Moving on and Letting go of someone whom you really love...

its really hard to let and move on when you loss someone you really love and been part of your life. but i guess, the thing that could help you starts within you and to accept that he can no longer be with you. be thankful of the years you had with him and be positive that it happened for a purpose, that the One up Above has planned for you and working for a brighter future for you. though, its really hard at the beginning but soon youll also be learning that you can live your life and can still be happy. i can feel your longings, because i have lost my father when i was seven and i miss him so much. sometimes i feel jealous for those who have their father. but with your part, my mother had more longings but she prove to herself that she can take good care of us even we have lost my father. and we can live happy and making my dad as our inspiration in every little thing we do in our life. :)

hi, moving on and letting go of someone we loved is very hard, especially if you really never see this person again, you can let him go,just accept it but you cant move on as fast as you want.

my deepest condolences to you... i'm so sorry to hear that you have to lose your hubby at such a young age and i can imagine how hurt you must be feeling inside... i hope God will give you the strength and comfort that you will need to pass through this difficult time... please do not give up hope as you are still very young and there are many good things will await you in the future as long as you persevere... there is always a rainbow after the rain... i believe good things will happen to you after this incident... cheer up, be strong and keep smiling... take care and have a nice day...

My deepest condolences to you. I know what it is like to lose someone that you are really close to and love. It really is a healing process and it will take some time to fully recover. It was really nice for me because I have many close relatives and friends to communicate my feelings with. And they are always willing to talk to me and make me feel better. I find it really is nice to have something to keep my mind occupied. But over time you will heal and get better.

Its hard to move on when you situation still fresh in our thoughts,I have the same feeling as you had right now, but its not about a husband, its all about my father who just passed away few months ago.I really can't explain how hard to move on and letting go of his memory. You may not forget about the person but hope you can try to think of yourelf,your husband will be more happy wherever he is if you try to move on yourself.He wants you to be happy and let go of the sadness.It takes time but soon will be over, although there are times you his memory still linger on you.But thats normal, go on with your life.Take it easy and hope you can cope up with it.. Have a nice day and Take care!!

I feel sorry for you but I know me feeling sorry will not do any help. You're still so young. I think the best you can do is take a deep breath and think that your husband has gone to a peaceful place and he is waiting for you in time. Maybe you should not think that he is really gone. I believe that if a person is really special and is always remembered, he is never really gone. Just think of the days that you were happily together. Be happy because that's what he wants you to be... I'll pray for you...

Good Day! I don't like to be in that situation but all of us will experience that. Well, its really hard to forget someone especially in your case because he passed away. My advise is you just have to accept the fact that he's gone. Its just a matter of acceptance. Just think that he would not be happy if he would see you crying. Be strong. :) You'll get over it.

Hi, I am very very sorry for your loss. Though 'Sorry' seems to be very inadequate. I am sure none of us who has not experienced what you have really understand. There is nothing like time to heal wounds. I have seen my aunties who have lost their husbands. It seemed like they were never going to get better, or forget about them. As time wore on, you experience new things and meet friends and the wounds heal themselves. Give it time. You will get there.