Hello i have a smaal issue
By yoniarnon
@yoniarnon (1079)
Israel
December 20, 2010 1:24pm CST
Hi there, i am feeling sick today, doln't know why, my all body heart and i have sometimes Headaches.. I still living at home so my momy can help me a bit, but what i realy want is my girl fried help, i sure that if she will jump by i will feel much better...
But the problem is that she is very busy lady and i am afraid that if she will come she will be sick to..
So i don't know what to do.. She told me she want to come visit me but i told her not to..
8 responses
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Dec 10
hi yoniarnon sure your girl can minister to you then she will get thne flu too.YOu have a headache and ache all over classics symptoms of the flu' and flu is contagious. Stay away from her, drink tons of water, let mommyh feed you chicken soup and every four hours or so take some
alleve or advil for the aching. I bet you did not get your flu shot.
I get one every year so never had the flu.Just talk to your girl on
cell phone.
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@GardenGerty (160949)
• United States
20 Dec 10
It is a kinder and more loving thing to do not to expose her to your illness. Talk to her on the phone or e mail her. Drink lots of liquids and get some good bed rest.
@yoniarnon (1079)
• Israel
20 Dec 10
Thanks for the info, this is what i did i talk to her by phone and drink alot of tea, resting in bed is problem when you drinking alot of tea and need to pee every 5 minutes :)
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Dec 10
oh and be sure to take some advil or tylenol for the aching.I have been there and done that. lol.
@ladynetz (968)
• Canada
21 Dec 10
Very considerate of you to tell her to stay away from you while you're sick. Not many men can do this. I can see you need her attention and you need her close to you, but behaving as you are now, you will keep her around much longer, maybe for ever. Knowing when to give space to the other and not being selfish it's super! Let your mom take care of you, she's the best for you right now.If you're positive, drink lots of fluids and take vitamins, and of course rest , you'll get better in no time and you two can be together no problem.
You still have the IM and the phone, Skype will let you talk to her. Technology nowadays makes wonders keeping people together.
Get well soon!
@yoniarnon (1079)
• Israel
21 Dec 10
Thank you very much, i hope it is true what you say
I just wanna thank to all of you for the support now i am feeling much better and i don't sick any more, it was probably a one day strong Virus.
And some hours ago, since i feel great, my girl jump for an hour to say hello
So every thing is back to normal, and again thanks for all the helpers
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
21 Dec 10
I have read all the other responses and find them all very valid, so I want to add simply get plenty of rest as there will be plenty of time to be with her when you are well.
Getting her exposed would mean she too can get sick making yet more time away from each other, so I hope you feel better my friend as I too was sick for a good 10 days and although I am not completely well from the flu each day I feel better as I am getting plenty of rest.
I would also suggest that you begin taking Vitamin C, especially during the winter. Please be well.
@yoniarnon (1079)
• Israel
21 Dec 10
Thanks for the info H.W.G about Vitamin C it is a great idea bout i don't believe in pills, i believe in nature so i drink tea with lemon, and i drink fresh Orange juice..
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
20 Dec 10
Hello friend, i would suggest you, before your girlfriend comes, eat some hot chicken soup, drink some vitamins pills, may be fresh fruits juice, some vegetables, tea or like that. That will make you feel better with your sickness and your girl will be able to visit you without worries. I'm just wondering, why don't you see her online? Chat with her, instead of real meeting, that's how you will protect her from what you are sick now ...
@yoniarnon (1079)
• Israel
20 Dec 10
Thanks for the edvises Suggar, i ate spoup i am driniking alot of tea, but online conactions ain't good enouth..
I need to see her, feel her, and she will take care of me, you know like make tea and stuff..
@ujahrmann (43)
• Austria
21 Dec 10
Hi Yoniarnon,
OK, I know how you feel. I would suggest if you really need her so urgently, let her come to you. Just be a little careful what you do, so avoid too much body contact. I know that too, it feels really painful if you are so much in love with your girlfriend. Once, I also was very sick and had temperature, and my girlfriend was by me nevertheless although she had a bad immune system. And she stayed healthy. So if you really miss her so much, let her come to you, but be careful. I think she will also miss you, and in fact, you needn't just have body contact. You can see her, hear her voice, feel her, you know she is here and wants to care for you. Believe me, this is a great feeling I have already experienced.
@whateva (786)
• India
21 Dec 10
hey! ^^ get well soon!
what i'd really want you to know is, only you can help yourself. if you want to be by her side.. eat healthy , get some good rest, enjoy yourself and in no time you'll see her.
i hope you dont think too much cous it does no good. please work a good routine for yourself ^^ it should improve evrything.
@vinayraturi23 (34)
• India
21 Dec 10
Well if you are really looking for your girlfriend help than you must let her in. May be here absence is what making you more sick. You are thinking too much about your girlfriend. Try to take some rest and call foryour girlfriend. Hope her presence will give you peace in your heart and mind and you will definitely feel much better.