Have you had your first love on your high school days?
By czanwell_30
@czanwell_30 (717)
Philippines
August 9, 2010 9:52pm CST
I met my first love on my high school days. Oh what a giggling kind of feeling, until now I can still feel the love I feel for him. We are so in love, he is so sweet, so romantic so thoughtful and until now I can't forget him. But I already accepted that we are not really meant for each other. Until now, he never get married. The last time we saw each other was 4 years ago, I was with my youngest child. He wants to talk to me but soon as he approaches me, my husband came so he just walk passed us. I can still remember the sadness in his eyes as if tears wanna fall. I'm just wishing that he will find someone who can share his life with. And I'm really sorry that it can no longer be me. :-(
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23 responses
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
That is so sad, my heart crushed when I read your story. Anyways just continue pray for him. For my highschool first love. I dont know if you will consider this as love. Because we are not in a relation, although I admit that I had a crush on him. And would really like to meet him. But he is actually our school priest. So every sunday I would really go to the church and I would check first what time he would celebrate the Holy mass. SO every where he goes I would find time to join him and attend those activities. That how I am really into him.
But it only stop when he was transferred to a different city that I could no longer go there. Because it takes time to be there and I dont know the place.
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@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
Yes that's my feeling when I had my crush. But sad because its not an ordinary thing because he is a priest and I could not tell my friends about it. I could not open up, its me between me, myself and I. I just smile and I could not share my emotions to my friends. Because you know, they might gonna judge me badly and I dont want that to happen. So I just kept it to myself.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
10 Aug 10
Hi,
So touching...I believe your first love still have
some feeling for you.
Be strong..it has over and just carry on with your
current life.
NO matter what have happened, both of you still can be a good
friend.
I can't remember I ever have a loved one during my high school.
I was more concentrating on my study rather my love life.
I only started to have a relationship with a guy after graduating
from my university.
I can say that my first love is also my last love.
and now I am married with my first loved and we have a happy
family.
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@czanwell_30 (717)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
Yeah of course, my husband doesn't have a clue on how I feel and I won't let him know about that coz I don't wanna hurt him. I already move on, I am just unhappy to see him that way. That he should also move on and find somebody to love.
@Fatima27 (65)
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10 Aug 10
Yes I met my first love in high school. He was one of the handsomest guy in the school and was eve crowned junior king in our prom. I was one of the school nerds and no one could be love that the guy would actually fall for me. He would take me home or would pass by in our class when he got time. It was great trying to remember him.
@czanwell_30 (717)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
Wow, I think all the pretty socialite girls in your school envied you! High school days are really hard to forget, remembering it makes me come back to the old good days. How sad, it is now a part of our lives and we can't have the one person that caught our hearts then. :-(
@hotwheels20 (400)
• India
10 Aug 10
Yeah my first love was in my high school days. It was when i was in 12 grade. I was really disturbed, i mean i was crazy in his love. But he never know that i like him a lot. I too didn't let him know about this be cause, he had a girlfriend. So i don't to create any misunderstandings. But the truth is i still feel for him.
@czanwell_30 (717)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
Oh really, how sad but I'm sure you, too can get over it. It's just an unforgettable experience that we can always cherish in our hearts. We must leave the yesterday behind...and what important now is today...the person who loves you and your family. It's part of growing up and becoming mature.
@nightkid (89)
• China
19 Aug 10
I once fell in love with a girl who was studing next to my class secretly.She was not only beautiful but also excellent in studies.I was so cowardly that I could't get up my courage to confess to her.There must be lots of excellent boys chasing after her ,and there was no chance for me .I failed to tell her the words from my heart finally.I have never met her again since we graduated from high school.So I left a pity in my high school time.
So my friends,if you fall in love with some,just say it out bravely.Now i am too late for repentance.
@Ingkingderders (3832)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
I don't think it is possible to ever forget your first love. Hehehe. I had mine when I was in 2nd year high school, I was so in love then, and now when I think back to it, all I can do is laugh at myself for doing silly things for love. LOL. My ex and I haven't talked in a while, although we are friends in facebook, and we are both happy with our lives.. He now has a family, and I'm pretty happy with my boyfriend. Although once in a while, I reminisce about those days, and it makes me happy to think that I had such a colorful teenage life, and it was really one of the best, and i can honestly say that it was partly because of my first love.
