Why do we need Facebook?

Romania
February 14, 2011 11:19am CST
Facebook is a mistery to me. :) Why is there a need for it anyway? So many people have accounts. A few years back we didn't even have Internet and life was just fine. Can we not talk to people face to face any more?
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43 responses
• China
14 Feb 11
Of course we can talk face to face. And we are doing this too. well in my opinion we need facebook because in that site we can put our photo and get a good comment from our friends and we can share our status with people and people comment on that and this things make us so happy. And some people are in facebook as they want to make more friends and some are there as they want to connection with there friends.
• Romania
14 Feb 11
But is it really a necesity, or are we just using it because it's there? Do I really need to get my photo commented upon?
• Romania
14 Feb 11
Do I even need to share my photo with the rest of the world?
@zralte (4178)
• India
14 Feb 11
You don't have to share your photos if you don't want to. You don't even need to upload them. Again, it is a useful platform if you want to share your photos with your friends and families who are living far away from you.
@moneymommy (3418)
• United States
14 Feb 11
I use it to keep in contact with all my friends and relatives all over the world.
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• Romania
14 Feb 11
Is phone and regular mail not enough?
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• United States
15 Feb 11
Moneymommy, you hit the nail on the head! We live in a global society and therefore we are going to need a less expensive, faster means of communication! Facebook is simply a fun version to communicate!
@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
15 Feb 11
I took a long time to get a facebook, now that I have one I am glad that I do. its great to keep track of friends and family. Its great to share pics and juts keep in touch.
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• Romania
16 Feb 11
but how much time do you spend on it?
@derek_a (10873)
15 Feb 11
Well, I talk to many people face to face and have some great times with friends and family. I also have a Facebook account and find that it is a great way of communicating on-line and promoting my business programs I am involved in. I can't see the point of the games as I don't really enjoy playing computer games, but it is still a great way of making on-line friends and improving your personal presence on the web. _Derek
• United States
17 Feb 11
Some people crave attention...and fortunately, I am NOT linked to them! I admit, there was a time when I was guilty of that, but I haven't had computer access in three months and don't post too frequently.
@derek_a (10873)
17 Feb 11
No Alindobre, I wouldn't post my entire life there. I have seen some people who seem to do that, but I don't think it appropriate at all. There is always a risk of identify theft or something worse. It is happening too much these days as I read about it in the newspapers quite alot. There are some things that it's never wise to reveal on an on-line social site, or anywhere on line for that matter. _Derek
• Romania
16 Feb 11
I suppose you don't post your entire life there, do you? I don't really understand why some people do that
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@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
14 Feb 11
I think some people is relaly crazy about Facebook, they post their status when they do different things, forexample: I am going to the bathroom./I am stuck in the traffic./I am leaving my house now. etc... I just those are very silly... I live in a different state from my family and relatives so I mainly use Facebook to post my newborn baby's pictures so they can see on the internet and they can send me messages instaed of talking on the phone.
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• Romania
16 Feb 11
there is skype for phone calls anyway
@zralte (4178)
• India
14 Feb 11
Yes, life was definitely simpler. When I was in college, to send money to me, my mother had to go to the bank, make Demand Draft, and then send that by post. On my end, I have to go to the bank to cash it. Those days are long gone. Internet really makes the world smaller. Facebook has become really great because of the number of members they have, which in turn is because of its popularity. When I first had my FB account, there was not many people I know, so not very useful for me as a way of keeping in touch. Now, with almost everyone having their FB account, I can keep track of friends that I haven't seen or spoken to in YEARS. It is great. Face to face is wonderful, if you can do it. But when you are living far away from your friends and family, that just won't be possible, will it?
• Romania
14 Feb 11
I think that people move around much more than they used to. Even much more than they need to :) I think life is getting to be faster and faster and people don't really get to enjoy it...
• Romania
14 Feb 11
I think it is ok if your bussiness is Internet related. But if you give up your real life for the virtual one, that is a disaster, in my opinion.
@zralte (4178)
• India
14 Feb 11
Life is indeed getting faster and faster. And yes, I do think we have lost the ability to really enjoy bit by bit. Hmm...about people moving, may be they DO need to move. I agree with you that some people are enslaved by internet. Not just the internet, even their mobile phone. I guess I am a little enslave by the internet too. But our family business could not have survived without the internet.
