Just needing an ear to listen
@lindaharding627 (1442)
United States
November 18, 2010 12:09am CST
It has been an awfully long week. A tragic accident claimed the life of my aunt this week. She was 69 years young. I say young not old because my aunt was developmentally delayed but she touched many people's lives. She always had a smile on her face and always asked how you were doing when she saw you then she listened for your answer. In many ways she was childlike. She loved her job working as a cleaning lady at Goodwill. She kept active with the Special Olympics bowling team. Overall, she was just a very special person and I am going to miss her so much. I have a long history with this aunt and many memories. Tomorrow is calling hours and I am carpooling with my younger sister. It is going to be a very hard day. My aunt led a very full life. She had recently gone blind but continued to be active still working and doing Special Olympics. Everyone is shocked because other than her vision, she was doing wonderfully. Unfortunately, she fell and struck her temple on a coffee table then bled to death and there was nothing anybody could have done to save her. They discovered a brain bleed at the hospital and did not have the right physicians to treat it there so they were arranging care at another facility when she passed away. It just goes to show that we must all embrace life and never take anyone we love for granted. My aunt's favorite time of the year was Christmas so it will feel different this year without her being there. It is never easy to lose someone that you love.
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@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
My condolences to you and your family. Losing family is always hard. Especially one who is like your aunt - a person full of life and one who has maintained her youthfulness. But, she could live on, if you wish to, through you remembering her in the smallest things, during occasions, through the people she worked, talked, basically interacted with before. It is especially hard during Christmas, but, it would be best to remember and cherish her life than her passing. Again, my condolences.
@lindaharding627 (1442)
• United States
18 Nov 10
The family set it up so donations go to Special Olympics in this community. That makes it even more special as I worked with many of the athletes when I worked in group homes and will know that the donations are touching lives.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
18 Nov 10
You are most definitely right that it is never easy to lose someone that you love. And I want you to know how sorry I am for your loss and for everyone else whose life your aunt touched as well. She sounds like she was a wonderful woman and the kind of person that I would have loved to have had the opportunity to have met.
I hope that you are able to reminisce about her and remember her with fondness through this upcoming holiday season. That is the only thing that I can think of that might make it a little easier.
@lindaharding627 (1442)
• United States
18 Nov 10
I watched a video on youtube that talked about that. It was called "My first Christmas in Heaven." I will try to see it that way as we celebrate the holiday season.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
19 Nov 10
i'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your aunt... it must be really hard for you at this moment and i can understand how you feel... losing someone that you love and very close to you is never easy... especially during this time when christmas is just around the corner... i hope that God will give you and your family the strength to go over this grieving period and also His abundance blessings for your family to move on with life... take care and have a nice day...
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
27 Nov 10
Linda,I am so so sorry to hear about your Aunt's accident and your loss! she sounds like an amazing person and one that will be sorely missed by many. It is so true that we have to embrace life and those that we love every minute of every day.Our whole world can change in a matter of seconds. You just never know. {{{{HUGS}}}}
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
Anything precious will be loved especially when it's gone. I'm sure your aunt had a blast living her life. It's time you enjoy yours too but keeping her in your heart and add her to your inspiration. I'm so sorry for your loss. Have a nice day.
@lindaharding627 (1442)
• United States
18 Nov 10
Yes my aunt has been an inspiration to many. She was a very special lady and will always be in my heart.
@ganeshprabhuk (1722)
• India
18 Nov 10
After some time in our life we need someone to listen to us respond to our feelings & hear our words than anything in our life we need a person to love us to hear us & feel our troubles in life we always need a companion no one can lead life alone.
@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
18 Nov 10
I'm sorry to hear such loss. My condolences...
It is never easy to lose someone whom we have loved so much especially when that person had showed and bestowed us love as well...
Just bear in your mind and heart the good memories you had with her and do not wallow in pain of losing her. One day, we will be reunited with all our love ones. Take comfort in that...
God bless you... Be strong, dear...
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
18 Nov 10
My sincerest sympathy for the loss of your what sounded like a very sweet lady. Accidental deaths tend to be a bit more painful to deal with for me. Please keep her memory alive, this Christmas everyone get together as usual as your Aunt would want the family bonding to continue.
Please speak of her wonderful happy days, all will chuckle and cry but this will continue her memory alive. Keeping her memory alive will show much more love for her. Please be well and I am truly sorry for your loss.
@camposkat (306)
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18 Nov 10
I'm so sorry for your loss linda. Wishing you and your family my deepest sympathy.