Why do women wear makeup?

April 30, 2011 7:14am CST
I've always thought that women were prettier without paint on their faces. It's just my opinion, but I'd much rather see a woman's real beauty (which every woman has in some way, if you ask me) than an attempt at making themselves "perfect" or "ideal". Is makeup an attempt to conform to a socially-accepted standard? Is it something you wear just for yourself? Why do you wear makeup? I'd love to know.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
1 May 11
The ideal is impossible. We know that's not true (that 'ideal' is simply not an objective reality, but something held subjectively in each man's subconscious, different for each man). But what we men prize above perfection is obedience. Women are shown the 'objective' ideal, and--the more they can remake themselves in ITS image--the more obedient (and thus more-worthy of our love) they prove themselves to be.
1 May 11
Obedience? Why would I want a woman to be obedient? I'd hate that. I want an equal, not a subject.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
2 May 11
I didn't mean 'obedient to the men themselves,' I meant 'obedient to the same "laws" the man is himself obedient-to.' It's like a machine; you want to spend more time working with a machine that does what it's designed to do than with a machine that doesn't. I know 'humans aren't machines' etc.; but we are ... a little bit.
• Indonesia
1 May 11
I prefer girls that don't use make up, beside if she's pretty, she still pretty with or without make up. But I think girls want to get prettier, it's girl's nature that they want to draw attention, although they prolly not realize it. They love when lot of man looking at her, just like we like if lot of girls looking at us.
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1 May 11
Personally, I'd hate to have a lot of girls looking at me. It'd make me very nervous...
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
10 May 11
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
1 May 11
I hate wearing make up. The only reason I wear it is because it's required for my job. Women wear make up for men bottom line. However I've never had a boyfriend ever tell me to wear make up.
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@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
1 May 11
Yes it is a requirement stated in our uniform guidelines. I have to wear lipstick, blush and mascara that's the minimum however I don't wear mascara because I absolutely hate it. I work in front of the public so they want us look as professional as possible and that includes make up.
1 May 11
Required for your job?! Yikes! Do you mean it's actually an official requirement that you wear makeup or that everyone does and is expected to (via social pressure)?
• United States
30 Apr 11
I don't wear make up but when I do do which is hardly ever I will just put on some lip gloss and a small amount of eye liner. I just can not wear it because it breaks my skin out and mascara burns my eyes. But 98% of the time I don't wear it because of that.I just think when I wear eyeliner with a blue shirt it brings on the blue in my eyes so I have been told.
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1 May 11
"it brings on the blue in my eyes so I have been told." - so you wear a little because it appears to please other people, right?
• United States
1 May 11
For my husband sometimes but he said I don't really need make up. but I only use it maybe once or twice a year.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
1 May 11
hi spike, first and foremost, ladies put on makeup and using creative ideas to enhance their features or even to hide some features that aren’t particularly appealing. the basic reasons is to gain self-confidence. make-up sprinkles beauty dust of self confidence on a woman like something you have never seen. suddenly you see that little hint of, "yeah, look at me", and that little difference that makes you want to run into an old flame, or an old classmate and show them that you are looking good. whatever the reason for women to use makeup, the moderate use of modern products can enhance the natural features of any woman. have a nice day. ann
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1 May 11
So, reading between the lines, it's a sort of one-upmanship: "I look better than you! Hahaha!" thing? (Not necessarily in a bad way, of course.) Makeup gives people the message that you're doing great because you think you look good with it?
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
10 May 11
guess you can say that. more confidence and feeling standing out from the rest especially that your hidden beautiful features as enhanced.
• United States
1 May 11
I think alot of women wear makeup to feel beautiful or to hide imperfections, I guess you can say. I used to wear makeup alot when I was younger, but now I am all natural. to be honest I don't need it. my husband tells me i am beautiful all the time.
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1 May 11
So, reading between the lines, you wore makeup to feel beautiful? Was that the usual teenage/young adult "I'm conforming" thing where we all want to be accepted by our peers and thus attempt to look like everyone else?
• United States
1 May 11
pretty much, when your a teenager you just want to be accepted like you said and of course want to look and feel beautiful. Back then it was all about looks, but not so much nowdays. I believe that it shouldn't be about your looks,but about the person you are inside. You can be beautiful regardless of how you look. Makeup just disguises how you look on the outside, but doesn't on how you are on the inside.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
1 May 11
A lady wears make up to try to make herself look more attractive. Many teenage girls wear make up and this becomes a habit for them. They feel right if they wear make up and it they don't they feel strange. I don't wear make up but I used to in my teens and early twenties. I don't feel the need to wear make up and think that some ladies like it so use on their face. I wear daily disposable contact lenses and find glasses uncomfortable plus bothersome to wear.
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1 May 11
"A lady wears make up to try to make herself look more attractive" - to me this screams that they're trying to conform to some kind of socially-accepted (or marketing-generated) ideal. Correct me if I'm wrong.
@kishuchi (71)
• India
7 May 11
Natural beauty is always better than the painted one.But everyone is not blessed with a beautiful face.And it is everybody's wish to look appealing and be praised by people.A little makeup on special occassions is always good.But on daily basis one should always try to be free from makeup,which otherwise on daily application makes person so much dependent that by not putting on makeup the face looks drained out.