• United States
15 Feb 11
Isn't Facebook a fancier, more complicated version of Mylot? And aren't both of them simply MUCH fancier method of communication than a phone call or face-to-face visit?
• United States
17 Feb 11
Both are forms of social networking though because of the exchange of money, there are far greater restrictions on Facebook than Mylot.
• Romania
16 Feb 11
Well, I see myLot more like a debate site - sure there is also the social network part also.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
15 Feb 11
i do agree with you. But i also wonder myself, i am also fond of facebook..probably because i can see old friends from grade school to high school to college days and in a way we get to talk and reconnect again through facebook.. imagine if it were still snail mails,h ahaha it takes months for my letters to arrive! hahaha
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
17 Feb 11
yes i am mostly on facebook just to post some pictures and send communicate to long lost friends. but i still can live without it. i do also yahoo and skype but my friends dont, thats why they settle for facebook because you cna see their profile and chat at the same time.
• Romania
16 Feb 11
I often use skype or Yahoo messenger to talk to my friends. The only usefuless I found for Facebook so far is to find long lost friends or colleagues. Do you spend much time on Facebook?
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
16 Feb 11
Hi alin, i am not a facebooker i can say. i need it to sell something. tech is a tool for us to make our life easier. and i guess that is why people does not need to talk face to face.. it can save money and time
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
17 Feb 11
it is hard to define the success. but in my case, face book helps me to socialite my goods so every body knows that i am selling something. i only can sell few, that is because i am so rare to sign in facebook or making some post in that site
• Romania
16 Feb 11
But do you have success in your commercial activity with it?
@LadyDD (515)
• Romania
16 Feb 11
Facebook is a new means of communication in modern times. People no longer use to go out much to socialize. They feel more comfortable at home either because of commodity or because of lack of time. Facebook is a comfortable means of knowing new people, business, making friends and so on.
@LadyDD (515)
• Romania
16 Feb 11
No, it is not good at all! I don't like it. I like to talk with people, to dance and go to trips in the nature. But when you are at home and alone for a certain reason, you can find comfort in Facebook.
• Romania
16 Feb 11
But is this hiding away a good thing, in your opinion? I think this is the road to living like in the "Surogates" movie :)
@polaris77 (2039)
• Bacau, Romania
14 Feb 11
We may need facebook and other social networks to communicate with people we know and who live far away and also to make new friends,but facebook can't substitute the normal,face-to-face relationships and the friends we have in real life.I think facebook is also useful when we feel lonely and we try to find someone to communicate with online,but I definitely don't think it's indispensable.As you said,a few years ago we didn't have Internet and we lived just fine.I think it's important not to isolate ourselves into the virtual world;if we manage to do that and keep a balance betwen face to face and online communication,we'll be fine.
• Romania
14 Feb 11
Balance has always been tricky... More and more people become addicted to this, would you agree?
@polaris77 (2039)
• Bacau, Romania
14 Feb 11
Yes,I agree,unfortunately;many people try to forget their troubles by spending more and more time online,and some of them loose contact with reality.Those people really need some kind of therapy to get rid of their addiction.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
15 Feb 11
You might as well ask 'Why do we need automobiles? A few years before the automobile we had people who walked and drove horse-drawn carriages, and that worked just fine. (Now try getting one of THOSE onto an American highway!) Can't people walk anymore?'
• Romania
16 Feb 11
It realy is not the same - the car is a necesity most of the time. And I'd walk to work if I had the time. But Facebook isn't saving people's time, it consumes it
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
16 Feb 11
You can tell all your friends whatever you're thinking by mail or by phone faster than you can 'post it on Facebook'? Impressive! But really, I understand; Facebook isn't where one should spend all their free-time, it's more like 'an answering machine'---you check your messages & return any that ask reply! Maybe they ought to have an automatically expiring cookie ... to where you've got to re-sign in every hour or half-hour---I know I'D get tired of signing-in and signing-in and signing-in ... Of course, that would be cruel to those of us who want to be automatically signed-in (not to mention those of us who have nothing better to do than socialize online.
