Do you celebrate the holiday at Christmas if you are not a Christian?
@owlwings (43910)
Cambridge, England
November 18, 2006 5:49am CST
If you live in a country where December 25th and 26th are public holidays but you are not a Christian, how do you celebrate the winter holiday?
If you are a Christian and celebrate Christmas, how do you celebrate if you are in a country where it is not a public holiday?
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@nancygibson (3736)
• France
18 Nov 06
As a pagan I celebrate Yule around the 21st or 22nd of December rather than Christmas, but the 25th/26th is also a special day because that is when we can see the days have started to turn towards being brighter. So we do celebrate a secular xmas but for sligtly different reasons than my Christian friends do.
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
22 Dec 07
'God Jule' to you. Yes, there are different reasons for celebrating, but let us all celebrate together, whatever meaning we may put on the season!
If I wish you a Happy Christmas, please translate it as 'My warmest wishes for Yule' (even British Christians know about the Yule Log - many even remember how it should be kept burning from one year to the next!)
Blessings!
@estherlou (5015)
• United States
4 Mar 07
Wow...this discussion just proves how differently people view Christmas as a whole. For many, it is a winter holiday, with presents, christmas trees, celebrations of giving and receiving and festivities and parties galore. For others, it is the celebration and remembrance of the birth of Jesus Christ and the chance to thank God for the gift of His Son.
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
22 Dec 07
Jesus said "I am the Light of the World". What more natural, then, than to celebrate the 'return of the Light (Son/Sun)' at this time. Hannukah and Diwali are also Festivals of the Renewing of Light and happen at about this time. Amongst Muslims about this time is the end of Ramadan and called Eid ul-Fitr (Festivity for the End of the Fast). It is a time of remembering the family and the extended family, the poor, just as Christians tend to do at Christmas, wishing peace and goodwill to all mankind.
Be assured that whatever you do in your culture, there are others in parallel cultures doing very similar things. I would like to believe that one day we shall all celebrate together, rather than saying "No Christmas Trees - they may offend; No Menorah ... it may offend; You must wish people 'Happy Holidays' or you may offend"!!!!!
@rani468684 (327)
• India
18 Nov 06
The best part of a country like India is that over here all the festivals r celebrated with gr8 love and affection.It really dosent matter whether u r a christian or not.We have friends of all castes and religion and so if ur friend wanna enjoy, u will definately b a part of his enjoyment.This is what makes me feel proud of being an Indian.
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
18 Nov 06
It seems to me that the Indian culture is generally very friendly and tolerant of all religions. That is wonderful!
@xParanoiax (6987)
• United States
11 Dec 07
It's a big holiday here in America, but it's not so much a christian holiday..as its a holiday that christians originally started but now everyone pretty much enjoys.
I'm not christian. My Dad is, and my family always has celebrated it...and I'm fond of it, so I celebrate it.
With a tree, lights, snowmen, cookies, presents, and feasting.
The more meaningful stuff is usually saved for my religion's holiday heh.
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@nglanfield (559)
• Turkey
24 Feb 07
I live in Turkey - which as you all know is a Muslim country - so no christmas holidays here. My husband goes to work as normal and we have a small christmas dinner & presents in the evening, as it is work as normal the next day. However new year is a big celebration here so everyone gets together then.
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
22 Dec 07
I think that (in the UK) not many think of Turkey as a Muslim country - more a secular state which is, incidentally, predominately Muslim (just as Britain or America are predominantly Christian).
I wish you blessings for Eid ul-Fitr and love and success in the New Year.
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
22 Dec 07
I was raised Christian and so were my other family members. Some are still Christians, some incorporated Christianity into a more general or other religion, etc. So we still get together and to the presents and candy/meal.
I like the way my Doctor and Fiance celebrate, their families get together and play games like Trivial Pursuit, Pictionary, etc. The season is more about togetherness than anything else. Winters are long and hard up here, so visiting and making them less hard is cool. Interesting discussion, after work, I'll have to come back and read the various ways people do things.
For the Solstice, I like to pray and meditate. Take care
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
22 Dec 07
I beg you take care, yourself, from where ever it is offered.
I think that the strength of the Christmas celebration must have come mostly from the countries which are dark at this time. It has to be a celebration of the return of Light - which is why the Christian celebration is set after the solstice. Whether or not one uses the Sun/Son alliteration/allusion is not important.
The season has certainly come to mean a regathering of family and friends, whether or not we regard and rejoice in the passing of winter or in the supposed birth of Christ - the Light of the World - at this time. I think that it is an important time for togetherness and a sharing of what others feel about this season - and about us in general.
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
23 Nov 06
Thank you. It is good to respect, to try to understand and to honour other people's beliefs, even if they are not your own. Your statement doesn't make it clear whether you are Christian or not but I didn't ask that.
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
23 Nov 06
It is especially a family holiday for many people today. That is not a bad thing but it's a shame that it doesn't mean more to some people - I don't necessarily mean in a Christian way because not everyone is Christian.
@Phlamingho (7824)
• Denmark
18 Nov 06
I live in a christian country so I celebrate christmas with my family. I'm not big on tradiotions and holidays though so if I were in a non-christian country during the holidays I wouldn't really mind it, wouldn't celebrate.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
23 Nov 06
I think that, whatever religion (or none) one subscribes to, it's important to have a 'festival' which honours and celebrates the family.
@caraj444 (1075)
• Canada
24 Feb 07
we are in canada and consider ourselves christians but we dont attend church here, we celebrate christmas by spending it with all of our family, it usually takes between the two days to get to see all of the family but the kids love all the excitement and getting to visit with everyone. I have always loved christmas, it just seems to bring people together and as long as your not in a shopping mall then people are in a better mood generally and more generous and kind with each other. Anyways its definetly a special time of year for me and my family and its always great to see how exited the kids get as christmas gets closer
@niranjans87 (1077)
• India
18 Nov 06
Well I am a Hindu and I still celebrate christmas...maybe not exactly like you do...But christmas has grown to become a festive season rather than just a christian festival....and also I have lot of christian friends....so....
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
18 Nov 06
I think that one can celebrate the 'spirit' of Christmas, which is a rejoicing at the birth of a new year and a time when one gives gifts and remembers friends and family, whatever religion one adheres to.
Do you not have Diwali at about the same time of the year?
@protectiva (687)
• United States
18 Nov 06
I celebrate Christmas, as my family is somewhat Christian, not very devoted or churchgoing, but if you ask them, they will say they believe in Jesus and all that jazz.
When we get together, though, we don't really mention the Christian overtones of Christmas, we usually just eat and talk and drink and smoke and laugh and open presents and be silly.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
19 Nov 06
I think that is the way most people celebrate Christmas. It's one of the best times to be with family.