Is marriage is important for our life
By smilywomen
@surekharathi (14146)
India
March 19, 2011 6:56am CST
I know Life becomes a pleasant journey with a life partner. Someone as a partner is always ready to share your sorrows and happiness. Someone is loved you than all other world.
But rather this benefits the marriage is important and necessary for girls or boys. No one can live without marriage is it possible. Share your views what you think about it.
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36 responses
@sameer_1984 (215)
• India
19 Mar 11
Hello surekhaji,again you started a very good discussion.During a childhood we have our parents to take care of us and we can depend on them for all our problems.During a teenage,we have parents plus friends to share our feelings.But when we get matured we need a special companion to share our life.At this time,marriage can be really good option.Though I know many people living successful life without a marriage.As we all know most successful actor Salman khan haven't get married still now.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
1 Apr 11
ohhhhhhh friend once again a good reply definitely I will rated your response.
@cx258641 (109)
• China
19 Mar 11
hi sureharathi
sure marriage is not for everyone i think , in China there are monks once they stepped into the temple they will not allowed to marry all their lives, so if they chose it they chose not marry, whether the marriage is important or not it's depend on individuals' outlooks
for me i don't want to be a monk, cause i already have a girlfriend ,wife maybe ,so it is important for my life at present .
99% music sing about love instead of marriage , without marriage you still can love someone .
generally i think it is not very important .
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
19 Mar 11
okkkkkk thanks to put up your thoughts means you can prove marriage is not important for life
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
19 Mar 11
It might be important for some people but it's not important to me. I never had any desire to get married. I like my freedom. Call me selfish I don't care. I don't want to be tied down. If I decide I want to move across the country tomorrow I want to be able to do that without having to worry about anyone else.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
28 Mar 11
No not necessary to every people in even in every community also because I have seen maximum christenist or sister they not got marriage they gone church and stay there
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
1 Apr 11
ohhhhhh friend who is saying you marriage is useless things I never say this work becuause I am a married women but I am saying this is not necessary or compulsory on everybody by law or by any community if they want live without marriage okkkkkkkkkkk
@imnobodyspecial (318)
• United States
20 Mar 11
Marriage...is an individual choice. Some people find they need their times of solitude, to pursue their own goals without the distraction of another life involved. Others find they do not function well without someone close, that they need the esteem of this other to make them complete.
For some of us living without a mate is an extreme we'd rather not deal with and for others living with a mate challenges our very foundations.
Marriage...when two persons choose to be life partners, it is their choice, with or without the sanction of matrimony.
@blackhillsgold (88)
• United States
21 Mar 11
to yoursomebodyspecial
:)
It is rare to find someone who understands what I(we) have chosen, I understand that you were just posting a response, but I felt a need to comment on this
FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART
THANK YOU!!!!
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
21 Mar 11
Yes friend this is true marriage is an individual choice not be bound on any. Marriage decision should be their own no one can force on it. If the person stable on his/her decision
@imnobodyspecial (318)
• United States
22 Mar 11
And you are welcome. I am glad I could say something that helps you be comfortable that others can understand the choices.
@dreamsharmin (2281)
• China
21 Mar 11
In my thought marriage is important for life. As we all want a happy life and when we get any good life partner then our life become more happier so it's important. Marriage make the relation more strong so it's also essential.
Good day!
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
21 Mar 11
Yes marriage is important to make a life happier because a good partner is a part of our life.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
1 Apr 11
Now it is, I really concentrate in the now and until 27 I always had a lot of fun and a crazy life, I'm not married yet but I try to put the fiancés carring right after carring for me cause he does so many good things for me that I want to give him back.
Also, right there in the second priority are my rescued pets! Some of them need even psychological attention, they are traumatized and need a lot of carring and love.
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
21 Mar 11
Marriage is not necessary at all, believe me, I have been there and done that. Marriage is a hoax. People change when that piece of paper is involved. I should know, my ex was one way before we got married and a different way after we got married. I do no longer believe in that INSTITUTION called marriage. Living with someone is exactly the same except they cannot screw you and take you for everything. DO NOT GET MARRIED!!!!