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7 May 11
I think you're wrong: everyone IS naturally beautiful. Society teaches us otherwise, but I've never met a woman I consider ugly.
@06MLam (620)
30 Apr 11
People are not confident enough to show their real faces to the others because they think that they are not pretty enough but I think that some of them look better without makeup because their makeup skills are really horrible.
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30 Apr 11
I know what you mean. Looking back at the 1970s and 1980s, I sometimes wonder what people were thinking, plastering on huge amounts of makeup. Ugh! Still, it was fashionable at the time (and what about the freaky hair?!).
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
every time i go out, i always make sure i put on some sun block to protect my skin from the harmful rays of the sun i put on some powder with SPF and the main reason is because i have an oily skin and also another way to protect my skin because it has SPF. and i also dab on some lipstick because i just want to add some color to my lips so i wouldn't look so pale. i don't use some blush on my cheeks anymore. when i go to parties like in a club, i do wear make up and that is just some moisturizer, blush on, and lipstick and the main purpose is to just enhance my look hehe. just that, no more than that like eye liner, mascara etc etc, unless maybe i have a photo shoot hahahahahha which is impossible to happen to me LOL
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30 Apr 11
That seems to be a common use, to take care of (relatively) oily skin. Nice to see the practical side as well, with sun protection. Thanks!
@katrinapaz (2436)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
i am a woman and i dont wear make up most of the time. i only wear it in times of special occasion so that the people or my partner can see that i reall have prepared for the event. I feel that women wear make up because it enhances their beauty and also gives them more confidence.
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30 Apr 11
That's a reason I can understand, much like a guy not going to the occasion in old jeans and scruffy shoes. Makeup as part of getting gussied up... yup, makes sense! Thanks.
@sashakiddo (1102)
• United States
1 May 11
I don't wear make up often, but after seeing everyone else wearing it I feel the pressure to wear it. Women are expected to look pretty, almost as if the essence of woman is beauty more than anything else. If a woman isn't pretty, she needs to put on that make up, or no one will like her, so the story goes. And now that everyone is learning makeup tutorials from youtube, the standards are high. We can't survive without makeup.
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1 May 11
"We can't survive without makeup" - now there's a frightening tribute to the power of a patriarchal society.
@ajk111 (2495)
1 May 11
i do not know why women wear make up because by the end of the night, 9 times out of 10 it's us men that have to make up!
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1 May 11
Mwuhahaha, what an great play on words. Love it!
@mallu30 (461)
• India
1 May 11
I am not a woman to give answer to this. However, I can say that the make up gives the woman natural beauty and due to looking pretty and young, the confidence of woman also will increase. women with natural beauty impress the men mostly.
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1 May 11
That's odd. To me, makeup is the furthest thing possible from "natural beauty". It's completely unnatural and hides the natural - that is, indeed, its very purpose!
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
30 Apr 11
Apart from an insignificant dab of powder on my face I do not wear makeup.But, when I attend a party or a wedding I wear makeup[this is just an additional moisturiser beneath the layer of powder] that is still not too significant by normal standards of 'make-up'. I wear this so that I would not sweat and look all sticky and uncomfortable.At least I feel good when I come back home and look at myself in the mirror.
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30 Apr 11
Thanks - another 'why' answer at last!
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
1 May 11
For me they feel young if they ware makeup it is for the social life of the girl if not then they stay as simple.
@gmkumar08 (396)
• India
30 Apr 11
Well,i think the only reason why the women do make up is to look beautiful.Coz have you ever seen anyone without make up?Just think about it.If you feel that i'm wrong,then post a comment.
30 Apr 11
Of course I've seen people without makeup - that's where my question originated.
@moksha09 (467)
• India
1 May 11
Women wear make up to look better. But the trouble starts when they decide to be the best and instead of enhancing their positives they end up creating a monstrous look. I like women who wear make up in a discreet way. But sometimes the provocative make up is good too. but the loud make up is a turn off. but the expertise lies in knowing the difference.
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@tink91879 (742)
• United States
30 Apr 11
I wear make up sometimes, depends on the day. I stay at home with my kids and dont feel the need to waste make up. When I leave the house I make sure i look decent with my hair combed and styled and a nice shirt and jeans, but make up dosent always make it on the list. When i go on a date with my husband i wear it or when we go to a function. Mainly just because I want to dress up a bit. I want to feel good about myself and I guess fit in some. When going grocery shopping or just running some errands, I feel Im not there to impress and Im not leaving in sweats, just didnt need to paint my face that day.
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30 Apr 11
That sounds very well-adjusted and normal. I suppose it's like dressing smart/cool to feel good. Interesting, thank you!
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
hello! owlwings had something going on there...In addition... I'm a woman and I seldom wear make-up. But I do think wearing make-up is necessary, especially if you're a professional. I'm a nurse and we need to at least make ourselves presentable. Not the heavy kind of make-up, but something to make the eyes pop, something to not let our faces look dry. If I were a patient myself, I would love to be tended by someone who's not unkempt or disheveled!:D It's just really pleasing to look at and makes someone think: "If they can take care of themselves, then they can take care of me." :)
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30 Apr 11
Very interesting - I've sometimes wondered if health professionals are limited in what they're allowed to wear, as it could end up on their hands. Very good point about our perception of someone taking care of themself.