falling in love with a man already had wife?

@asliah (11137)
Philippines
December 29, 2010 10:19pm CST
is it wrong to falling in love with a man already had wife? but they are not yet married and the girl is pregnant, do you think its a sin?
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14 responses
@slothgurl (569)
• Enumclaw, Washington
30 Dec 10
I believe you have already answered your own question.
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Dec 10
I agree 100% with slothgurl
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
6 Jan 11
You said the word wife but they are not yet married..how can that be? If they are not yet married so the wife is not the wife yet. I think it's not a sin to be inlove with an unmarried man. But if that man has another that girl pregnant without the legality of marriage i think that will be a problem. Being in love is not a sin but make sure you don't hurt or step on anybody's toes before you really fall for that guy.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
You know when we talk about love we are getting a long way and no ending because love is universal. To answer about your question if it is a sin well yes because the guy is already committed to pregnant woman. They are not yet marriage.. we are talking about the legality if it is legally married well sins occurs but if not yer i think no. But the conscience talked within. Really love was so hard to define. ANyway be happy coz now is Happy New Year to you!
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
30 Dec 10
Too bad to hear about it. This is considered as triangle love. To love an unmarried man with pregnant girlfriend will be very unwise to do so. I just worry this man is not reliable because you might be his pregnant girlfriend someday.
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
1 Jan 11
Would you care to be with a man who already has responsibility with other woman? Can you take the chance knowing the child will suffer if you go on with the relationship? I don't think so asliah! I guess love is more loving if we don't have someone get hurt by pursuing it. Just think of the child's sake,I'm sure the love for that man will vanished. See you around!
@Sissi321 (130)
• China
31 Dec 10
it is wrong...
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
Who would have said that it is right to fall for someone who is already committed to someone irrespective of his status? In a MORAL point of view, whether a man or a guy who is attached or committed with another, married or not is wrong to fall in love with. A love relationship should be between 2 opposite sexes - a man and a woman. A third party is not included. Hence, if you are the third party, why would you dwell into a relationship of another? Falling in love with a man who is already committed to someone else makes your would-be relationship to be complicated. Another, that man would have a future baby with that someone. Can your conscience take that baby's chance of growing without a family? Of course, the man as his father would remain, but a family is missing when that baby grows up seeing his father and mother who have separate lives or relationship. Regardless of their being unmarried, would not make your relationship to be right. In a LIBERAL point of view. If you love a person, nothing is right or wrong. Whether moral or immoral, when the heart is triggered, even the mind is controlled. Love justifies everything even if it is improper or inappropriate. If the heart falls for a man who is already committed, even how much risk to take or hurting it can be and you become stupid, no one can break that love. Final note. I have laid down the two sides my friend, now it is up to you to decide which side you take.
• United States
30 Dec 10
Its not wrong to fall in love with somebody but if they are not able to love you back then its probably not a good idea to pursue them. Its not a sin but it will be if you break up their marriage just to satisfy your need to have him, they obviously have a history because they are having a baby. You would be in the way or the other woman, that is considered second best, you don't want that do you?
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
30 Dec 10
I have an opinion, but I'll leave the judgment to God. We don't have all the facts. Are the man and wife going through a divorce? Has the man moved out of the house? Was the wife unfaithful, causing the man to file for a divorce?
• Amman, Jordan
30 Dec 10
Always people look for the things in other hand. this is not good for you. may he will love another woman and leave you
@llbo1981 (1237)
• China
30 Dec 10
I think that it is sin to the girl who is pregnant.You should not falling love with a man already had wife.It is totally wrong to do the action.You will go to the wrong direction.
• United States
30 Dec 10
I will not comment on the sinful portion of your discussion as what is wrong for me may not be appealing to others. However any married man dating outside of his marriage is so wrong and any woman who thinks the man is going to leave his wife is even more wrong. As in the long wrong he may leave his wife but what makes the women think he will remain faithful specifically to her, as he was not with his wife. Not only this but how can a single woman truly enjoy and commit to a man who has commitments with his wife and possibly family. Is it wrong yes in my opinion for the obvious reasons I stated above.
@calpro (930)
• India
30 Dec 10
Hi asliah, We will keep aside the sin part for few minutes and talk. First of all she is not only ruining her life and also doing the same of the couple too. The girl who fell in love with married man has to think before falling in love that why should she share his man. If she thinks in the above way she will never fall in love with a married man and what I understood from your statement is that the girl who love the married man is pregnant. Is this all required for a girl, all the mental agony for all the three in the triangle. Even a young teenager says why should she go for married man when there are many youngsters looking for love. Coming to sin part paining others is sin, I think she has done it by paining the wife. So better not to pain anybody. Happy Living and Happy New Year 2011 Calpro
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
It is.Because someone will get hurt.