@blackhillsgold (88)
• United States
21 Mar 11
I can understand where you are coming from seeing as how you feel you got burned. But where you say "I do no longer believe in the INSTITUTION called marriage." what made you believe in it before?
Please keep in mind, I am not trying to be flip about this, I really want to know what made you believe in it before?
@samaveda (25)
• India
20 Mar 11
Hi! Surekharathi, I agree with ur opinion. Though brothers sisters cousins r our family but husband children in-laws are the main wings of our family. We feel owners and rulers, and emperors of this family. This family keeps us away from loneliness. Those that feel marriage is not that important realise and experience the loneliness though they r among so many family members, At the later stages of life, that is after retirement from services, they feel the blunder they have done chosing the bachelor life. As you opined life is a pleasant journey with all up and downs.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
20 Mar 11
Thanks to put up your valuable thoughts really marriage is not perform to remove the loneliness but its perform for other family members also.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
21 Mar 11
Yes after marriage we can feel I am safe thanks to put your vies
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
19 Mar 11
Marriage is important for your reputation forever. That's the main bad-thing about singleness: after I'm gone, I don't leave a legitimate legacy.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
20 Mar 11
Hey mythociate
Enlighten me with "reputation forever" I don't quite grasp that phrase. lol
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
20 Mar 11
'Reputation' is sort of like "status"---e.g. I have a good 'reputation' if you tell your kids the cool things Uncle J said
'Reputation forever' is what your status will always be---e.g. I don't think I ever met my great-grandfathers, but I KNOW they were all pretty-cool because they helped raise my grandparents, my own parents and aunts and uncles, and a lot of my cousins.
@investor211 (474)
• Mexico
20 Mar 11
in my personal opinion, merriage is not important.
its just a procedure to follow to have a document and be identify as a member or circle in the social
dictated by law, in other words can be to give work to lawyers ehehheh
i think is not really important as long as the couple love each other.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
20 Mar 11
Yes this is true marriage is not important but for the society member and our family member it should be performed. This is true till the couple not love each other is not important.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
20 Mar 11
Ye friend I know this is part of life but I want to know it is must and never can live without marriage
Thanks to put your thoughts
@sunny5u (2069)
• India
19 Mar 11
Hi surekhaji, in my view marriage is important, a journey with a single soul is always boring , it needs some other soul to join us which gives pleasure and more fun and more we can enjoy our journey ...that's my opinion.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
1 Apr 11
Ya this is true for enjoying the life marriage is good but necessary not means the govt could not compulsory for peoples to do the marriage thanks to response
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
20 Mar 11
marriage is not really important for me.my freedom and independence is important to me.if I get married,then great.if I don't, then it's ok.my life's purpose doesn't solely depend on me getting married.life is all about living it with purpose and passion.if the idea of marriage makes you feel nauseous,then by all means don't get married.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
20 Mar 11
ohhhhhhh friend marriage is not important for you only fore these reasons leave your freedom and independence or in general way. Thanks to put your thoughts
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
19 Mar 11
Yes this is true marriage means not only union of two hearts but also union of two souls. But this is not important for each and every person.
Thanks for response
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
20 Mar 11
Thanks to your response you are telling the marriage is important yes but I want to know one can live without marriage or alone.
This is true its provide security specially in case of women.
@DrGuruindia (83)
• India
19 Mar 11
Marriage is like an aggrement, which is important for a family life and childrens, India, it is also most important when we are living with parents and getting support of relatives.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
1 Apr 11
yes in India it is necessary at least for our family members thanks for response
@Katerose17 (20)
• Philippines
20 Mar 11
Marriage is very important that's why we must get married when we are ready and sure not because of other reasons or else it won't work out.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
20 Mar 11
Thanks for put your views
Dear friend this is not reason marriage important so you get married but yes you can say marriage important