Long distance relationship.... will it work?

why did she say that would be hard to catch her when he goes there? thats too cute of your friend to do that for her and she shouldnt answer that way. your friend should be direct with her and ask her if she wants to be his gf when he goes back to malaysia for her. if she says yes then is secure your friend to go there but he needs to know her feelings for sure before he gets too too much in love and sacrifice himself and then get hurt. he needs to know how she feels towards him. he can ask her if she wants be his gf when he goes to malaysia that way he will know if she loves him or not^^ wish the best to your friend he is very cute and romantic and sweet

That sounds like a really sweet story. I hope the girl lets him catch her. I am rooting for this guy who seems to be so romantic.

Personally, I do think that things can work out for the best, even in long distance relationships. It is probably more difficult than in a normal relationship, in a non long distance relationship, but I still think that in some case things can work out, one way or another.

Hi, In the first place, has your friend and that girl started a relationship? Or it is just a promise in mouth only? Long distance relationship is not easy,because both parties are not meeting each other for a long period of time and they can only catch up with each other via phone or chatting online. Since the girl has not mentioned that 'she likes your friend',it means she is not confirmed on her own feeling yet. Therefore, your friend can take this one year time to really consider whether is she the right girl for her.Just be a good friend with that girl and try to know each other better in this period of time. If she is really belong to your friend,...sure they can be together one day. It is a fate.

There would be many explanations, well depends on how you look at it why didn't she respond back when your friend told her would come back to catch her. a. She's playing hard to get b. She's uncertain if he really should returns back, so as afraid to commit and be hurt there after. c. No feelings at all. She's just flattered to know someone really loves her. As for your friend, that's for him to find out but if he's damn serious take the risk. Go back to her after a year to present himself as an evidence of his genuine feelings for her.

HI xxj3ffxx, For me just tell your friend that don't expect too much to the girl because there is no assurance of that thing, even the girl did not respond if she likes your friend, so no assurance at all for her feeling with the guy. It might cause heartbreak to your friend someday. But for me I do believe in long distance relationship because in reality, me and my partner has been away for two years and half because his working in other country and the relationship remain stronger as ever, It depends to the people involved if they want that relationship to remain intact and the trust and love is still there.

i think it will be hard... i had experienced long distance relationship before and it doesn't really work... especially listening from the girl's response that says he won't be easy to catch her... so i think your friend should not put high expectations on this girl as i'm afraid he will be disappointed in the future... this is only my opinion though... take care and have a nice day...

Good Evening dear Mylloter friend xxj3ffxx , well i will tell you a real story that happened to me a few years back ago , i am actually now living in Belgium for only five years now , and before coming to belgium i used to live in Roumania , and before coming here i was involved in a two years wonderfull relationship , and before i'd leave and before i've decided to leave , i had a discussion with my ex-girlfriend , and i had asked her if she thinks that she is capable to wait six months for me and if after those six months had ppassed if she would be wanting to moove in with me in Belgium , she had instantly said that i am the love of her life and she would do anything to be togheter with me , so i left with only one single goal , work and save up money for a small apartment to rent and save money for having when she will come , i had made dreams to make a familly with her , i used to talked to her on messenger every night , i never get out to pubs or go to eat at a restaurant ,or buy new clothes or anything , all of it because i imagined i am saving all of this , so i am able to do those thingz when she will be with me , well actually only after two months , i had found out , from my cousins elder step brother , that my girlfriend had been passing for two weeks , every night in my cousins house and room , and that the latest morning , he entered the shower to go to toilet and found both of them naked under the shower. It had shocked me and mooved me soo bad , that for two years i wasn't capable to be in a relationship , or trust another girl , as it goes for my cousin , i am still not talking to him even now . My friend Long Distance relationships are verry hard to make it succeed , but if you find the right person , it should not be imposibile to make it work. Have a great evening dear friend. Florin , over and out

When you love someone so truly and deeply, you shouldn't be expecting anything in return, that's what I used to believe in. But still it would be a happy ending if such love is reciprocated. If I were you I would tell my friend that if you truly love her, you will be willing to take the risk. It's not a waste of time to wait and get rejected. If she's not meant for you then just accept it, at least you did your best. Because what if you didn't wait and in the end she actually loves you, then you would regret. Yes, that's what I would tell my friend.

YES it will actually work even if one of them is the other country which thousands of miles away. The only factor you have to maintain by both of you is the TRUST. If this factor is broken, then your relationship will just disappear like a clouds.

if you love someone.. i min, really really love.. it doesn't matter where you are.. for as long as you love each other, long distance is nothing..

it will work. that's the kind of relationship i am into. only that each of them should trust each other since trust is the strongest and biggest foundation in any relationship. distant doesn't matter, anyway we have advanced technology nowadays compared before. we could just simply write a letter to our love ones nowadays, or give them call with the use of technology and the modern gadgets that we have now. internet is the best example, they could still see each other through cam and even hear their voices.. hope this helps!