@lulu1220 (1006)
• United States
10 Aug 10
I did meet my first love in high school. He was a very nice person who was kind to me and treated me with respect. I found him to be very handsome and he had a great smile and laugh. After we graduated high school, we went to different colleges and I did not see him for a very long time. I eventually got married and still am today. I have thought about him over the years and I recently saw him earlier this year, but he did not see me. When I saw him all of those feelings came back and I find that I think of him more. I am not sure if he is with someone or married, but I hope that he is happy.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
10 Aug 10
I felt too awkward socially in high school. My first love came much later than that. Many of my friends had their first love in high school. That is just something that was not ready to happen to me then.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
10 Aug 10
Hi dear,
I know the feeling that you buried in you mind. Not exactly, but little bit similar is mine. I got my first fell in love luck when I was in 6th standard school. Few girls come from a near by school and admitted to my class. It took 2 years to realise that the desire to her was the love. May be a 12 years boy's childish thoughts - whatever it may be, it continued in my mind alone. I never expressed it to her, may be of my shy and scariness.
5-6 years studied together in the same promoted classes upto 10th standard. At the parting time of 10 standard, I collected her autograph from her. Then parted to our one ways. It is 35 years, now.
Later one last year when I visited my village, I had a strong desire to meet her at least once. It was far away. Still I went to her home. I could met her son and daughter. Unfortunately, she was not there. And I could not meet. I think there is still time more for the last chance.
However, I helped her son to get a good job who completed his engineering course. And after a few days time, she made a call to me to give her thank to getting a nice job for her son.
The story goes .. . . .
Regards,
Thank-s
@amarendra123 (230)
• India
10 Aug 10
i dint had my first love in my high school days.i had a crush on my classmate on my highschool days.
@boogzter (52)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
First love is indeed memorable. My experience was that I was the only one in love or it might be because I just didn't make a move on her. Hearing other guys courting her hurts me every time. Well well twas my bad... my loss. She's now happily married and blessed with a cute lil baby. For me its one failed relationship after another and still searching for the right one, I'm happy being single though.
@chmelissa (10)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
wow! That was a sad story. I felt sorry for the guy. When I was 14 years old, I had my first boyfriend that was when I was second year high school. But that only last about two weeks, but i felt so sad that time. And another relationship follows after one another. And now that I'm a college student, I realized that the relationships I had before wasn't real. Its all childhood love. After 5 years, What I had now is my first long time boyfriend, not to mention the year we are together now, I was indeed happy. I guess, and I wanna believe that he was my First real romance. All I am wishing is for us to stay stronger and never be apart just like you and your first love had been. I'm sorry!
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
10 Aug 10
I wouldn't consider my childish crushes my first love yet. The very first "love" i really had was when I was in college already. He was a suitor but for some reason it didn't reach that point where I said "yes" to him.
But you are right about that "giggly" feel to it!
Until now I still feel happy when I hear about him, or when he drops a comment on my facebook wall.
Now we are both happy leading separate loves. He is now happily married and has one cute little baby girl. He's working abroad now.
@nancy0618 (477)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
i never got to experience it, i started having boyfriend when i was already in college, it is an experience that i will not forget as he is my first boyfriend :), well we still see each other though but only as friends, we now have our own lives
@juliusports (274)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
Yes I agree, My first love experience was unforgettable and worth remembering. That giggling kind of feeling was the magical side of the experience.
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
I had my first boyfriend when I was in high school, at my senior year to be exact. He was my crush when we were still on our freshman year, so I had to say no to him when he first courted me on our junior year (I was worried that he might just learned about my crush on him so I had to make it sure he passed a very difficult time courting, hehehe ) but since he was so persistent, he became my bf. He was sweet, thoughtful and very patient then. but since we were still young then, and fate really destined us to be together forever, we separated and have our own lives now. Well, in your case, it was sad for him that he haven't found his other half. But you shouldn't feel too bad about it because it was his prerogative that he doesn't marry. All you can do now for him is wish him the best, and be thankful you became part of each others lives...
@Turingskie (387)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
We have the same experience during high school..how sad not be with your first love at all.honestly i do missed her a lot
@anncherry (406)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
aw... I fell in love for the first in high school, too, though we pretty much have the opposite situation. Now, I see my first love's picture on FB with his baby, while I'm still here single. To tell you the truth, it gave me a shock!
But I'm satisfied to know that we both regret letting go of what "could have been" back then (found that out when we chatted out of the blue before he got married). I wonder, would he have chosen me over his girlfriend then if I opened up a chance? But then, I know I wouldn't have been happy to be even the least bit part of breaking a relationship. :(