When can you say that the love has died?

Philippines
December 12, 2010 9:37am CST
If: - you always argue with your partner - he's far but you don't miss him - you don't like talking to him or talking to him frustrates/irritates you... Can you say that you don't love your partner anymore? If you feel these things for him/her, would you consider ending the relationship/marriage or would you exert more effort and time to rekindle the love and passion?
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buggles64
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
12 Dec 10
Sounds like the passion has left the relationship. I would end it now, instead of wasting my life being miserable with someone that didn't care/love me.
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bernjane
@bernjane (143)
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
Maybe he is not there by your side that is why you felt so strange. When you see that person back, all the love you felt goes back trust me. I had been in your situation which i actually i falling out of love but i am wrong.
zapatee
@zapatee (477)
• Philippines
12 Dec 10
if the relationship already feels more burdensome to both of you rather than exciting, fun, and hopeful, then the love must be gone. if even petty things become a source of lingering and useless quarrels; if the disagreements are becoming more frequent and expected; if you both feel the relationship is getting dreary and miserable; and most importantly, if you both feel that you can not afford to stay together in this kind of relationship for the rest of your lives, then i believe it must end. sad but true, the love must have found its way out the door.