@raj7shot (838)
• India
15 Feb 11
face book is not only the tool for our communication now-a-days.. Its also one of the tool we are using for keeping touch with our friend around the world...
• Romania
16 Feb 11
but did we need another such tool?
@raj7shot (838)
• India
18 Feb 11
Up to my point of view its not required...
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
15 Feb 11
Well facebook is like a home to me. Everyday, when on internet, if i'm not on facebook I have nothing else to do. Well now i do have mylot but i just started using it. And coz im so far from home, facebook is the one place where i get to know how my childhood friends are doing back home. and it's free lol
• Romania
16 Feb 11
So do you post on Facebook everything that you do?
• South Korea
17 Feb 11
Actually i used to mail my friends but they only replied if i posted comments on their walls lol. Basically that was how I got hooked to it. So well on a friend's wall i do write the things i did and stuffs.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
22 Feb 11
Hi. alindobre. Facebook is here for us all so that we can connect to people that we know. It is also a great place to meet new friends and people that you want to make as your new friends. It allows others whom are far away a chance to communicate. Some people are unable to talk face to face due to time, money and distance. Facebook reminds me more of an reunion and a rekindling relationship that is in process.
• Romania
22 Feb 11
I'm know its purpose, but do we really need it? Were there not enough communication tools already available to us?
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
14 Feb 11
thats good question... thats facebook can answer what we want.. facebook admin know that many of people still want to communicate each other but sometimes they are separated with the location and job activities.. and facebook offer the great solution for many of people
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
14 Feb 11
ya, finding old friends and relatives is one of the key success for facebook
• Romania
14 Feb 11
I agree to the "finding friends" idea. But I think some people lose themselves on these sites and put their entire life on display.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
15 Feb 11
Hi, Nowadays, in the age of science and technology, use of letters and telegrams have considerably decreased. In this new era, all are addicted towards Internet. Facebook is a social networking site which enables one to chat with their friends, relatives etc. without spending even a bit amount of money and within a few seconds. The fact cannot be denied that even E-mail is an alternative, but it cannot provide the continues chatting facility which is available in Facebook. It also provide the advantage of uploading photos, videos etc. I don't think there is any other site which may provide such facilities. Myself, a user of Facebook, doesn't feel that it can cause any harm to children of a particular age limit. So, Facebook is a convenient, handy, useful and a harmless site, if used in the best way. Regards, Thank-s
• Romania
16 Feb 11
well, chatting has been around since ages, it costs money, because you do pay for Internet anyway. As for photos, I'm not particularly happy about people knowing my photo. If I want to share it, I can use Yahoo messenger, and I share it only with the people I choose. More exposure to the world is not really a good thing. There are a lot of psychos out there and you would not want one of them to remember your face.
• Indonesia
15 Feb 11
not all of communication we can do face to face, sometimes we are so busy and can't meet someone. besides that, sometime, a situation is not possible to talk face to face, we are feel save and comfortable with sent a message or by text or picture to explain than meet face to face. we can find our old friend with facebook, or, we can know another friend with it. many thing we can do with facebook or other sites. just have fun with them, make them useful for us, not to hurt/ injure someone.
• Romania
16 Feb 11
Most people don't use it to harm others. But some do. And if you fall into addiction, you harm yourself, not others.
• Netherlands
15 Feb 11
That is a very good question i personally also dont like facebook much it is like who have the most internet friend is the coolest but i think it is good if you use it for real friends and not [people you know from ather people and they know them from ather people.
• Romania
16 Feb 11
I think you hit the spot with the "friends". Facebook makes the word friend lose its meaning. How many of your Facebook friends would junp in the water to save you from drowning? And if you had good friends, would you really need to find them with Facebook? I think you'd already have them on every means of communication already available.
@Ichiru101 (284)
• United States
22 Feb 11
I have it to stay in contact with family around the world. Long distant phone calls are really expensive. Plus with the different times it is had to talk with webcams.
• Romania
22 Feb 11
But you don't have webcam in Facebook, do you? And posting on another persons' Facebook page is not much more than leaving offline messages in Yahoo Messenger.