why heart could still love even if it always hurt?

It's simply because our heart doesn't have the ability to think. It's our minds that dictates us on what we do and how we react to how we feel. Our hearts is not intended to get hurt, but it's there to beat for the person our minds love.

You know love should not be stop even if we are experience pain in the end. Love should be always in our side because it will make us complete when we find the right person...

This is the way it is with affairs of the heart. We fall for someone and then realize that they turn cold and don't want us any mnore. There is no pain quite like and it goes very deep. But life is about moving on, and as hard as it is, the sooner we can do this the better, but we cannot rush our emotions. It has happened a few times to me in my youth, but I got to say that I wouldn't have had it any different, including all the pain, because it has supported me in becoming who I am today. _Derek

Like most things in life the heart mends and revitalized it need for love. We cannot set forth thinking it is going to try as then we are not allowing our hearts the chance to love. We must always allow and give the opportunity for the probability of healthful love.

maybe it hurts only when the love is not returned cause when it is, doesn't hurt at all, it's wonderful or maybe we think we are but the person is not yet the right person and the right one heals the pain

Life is full of Love.. we can express the love.. we can feel the love.. we can taste the love.. we can trust the love. we can love the love .... etc.. Love is not having end but it will have some bends so u want to be carreful... Anyway a Love heart will sure feel as u and me....

excellent post asliah... and excellent questions as well... humans are mysterious creatures, aren't we??? i can't answer your questions but that is who we are... we act based on our instincts and love is a very personal and subjective matter as well... it is a different experience for different people... not every person can love again after being hurt and love is definitely not affiliate to hurt as we can see many people who are enjoying beautiful love as well... take care and have a nice day...

The heart is something that will never be fully understood. Even when we know that heartbreak may come and we will be hurt, we still can find the courage to give and receive love.

Heart is separate entity into our system. There is no way that we could lock to stop it from loving again and again. No matter how hard we try to set our mind not to love again, in the end it's solely the heart who will decide.

i have that feeling to and i cant really explain why i keep on loving him despite that i have been hurt several times,, the mind should be over the heart, so that we can stop when it's really hurting is more and more

you love because you have a lot of love to give. you hurt because the one you love cannot reciprocate the love that you are giving. Hurting is a part of loving. Because if you love someone you get hurt when they hurt, you cry when they cry. do not fight love. because love will always find you in the end. Let go, let God and let love.

the heart easily becomes congested if one dont release its fire. Its in the hearts nature to produce feelings. Then if the feelings is good or bad deppends on the understandings.

I guess it's because the heart doesn't thrive from one love alone, I think? Regardless of how many people hurt you, there are still some other things that make your heart go on, like family, or even your favorite TV show. As long as there's something that would make you smile from the bottom of your heart, it will still struggle to love. In the end though, there are still hearts that can't go on. Basically, those that go into a stand still.

Dont put yourself in a predicament to be hurt!!!IF the persons you are expressing your love to doesnt love back, dust your feet and keep it moving !1NOthing wrong with being a loving person.But dont open your heart to everyone, some people are hard hearted and selfish. Chalk every relationship going bad up as a life lesson. After a while you will know who has your best interest or who will take your love for granted!

I think that our heart designed to love and get hurt. Because this question could be my question too? Why does heart always love while at the end it will get hurt. Our mind is really differ from our heart. Mind always think some good things that the we are not getting hurt all for the goodness and see the right but our heart always feel the love and don't like to stop even it makes us really down. Heart want to continue loving and to love again the seems don't like to stop. While our minds knows the right. How nice to be inlove says my heart,,,.. :)

i dont know why many love or our lovers push their want and hurt us in name of love...

Oh,it shows you are a sentient person.

Ya i keep asking myself the same thing over and over again. My heart already got hurt twice and still it learn to take the pain. I was alone for a long time but still my heat wept because the one i loved was no more with me. Even though my mind hated her i felt that my heart still liked her a lot. I can still remember the glorious days that we spend together. I also want to love again and i also want to be loved a lot by the person i love. There is no greater feeling than that for me! I hope that will be true one day! Cheers!

You have written very nice words, they deserve to be in a song or in the script of a movie. It is human nature and one can never run from it. If you love someone and get hurt then again you will love someone because it is a kind of addiction. It happens to me also and I think to everyone. Once you get to this addiction you will come back again and again.

Life is full of mysteries. That's for sure. Pain is part of living. But everyday, we grow. We mature. We learn from yesterday's mistakes. We learn from this morning's coffee experience. We were meant to love. That is innate in us. Whether it be our family, friends, or boyfriend. We were meant to love to keep harmony in life. We were meant to love so as not to feel alone. So as not to feel useless. We were meant to love because it's just the way life is. Getting hurt is just part of the process. Of course we don't like getting hurt. We don't like feeling pain. Whenever our heart gets hurt, we tell ourselves "I'll never love again". But we do, eventually. Why? Because it's in our nature to love. It's in our nature to share that love to others. There was a time when I got really, really hurt. For 5 years, I sulked on the fact that this guy hurt me so bad, I don't ever want to trust and love again. But time heals all wounds. Eventually I realized I can't prevent myself from loving again. There's more pain in doing that. I have to move on and start anew. If I ever get hurt again, it's okay. I will pick myself up and love again. Eventually. That's what you must instill in your heart. Getting hurt once or twice doesn't mean you'll get hurt again. It may be true, but at some point it'll stop. Pain and getting hurt is part of life. If you've never gotten hurt before, then you haven't lived at all. Have faith in love dear. Don't fight the feeling.