i cant move on,,,,,,,,,,why..........

I think you should tell your boyfriend about this conversation. If he loves you, the relationship last. I believe his mother shouldn't have called you and tell you to leave her son. By doing this, she is not showing you or your relationship with her son any respect. She is only thinking of her own needs. You need to ask yourself, is stay or leaving what's best for you. At this point, I would even take his mother into considation. What does your boyfriend want? Best Wishes!

For me yes I have encounter it before so be it and prayed to Jehovah God that he can answer your prayer.

I'm sure there is more to that story but I don't think it's fair for them to make you leave your boyfriend so they can get money. Why can't you be together and still help them out if you can?

That was sad, asliah. She crossed the line talking to you like that, using abusive words. I am sorry to hear this. I hope your boyfriend knows about this. Not to be hard on you, dear, but this is a really difficult situation and you will one day have to let go of it and move on. I am sure everything is going to be okay with time.

To make things clear, does your boyfriend knows about this? What did he say? If does not know then you should tell him. Explain to him that you not making him choose. It's just you don't appreciate what his mother told you and that you want to make things better with his mother. If his mother is just so out of it that she would not even hear anything about you then there really is a problem. Your boyfriend really now have to choose between you too. On the other hand, if your boyfriend knows about this and said nothing then he is a loser and a coward. You deserve better. The bottom line is if you love him and he loves you back then he should do something to make things better between you and his mother. His mother sound like a piece of work.

If you're boyfriend is aware of this and just not doing anything, then there's no use in holding on to the relationship. If he's not ready to be with you, then let him go. If he's telling you he loves you but just couldn't stand up to his parents yet as he has some responsibility then let him go for not having a backbone. The parents seem to be scared that all you want is money from him and if that's what they think, then let it be and prove to them later on that you are a much better person than they think. If you and your boyfriend are really meant for each other, but now is not the perfect time, love will find a way someday. So good luck to you.

tough since it involves financial matters.. the thing is if you continue your relationship with your boyfriend, the mother issue will still come between you, does he know about it? be careful since he might or might not believe. Plus if sooner or later, you will both get married, you will still have to face the wrath of her mother, she will always be part of your lives since she is the MOTHER...but that is your call, you can either talk to your bf about it, explain, if you do not want to break up, fight for him and let mother see htat financial matters can still be solved and settled..but then your bf is not tied to his mother all his life..he must be able to save and settle on his own right? if you are willing to fight then go. but if you will think you will get hurt or someone will get hurt, get out sooner rather than be sorry. Think about it deep and well.

Sorry to know about it, my friend. You need to ask your boyfriends opinion regarding that matter and talk it very seriously. Because matter gives you more stress and depression if you cannot cope up that situation...

It's really hard to move on and forget those harsh words being said to you. Even if I was on your part, the words spoken to me will replay again and again on my mind no matter how or what I do to forget it. I think you have to pray to God to keep you more stronger. Ask your bf for support so he could at least tell his mom not to do that to you again. That they should somehow respect your bf's decision to live with you. Just be strong my friend.

Hi, I'm sorry to know about your situation. I guess its time for you and our partner to sit and talk about this matter. Every relationship has different scenario's and the best person who could resolve this are the persons involved.

Talk to her and tell her the truth that your boyfriend will still support her~She is your future mother in law, you like it or not you need to have a good relationship with her.Perhaps both of you and your boyfriend could have a talk with her so she will understand the truth at the first place.

It would be always difficult to deal with such that situation. But why did not you say to your boy friend's mother, that you do not love money of your lover, you just love your boyfriend as it is. And tell her, please take your child's money....but i just want to take your kids love....!

Hi Asliah, My feelings are with you and i can totally understand how you must be feeling at the moment. Did you tell your boyfriend about this? I think you better tell him straight away and ask him to convince his mom. I am sure his mother will understand if he calmly talks to her.

That's really bad. I hope you two can work out a way good for both you and his parents. Maybe you two can give some money to their parents per month

oh that's real bad sis, hope you are feeling better now . His mom is mature acted out of insecurity and such behavior of her is not expected as she is elder than you.But some people thinks with age comes maturity , in my opinion her outburst on you was total childish and not mature.On your part you acted very maturely as you didn't raise your own voice which could have worsened the matter so you deserve hug for it first sis Tell your boyfriend the total situation and ask him to reassure his mom and don't worry she will surely feel bad about what she did was wrong but don't expect sorry from her as she is elder and won't be able to say sorry to someone younger than her. soon she will realize that you are also part of family and you are not trying to steal her son and also tell your boyfriend to talk calmly with his mom , if in anger he shouts on his mom it will also worsen the situation. These relationships are of delicate nature so one must tread carefully. I am happy that you showed so much maturity sis , now be happy

Hello Asliah, It seems the parents have definitely Shown their TRUE intentions and COLORS of being a BAD @SS MOM! But I don't have the right to judge, i bet my mom would make a bit of a discriminatory mark, and this bf's mom of yours were thinking of something even more selfish in terms of financial benefit. she ain't a negotiator like my mom is, too bad. you have been mature handling this situation well. well, this relationship is solely decided by the both of you and not the nagging mom of his

There are just horrible things that happens in life and you just have to deal with it. You'll eventually understand it as you grow old. You can learn from it as well so just be thankful for experiencing it. Look at the bright side, at least you'll be able to go clubbing with friends or something, right?

Why don't you tell her that she's barking at the wrong tree? and that if there's someone she should talk it should be her own son. Not unless your boyfriend is a minor of course.

Great. It seems like she wants her son to be her milking cow for the rest of his life. If you have a future, go for it. What's more important is that there should be a future for both of you. Our lives are meant for the next generations, and not for the past.