how to bring back the real me?

Try to move on with the past relationship and experience. Pray and ask for guidance to God that you will continue to live your life. You life will not end after your relationship with your bf ends. Stay happy, i know you can do it. Seek help with your friends and family. God Bless you and Good day :)

Sometimes we have to kdig deep to find the real me that we think we have lost along the way. Gong back to places and times of childhood can help the real me to resurface once again.

I know it's hard for you to go back to your real character. I think time plays important factor on how are you going to do it. Also, you will need to have your willingness to throw your bad character and to go back to the way you used to be. Over the time, attitudes and bad memories will slowly fade away. You will try not to think about your past otherwise you won't be able to go forward. What's past is already a past, you cannot go back anymore. Try to forget the bad things you done and what your family want to see is a change of character in you. I am now also in the process of changing my character and attitude because they play big part in my life. One of my new year resolutions would be to change my attitude and character (although it won't be easy but it is still possible). Hope it helps for you.

You have all the answers to your questions. The only thing that is lacking is your determination to move on. There is no use in wallowing to such sadness. It will not bring your bf back nor it will change what had happened. Don't waste your life. You are still young and for sure you'll meet other guys in the future. So, help yourself.Let go... move on... don't shut the people who loves you out of your life....

You must come out of that pain by rejuvenating yourself through meditation and self help exercises.You must not avoid people because then you will lose respect in everyones eyes.You must keep your spirits high and try to forget your boyfriend soon so that your present is not spoiled.Read motivational books,listen to motivational songs and keep yourself as happy as you can so that no one gets a chance to break your heart again.Your lif eis very precious and should not be ruined for anyone.

Give yourself some time..don't push yourself to bring back to the old you when you're not yet ready to do so. That kind of situation is tough especially if you really love the person. Sacrificing your love for family is such a painful experience..

hi, I felt the same way before, there are times that I really want to cry,its so hard to move on if you really love him, you know what, only time could erase that pain you feel inside.Just try to do some things that makes you happy, and try not to think of him,ignore everything that could make you remember him. Being hurt is the risk of loving, its normal, we should face it.

It takes time to get over a relationship, don't spend too much time alone or your thoughts will turn against you. Get out and do something with your family, they are all you really have in the end. The sun will shine again, just make sure you are out in the daytime to see it and feel it.

I was like that before and I know what you feel right now. That is too much pain inside and really hard to concentrate while working or anything we do. Only you can help you. No one but try to go back to yourself happily. Don't go to places were you had a memory with him that always remind you of him. You know time will come and you will be happy. To share with you at this moment i also don't know how to recover from many problems in life. Everything happen to me now is not a joke. And this could be my burden now. But i know everything will be okay.. Trusting to God is the best now. Try be alive again friend...wake up and move on.

Real? Fake? Pretend? There all the same. I stay in my room, because my Mom talks a lot about people on her facebook that I don't know and people she has neve even met. My attitude is...I can do all things, whether they want to believe it or not...I do. I hate it when people think they know what they're talking about and they don't. You don't know and won't know until you walk in my shoes. And, I am only rugged, because my clothes don't fit...because of stress weight gain, and I have to wear sloppy sweat clothes..:)

Hi there. I know it's very hard to move on after something painful has happened. However, this is one of the facts in life that will always remain constant. There will always be pain. And we have to deal with it. And live with it. Life is an ongoing battle. You have to fight to survive. Learn from the mistakes, become numb with the pain, and wiser in years time. You cannot bring back the real you, because what will emerge is a better and stronger you. :)

Time is certainly a factor here, however you have to find a way to keep busy and find some interests. Staying in your room and not interacting with others is not a good thing to do. I know that it is much safer and easier to do so, but it is not mentally healthy as you will be consuming your self. Go ahead and release all the tears you need to, then get angry..Once you release all of this begin slowly. Start by taking a few walks sometimes, interact with friends and or go to the park and or library.. Anything asliah that will keep you busy. I so wish you well.

Asliah, It is really a big issue in our live. the same situation i had faced before 8 years back in 2002 when I was just 20 years. It is really difficult, but not impossible. In this case your family has a more responsibility than you. As you are separated because of your father, then he should give you some motivation. Always keep you busy in doing anything. Meet your friends. Always try to be in a group and discuss anything non related to love. Please do not be alone at this time.

Oh!! I am really sorry to hear that. Now see...relationships are such thing which we dont want to loose..but unfortunately sometimes in life we have to fight for the same. So I will suggest spend you quality time with your whole family and try to do such thing which will make you happy. And most of all...I think time is the best healer. So give time to it..You will slowly recover from it.

There is something strange with me. Whenever I hear a music that I used to listen during my grade school, it makes me become feel that I'm back. It is like I became a grade school again. And the thin is, as I hear the music, I wanting to go deeper into my past and it makes me think I'm a child again. I bet this won't help you much. I' just sharing my experience.

hi, i am going through the same thing right now and its hard. i was with him since april of this year, i no its not long but it still has broken my heart for me he was everything and i would have done anything changed anything for him. what ifeel for him i have never for anyone else. i ended it oct of this year cos he didnt want the same things has me cos he had been leading me on. but only a few weeks ago i stopped him from still coming round to mine every day. then last week i stopped answering his calls. the last few months have been so hard and like you i dont feel like myself stay in all the time. but i dont want to feel like this anymore. i dont think i will ever get over him but i am going to try hard in the new year to just move on try and make new friends and find the right kind of guy to be with! so you just need to get in touch with some old friends or make some new ones. i wouldnt say go out and find someone new to be with but heal 1st with friends.

Things like these take time depending on the person, relationships are somthing you dont want to lose but if you really keep going on the way you are now you will still have the wound of your boyfriend and you will lose the relationship with your family to. the best thing you should do is try to not think about him and just move on and hang with friends just go do somthing that will make you happy.