alone & without crowed best relation is freindship
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
1 Aug 10
Isn't it strange.
EVERYONE wants an intimate relationship and to love and be loved.
And at the same time it is DIFFICULT to find the "right" person.
I think that major reason why it doesn't work is because of the monogamous myth.
When people stop looking for the "perfect" match and start to learn to accept the people that they meet THEN they will not make the demands on each other that RUIN the relationship as easily.
@merma1267 (130)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
Everyone has it own destiny or facing lives either alone or with a family or with someone to be with. If you are living alone doesn't mean you are lonely, or u have family and you are happy..It depends on how you facing your life to be as long as you are happy on what you are doing. Anyone here i guess, been failed in a relationship but in time.. they find someone to be with. having a GF/BF it takes to two tango meaning it has to work it out by two people involve. Hey, you don't need to worry about when you're going to share on how you feel on this website.
@RONDOLAWE (774)
• Indonesia
31 Jul 10
MY SUGGESTION IS TRY YOU JOIN IN FRIENDFINDER , maybe you will get it in there is you soulmate .
@czanwell_30 (717)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
If you are lonely, don't dwell with the fact. Get up and go out. Try to mingle with people or go with the company of your friends and family. Keep yourself busy most of the time so that loneliness wouldn't come to your being. And don't think that yuo have wrong relationship. Sometimes you have to consider why things like that happens. Maybe she is not the right one for you. Life is beautiful. All you need to do is be patient. Know what yo want in life, where do you want to go. Just try to do all the things that would pleases you to ease the feeling of loneliness.
@diogz22 (516)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
Hi loneliness is a choice. You have the power to choose whether or not you want to stay being lonely. The very first thing you should do is to assess yourself check were you strengths and weakness. Second is to recreate yourself try doing something crazy once in a while. Third is to socialize, There are a lot of places you can socialize. If you are shy type person you can actually start of in the grocery store or department store when you go shopping, try talking to the saleslady not related to the things she sell I am pretty sure you will have a fruitful conversion then do that often eventually you will meet someone that will satisfy your need.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
Loneliness is only a state of mind. I am living independent for many years now, away from home and my peer, but that does not mean that I have to feel the loneliness of being alone. If you feel alone, you can always make some thing to ease that unless you yourself don't want it. There are so many things to do in this world. If you look for good relationships, then start making one and make friends. Friendships is a great way to start with in a relationship. Enjoy your life.
@loralie1106 (208)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
There is a time for everything. Love will come in it's time. Just forget the past, let it be a lesson, but not live with it. Live for the present and for future. Concentrate on your studies, and I'm sure in time everything is set. Patience is still a virtue.
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
31 Jul 10
fortune favors the brave...not the people who believe in luck. You need to forget depending on luck and get it out of your mind that luck can do something for you. Yo need to create an image in your mind of what ever you want and trust me you will get what you want.